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Being a father is one of my 3 great goals in life. Getting a wife isn’t even one of them, it’s just having a biological offspring that I could call my own. It sucks that I have to do this but regardless, I’m going to have to. When I turn 30, I should have my life together enough to be able to finance a child and be responsible to raise it all on my own. When I turn 29 and 3 months old, I will unfortunately have to pay a woman to carry my child, shit, I’ll even pay extra to nut in her. Once I have my kid, I’ll be the best father I can possibly be. Bar none. It’s bad that I have to pay a woman, but sacrifices have to be made to achieve goals sometimes in life, this is just one of the really bad ones.

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Note: having a wife was a goal, just not one of the three GREAT ones
 
Being a father is one of my 3 great goals in life. Getting a wife isn’t even one of them, it’s just having a biological offspring that I could call my own. It sucks that I have to do this but regardless, I’m going to have to. When I turn 30, I should have my life together enough to be able to finance a child and be responsible to raise it all on my own. When I turn 29 and 3 months old, I will unfortunately have to pay a woman to carry my child, shit, I’ll even pay extra to nut in her. Once I have my kid, I’ll be the best father I can possibly be. Bar none. It’s bad that I have to pay a woman, but sacrifices have to be made to achieve goals sometimes in life, this is just one of the really bad ones.

happy will smith GIF
 
I hope it's a girl
 
Men can legally do this in Ukraine. And it doesn't cost a huge amount of money either.
 
D

Do you think I can teach her not to be hypergamous? Or would she be doomed from the start?
All women are the same. The good thing is she will live life in tutorial mode regardless of her appearance
 
All women are the same. The good thing is she will live life in tutorial mode regardless of her appearance
Daughter = Almost guaranteed grandchildren/lineage survival for at least a little bit
 
Too far brocel.
In Moldova it's easy to adopt. They rubber-stamp it to get the kids out of the orphanages. And since they now have gender equality thanks to their EU ambitions, they legally have to allow single men to adopt.
 
In Moldova it's easy to adopt. They rubber-stamp it to get the kids out of the orphanages. And since they now have gender equality thanks to their EU ambitions, they legally have to allow single men to adopt.
W Europe nigga
 
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Being a father is one of my 3 great goals in life. Getting a wife isn’t even one of them, it’s just having a biological offspring that I could call my own. It sucks that I have to do this but regardless, I’m going to have to. When I turn 30, I should have my life together enough to be able to finance a child and be responsible to raise it all on my own. When I turn 29 and 3 months old, I will unfortunately have to pay a woman to carry my child, shit, I’ll even pay extra to nut in her. Once I have my kid, I’ll be the best father I can possibly be. Bar none. It’s bad that I have to pay a woman, but sacrifices have to be made to achieve goals sometimes in life, this is just one of the really bad ones.

happy will smith GIF
Based. I might do the same tbh. Just pick the best woman money can buy bc traits like iq, height, etc are from the x chromosome of the mother. doing so would compensate for your dysgenic x and y chromosomes. Better not subject our kids to what we've gone through
 
Daughter = Almost guaranteed grandchildren/lineage survival for at least a little bit
Daughter = easier time raising her, you cannot fail at raising a daughter.
 
D

Do you think I can teach her not to be hypergamous? Or would she be doomed from the start?
No.

You can only direct her negative impulses to healthier ends.

Instead of Chad and Tyrone fuckbois you could theoretically guide her to dating only sincere Chad lover boys for early relationships one of which could hopefully lead to a lifetime marriage.

Girls only tend to grow up well adjusted in this regard if they have a father they can respect that’s a real man and that stands for something ie could be traditional values of god and country or whatever but he’s definitely not a permissive liberal beta male cuckold that tries to be her friend more than her father and who has a spineless and crawling and sneaky duplicitous nature while pretending to be a moral paragon.
 
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You can only direct her negative impulses to healthier ends.

Instead of Chad and Tyrone fuckbois you could theoretically guide her to dating only sincere Chad lover boys for early relationships one of which could hopefully lead to a lifetime marriage.

Girls only tend to grow up well adjusted in this regard if they have a father they can respect that’s a real man and that stands for something ie could be traditional values of god and country or whatever but he’s definitely not a permissive liberal beta male cuckold that tries to be her friend more than her father and who has a spineless and crawling and sneaky duplicitous nature while pretending to be a moral paragon.
Thanks for the words of wisdom brocel.
 
May I ask why you want children? I have never understood anyone wanting children.
 
Your just selfishly bringing someone into a life of torture

By the time the kid has become even 10 the world will be a much worse place then it even is now
 
Your just selfishly bringing someone into a life of torture

By the time the kid has become even 10 the world will be a much worse place then it even is now
wanting to have kids is a human instinct
 
wanting to have kids is a human instinct
As a blackpilled incel you know that you are only bringing your subhuman kids into suffering
 
As a blackpilled incel you know that you are only bringing your subhuman kids into suffering
thats true but i think hes talking about adopting one or something
 
Inceldom discussed
 
Good luck with that, i do not see the point of having a child without a wife but if you think you can carry and it will make you happy go for it.
 
If its a son gg
 
29 and 3 months old
Your child delivered to you ON your birthday kek.

The WHY is very understandable
just curious about the HOW

Are you going to work and take care of the baby and toddler at the same time? or day-care, hire a (hot) nanny, or will you be millionaire by then being able to stop for a few years? getting children from day care seems tough to combine being a single parent when day care ends at 4 and making enough money for a big enough house seems to take many more hours, because of the housing prices being so high because of double income persones push the prices up. will you even have time to see them is my question. Or will "grandma" happily help out? Your goals sound like a lot of multi-tasking.
What are your thoughts about that?
 
I defended commercial surrogacy in this thread though it's sort of a shitpost:

 
good luck to you, man. I think that's great. if you're still on this forum when that happens, make sure you tell us how that goes for you.
 
Good for you. I personally would be a shitty father.
 
I have a feeling they are going to deny you for adoption solely based on your looks, If they do please tell us.
 
Being a father is one of my 3 great goals in life. Getting a wife isn’t even one of them, it’s just having a biological offspring that I could call my own. It sucks that I have to do this but regardless, I’m going to have to. When I turn 30, I should have my life together enough to be able to finance a child and be responsible to raise it all on my own. When I turn 29 and 3 months old, I will unfortunately have to pay a woman to carry my child, shit, I’ll even pay extra to nut in her. Once I have my kid, I’ll be the best father I can possibly be. Bar none. It’s bad that I have to pay a woman, but sacrifices have to be made to achieve goals sometimes in life, this is just one of the really bad ones.

happy will smith GIF
I'm not a huge fan of surrogacy, but if you do it, I hope you're a good father! Leave this forum, raise your son or daughter with values, and make them happy and virtuous. It's very difficult to raise a child these days. I think a good local or religious community can also help. Good luck
 
Same nigga I just want a kid, I got a job and everything ready to raise a child properly
 
Ok whatever you say woody allen
 
What type of women? Some ladyfriend, an Escort, Greencardmaxxing? You have a stable career or are planning to NEET? The logistics on this is a little crazy if you didn't plan it out.
 
I hope it's a girl
Ontologically and individually speaking, i prefer having a daughter because she will live in easy mode and even if a nigger or chink breeds with her at least my genes will be passed. I hope when WW3, rape or mate with a foid in the Battle of New Khartoum and getting her pregnant. I don't mind raising, i only want passing my genes. This or going to SEA and paying some native tribeswoman to use her and creampie at least everyday for 30 days, then i will go back to yuropland. She will bear my child.
 
Well I hope it turns out well for you. Normally I would hope someone to at least have a partner before having a child, but incels really are the exception as no woman would dare date nor reproduce with an incel voluntarily so that really can't be helped. There are so many shitty parents and people in this world, so it would be good you made someone grow up happy in life.
I guess the real question is if given an opportunity can you be given the choice of who can be the surrogate? because if so you could at least try and find a taller woman if possible.
I wish you good luck
 

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