I mean that's an extreme scenario. Most of the time, I don't want to engage with them cause it's like talking to a brick wall. No matter what you say they will spout some biased rhetoric back. I would rather not participate than resort to their methods. It physically hurts me if I am forced into a situation where I have to enact unfairness due to being provoked. I'd rather avoid those situations than change my personality. People overestimate how much you can change yourself after a certain age. You can change your mindset but not the way you naturally deal with people in arguments and other sort of competitive environments. Like if you've always wanted to win a video game properly instead of smurfing or getting boosted you cant just force yourself to like smurfing.
yes this is what i mean, when you are fair you literally dont care enough to hate most people or ideologies cause you know most beliefs or personalities are flawed
