The part you quoted is obviously water, it just was introduction to my post.
I’ve been feeling especially shit for like a month now, it’s spring now and the weather is beautiful but not even that makes me feel much better.
I’m just passing time with whatever I can, sleeping, scrolling my phone or rotting in front of my computer, browsing this forum, working out, reading.
I think the best cope would be to find those things you’re good at and start working a job that you at the very least don’t hate. None of the NEETcels here can NEET forever, we’re going to have to a work one day and will spend most our lives working.
You already understand that there’s no permanent solution. The solution, in my opinion, is to go through life somehow without being miserable. That you find the things you enjoy and immerse yourself into them. It’s not a permanent solution as there isn’t one, the only permanent “fix” would be suicide, but I doubt you want to do that. As an incel it’s a particularly difficult thing to find these things, but it may be not impossible. Another solution would be to find people irl who make you feel better about yourself (i.e. give you external validation, we all need it, don’t say you don’t), but again, as an incel you’re on extra hard mode.
I couldn’t find that exact quote, but Schopenhauer wrote in one of his books that “life is not about finding happiness, it’s about going through it with the least amount of suffering and pain”.
