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It's Over I’m 21 right now. I can’t be 25 and still a virgin.

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Making this post in condolences to the 24 year old who posted today saying it’s his birthday and he’s still incel. If I get to that point, I’m going to start planning my rope day. I’ll never be able to look my family members in the eye knowing they know how much of a loser I am. Jesus fuck what a disappointment I am. :feelsrope:
almost 18 and Kissless fml
 
Making this post in condolences to the 24 year old who posted today saying it’s his birthday and he’s still incel. If I get to that point, I’m going to start planning my rope day. I’ll never be able to look my family members in the eye knowing they know how much of a loser I am. Jesus fuck what a disappointment I am. :feelsrope:
25 and never had a kiss..Dont rope instead careermaxx and pay for the service..
 
25 and never had a kiss..Dont rope instead careermaxx and pay for the service..
I will soon turn 28. Everything I was ever allowed to was paying for it. If you don’t get laid before 21 its 99% over. At 25 its 100% over.
 
28 years old

you stop caring after a while OP

It seemed like a huge deal at age 21-23 but at this point it's like sex is a myth... it only exists in porn
I agree. I'm also approaching the dreaded 30-year-old mark and I feel the same as you. It's a strange kind of bittersweet melancholy that washes over you. You start to fully realize and completely accept that it is indeed all over. Even if you could salvage your love life at some point in the past, you passed the point of no return a long time ago.

When you're in your teens / early 20s you feel a massive sense of urgency. It's like you HAVE to act RIGHT now or you will miss it all out. Men that age, me including, oftentimes go on a hellbent spree trying to looksmaxx as much as possible. Guys will do anything to improve their SMV.

But then you're closer and closer to 25 and nothing helped. You didn't get anything, and suddenly you're closer to 30 than to 20. Your youth and your prime are over and they sucked. The best part of your life is now behind you, and you didn't even get any enjoyment out of it. You're going to spend the next 40+ years in declining health either working or living on a dole. Things won't get any better and you're too old to keep lying to yourself that there's a bright future ahead of you.

You're not missing out anymore. That ship has sailed. It's past tense now. You missed out and it's over. Then that massive pressure you used to feel when you were in your teens and early 20s is gone. Nothing you can do now anyway. Nothing will fix the broken mess that is your love life. There's no easy fix. In fact, there's no fix at all. You missed out on too many crucial development milestones.

It's kind of like when you're late for an important appointment, maybe a job interview or something like that. You're panicking. You're hurrying. You're stressed out to the max but then you look at the time and you know you're way past the point where you could still make it. It suddenly all goes away. Yeah, it fucking sucks that you missed out, but what can be done at this point? Nothing.

It's a sense of bittersweet fatalism that never goes away.
 
I agree. I'm also approaching the dreaded 30-year-old mark and I feel the same as you. It's a strange kind of bittersweet melancholy that washes over you. You start to fully realize and completely accept that it is indeed all over. Even if you could salvage your love life at some point in the past, you passed the point of no return a long time ago.

When you're in your teens / early 20s you feel a massive sense of urgency. It's like you HAVE to act RIGHT now or you will miss it all out. Men that age, me including, oftentimes go on a hellbent spree trying to looksmaxx as much as possible. Guys will do anything to improve their SMV.

But then you're closer and closer to 25 and nothing helped. You didn't get anything, and suddenly you're closer to 30 than to 20. Your youth and your prime are over and they sucked. The best part of your life is now behind you, and you didn't even get any enjoyment out of it. You're going to spend the next 40+ years in declining health either working or living on a dole. Things won't get any better and you're too old to keep lying to yourself that there's a bright future ahead of you.

You're not missing out anymore. That ship has sailed. It's past tense now. You missed out and it's over. Then that massive pressure you used to feel when you were in your teens and early 20s is gone. Nothing you can do now anyway. Nothing will fix the broken mess that is your love life. There's no easy fix. In fact, there's no fix at all. You missed out on too many crucial development milestones.

It's kind of like when you're late for an important appointment, maybe a job interview or something like that. You're panicking. You're hurrying. You're stressed out to the max but then you look at the time and you know you're way past the point where you could still make it. It suddenly all goes away. Yeah, it fucking sucks that you missed out, but what can be done at this point? Nothing.

It's a sense of bittersweet fatalism that never goes away.

Brutal high quality post.

I think I started realizing that it was all over at age 24. Then 25 and I felt so fucking old. Then 26 and at 27 I just kind of got over it. Now I am just coping with vidya games at age 28.
 
I will be 27 in two months. I would be, tbh.
 
I agree. I'm also approaching the dreaded 30-year-old mark and I feel the same as you. It's a strange kind of bittersweet melancholy that washes over you. You start to fully realize and completely accept that it is indeed all over. Even if you could salvage your love life at some point in the past, you passed the point of no return a long time ago.

When you're in your teens / early 20s you feel a massive sense of urgency. It's like you HAVE to act RIGHT now or you will miss it all out. Men that age, me including, oftentimes go on a hellbent spree trying to looksmaxx as much as possible. Guys will do anything to improve their SMV.

But then you're closer and closer to 25 and nothing helped. You didn't get anything, and suddenly you're closer to 30 than to 20. Your youth and your prime are over and they sucked. The best part of your life is now behind you, and you didn't even get any enjoyment out of it. You're going to spend the next 40+ years in declining health either working or living on a dole. Things won't get any better and you're too old to keep lying to yourself that there's a bright future ahead of you.

You're not missing out anymore. That ship has sailed. It's past tense now. You missed out and it's over. Then that massive pressure you used to feel when you were in your teens and early 20s is gone. Nothing you can do now anyway. Nothing will fix the broken mess that is your love life. There's no easy fix. In fact, there's no fix at all. You missed out on too many crucial development milestones.

It's kind of like when you're late for an important appointment, maybe a job interview or something like that. You're panicking. You're hurrying. You're stressed out to the max but then you look at the time and you know you're way past the point where you could still make it. It suddenly all goes away. Yeah, it fucking sucks that you missed out, but what can be done at this point? Nothing.

It's a sense of bittersweet fatalism that never goes away.
this post was extremely realistic, it has to be framed.
And I'm 26 years old, I'm a virgin and for me it became a way for me to smile, I don't regret it anymore, I can only smile at this.
 
I agree. I'm also approaching the dreaded 30-year-old mark and I feel the same as you. It's a strange kind of bittersweet melancholy that washes over you. You start to fully realize and completely accept that it is indeed all over. Even if you could salvage your love life at some point in the past, you passed the point of no return a long time ago.

When you're in your teens / early 20s you feel a massive sense of urgency. It's like you HAVE to act RIGHT now or you will miss it all out. Men that age, me including, oftentimes go on a hellbent spree trying to looksmaxx as much as possible. Guys will do anything to improve their SMV.

But then you're closer and closer to 25 and nothing helped. You didn't get anything, and suddenly you're closer to 30 than to 20. Your youth and your prime are over and they sucked. The best part of your life is now behind you, and you didn't even get any enjoyment out of it. You're going to spend the next 40+ years in declining health either working or living on a dole. Things won't get any better and you're too old to keep lying to yourself that there's a bright future ahead of you.

You're not missing out anymore. That ship has sailed. It's past tense now. You missed out and it's over. Then that massive pressure you used to feel when you were in your teens and early 20s is gone. Nothing you can do now anyway. Nothing will fix the broken mess that is your love life. There's no easy fix. In fact, there's no fix at all. You missed out on too many crucial development milestones.

It's kind of like when you're late for an important appointment, maybe a job interview or something like that. You're panicking. You're hurrying. You're stressed out to the max but then you look at the time and you know you're way past the point where you could still make it. It suddenly all goes away. Yeah, it fucking sucks that you missed out, but what can be done at this point? Nothing.

It's a sense of bittersweet fatalism that never goes away.
Fucking brutal, and way too true. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH:feels::feels::feels::feels::feels::feels::feels::feels::feels:
 
Once you hit 23 you will have your quarter life crisis
 
28 years old

you stop caring after a while OP

It seemed like a huge deal at age 21-23 but at this point it's like sex is a myth... it only exists in porn
I agree. I'm also approaching the dreaded 30-year-old mark and I feel the same as you. It's a strange kind of bittersweet melancholy that washes over you. You start to fully realize and completely accept that it is indeed all over. Even if you could salvage your love life at some point in the past, you passed the point of no return a long time ago.

When you're in your teens / early 20s you feel a massive sense of urgency. It's like you HAVE to act RIGHT now or you will miss it all out. Men that age, me including, oftentimes go on a hellbent spree trying to looksmaxx as much as possible. Guys will do anything to improve their SMV.

But then you're closer and closer to 25 and nothing helped. You didn't get anything, and suddenly you're closer to 30 than to 20. Your youth and your prime are over and they sucked. The best part of your life is now behind you, and you didn't even get any enjoyment out of it. You're going to spend the next 40+ years in declining health either working or living on a dole. Things won't get any better and you're too old to keep lying to yourself that there's a bright future ahead of you.

You're not missing out anymore. That ship has sailed. It's past tense now. You missed out and it's over. Then that massive pressure you used to feel when you were in your teens and early 20s is gone. Nothing you can do now anyway. Nothing will fix the broken mess that is your love life. There's no easy fix. In fact, there's no fix at all. You missed out on too many crucial development milestones.

It's kind of like when you're late for an important appointment, maybe a job interview or something like that. You're panicking. You're hurrying. You're stressed out to the max but then you look at the time and you know you're way past the point where you could still make it. It suddenly all goes away. Yeah, it fucking sucks that you missed out, but what can be done at this point? Nothing.

It's a sense of bittersweet fatalism that never goes away.

Poetic.

Also: its ova.
 
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fucking hell alot of young leans around here
 
I'm already well beyond 25 and I've accepted that it's over.

Not going to rope because of it. Just will continue wagecucking and coping.
 
I'm 25+ and still a virgin, nigga you will be fine. Plus how can you rope during coronavirus-chan epeidemic? Normies are getting fucked, and the west might collapse. Lifefuel.
P much this; when I was OPs age I couldn’t fathom being a 25+ Virgin. I’m 26 now. Life is hell but I’m numb to it. You will lose a bunch of hope in the coming years and lower expectations/standards for yourself and will soon forget about the life you dreamed of living when you were a hopeful wide-eyed kid, and you will be happy just to be comfortable and alone. We aren’t lucky enough to have the same goals and aspirations as other people. We can’t afford the luxury of thinking that optimistically and expecting some decent chance of success. Mere comfortable, cope-fueled survival is good enough for me at this point.
 

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