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Most people talk about cuckold fetishists as if they're these freaks of nature who consciously develop a liking for getting cuckolded and are happily masochistic. Wrong! They all experience a shocking, traumatic event rendering them a cuckold in their lives. It causes them a ton of mental torment, which they then anesthetize through masturbation and even real-life reenactments of their original trauma.

This template is seen time and time again in sexual fetishes:

1. Somebody gets molested as a child and then molests children themselves as an adult. It's not a coincidence, but rather a classic progression of trauma into a fetish!
If they were molested by a male authority figure as a boy, they may become a twink who wants Daddy to ream them while they wear a diaper; or else they'll become Daddy himself and ream twinks who wear diapers.

2. A foid gets raped by a male and then fantasizes about the experience, even revisiting her rapist and having sex with him! Foids who go so far as to do the latter often cope about it being a "reclamation of their sexuality" -- but in reality, their sexuality remains possessed by the original trauma of getting raped and culminates in the affair.


So considering that trauma is the basis of sexual fetishes, think about the particular trauma of being incel. What does it involve? Rejection, humiliation, emasculation. Cuckoldry! If you are an incel, you have invariably been cuckolded in your life, and there are only two ways to cope with the trauma of being cuckolded without other sexual options: honor kill your oneitis/throw acid in her face, or else masturbate to the thought of her and thus the idea of your impotence.

If you have not experienced this, you're plainly a volcel who's never approached or otherwise attempted to get out of your situation (if not a fakecel).

Now, obviously, I'm not saying that cucks who drink bull semen out of their wife's roasties are incels. Those are "beta cucks," if you will. Incels, on the other hand, are necessarily "omega cucks" (unless they've done something ER tier, which less than 0.1% of incels do).

"Better incel than cuck" is properly understood as "better omega cuck than beta cuck." Better than both is to be a naive volcel who's never experienced the pain of a broken heart and a trauma-induced cuckold fetish.
 
This thread will be interesting, you aren’t entirely wrong OP
 
I dont have any foid in particular I jack it to anymore, they are all whores in my eyes anyway. But i use to do that in high school before the black pill. But I have never thought of her getting fuck by anyone but myself while I blew a load to her. If anything now, the only appealing thought of cuckolding is being the chad fucking stacy while beta boy cant do shit.

But I sometimes fantise of being chad so i could fuck a foid's life up.

Also not every traumatic sexual experience at a sexual developing age is going to make that person have a fetish.
 
Voluntarily celibate if you wouldn't.
 
Some ((group)) is paying shills to shill cuckold
 
Nice try (((op)))
 
I dont have any foid in particular I jack it to anymore, they are all whores in my eyes anyway. But i use to do that in high school before the black pill. But I have never thought of her getting fuck by anyone but myself while I blew a load to her. If anything now, the only appealing thought of cuckolding is being the chad fucking stacy while beta boy cant do shit.

But I sometimes fantise of being chad so i could fuck a foid's life up.

Also not every traumatic sexual experience at a sexual developing age is going to make that person have a fetish.

You're essentially a Chad trapped in an omega cuck's body, which is interesting.

Just like Chad views women as "all whores" and becomes attached to none of them, the same is true with you -- except that it's derived from repeated experiences of romantic failure with foids rather than repeated experiences of romantic success.

Your inner Chad (perhaps a manifestation of high testosterone) is a foil against cuckold fetishism. Just as well, perhaps it is a foil against going ER (notice how ER was metrosexual and low-T, most likely dealing with conflicted cuckold and incestuous feelings after hearing his sister get fucked).
 
Any proof that this is the cause of this fetish?
 
Any proof that this is the cause of this fetish?
The thread you made about your budding cuckold fetish inspired me to make this one.

And I'd simply say to you that a cuckold fetish is fundamentally no different than any other fetish. For example, we have both fapped to BBC pornography (oftentimes involving themes of cuckoldry itself) because it traumatized us the first time we saw it. We clicked away. But the taboo and moral outrage of it and it how it clashed with our racist beliefs made the thought of BBC fester in our minds, until we could no longer take it anymore and began fapping to it in order to make the pain go away.

We have both fapped to blasphemy pornography involving the degradation of religion because it traumatized us the first time we saw it, and trauma is ultimately the greatest aphrodisiac. @SchrodingersDick is correct only to a point when he says that "murder is the greatest aphrodisiac"; murder is simply the most traumatic event you can witness, and in that sense is the greatest aphrodisiac.

A lot of people on the internet go through the exact same experience with trap porn. I know I did. I hated seeing it on 4chad when I was a wee lad, and always got it out of my sight, until one day I fapped to it and I fapped to it many more times since (though not particularly recently from the time of writing).
 
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strong soy ops lately. Starting to think we need a rule against these types of threads.
 
> LE Freudian psychology
 
This thread is blowing my mind with your high IQ. We have coped ourselves into cuckoldry, now I see what happens when we have cucked ourselves.
 
> LE Freudian psychology
I used to think that Freudian psychology was absurd when I was younger, but now that I've matured I can see that it explains everything (even Mommy gfs).

It's the missing link in the hybristophiliapill, for example, which has been interesting me lately. The reason why foids become so enamored by psychopaths/narcissists and develop "Stockholm Syndrome" is precisely because of the trauma they inflict upon them. It's not simply a function of psychopaths/narcissists being good looking and therefore worth bearing, which many on this board seem to think, or even the sense of status and power that men with such personalities exude (which I previously thought), but how mindfucked foids get by men with malignant personalities.

Do foids fall in love with bad boys because they are inherently attracted to brutality? No, it's a product of brutalization which perpetuates itself through the generations.
 
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If you want the real reason for cuckoldry, not this fluffy new-age psychology bullshit, it's much more simple.
Too much exposure to degenerate material leads to people to becoming desensitized to it, leaving them searching for even more vile things for them to get off to.
 
Cuck yourself to death.
 
The thread you made about your budding cuckold fetish inspired me to make this one.

And I'd simply say to you that a cuckold fetish is fundamentally no different than any other fetish. For example, we have both fapped to BBC pornography (oftentimes involving themes of cuckoldry itself) because it traumatized us the first time we saw it. We clicked away. But the taboo and moral outrage of it and it how it clashed with our racist beliefs made the thought of BBC fester in our minds, until we could no longer take it anymore and began fapping to it in order to make the pain go away.

We have both fapped to blasphemy pornography involving the degradation of religion because it traumatized us the first time we saw it, and trauma is ultimately the greatest aphrodisiac. @SchrodingersDick is correct only to a point when he says that "murder is the greatest aphrodisiac"; murder is simply the most traumatic event you can witness, and in that sense is the greatest aphrodisiac.

A lot of people on the internet go through the exact same experience with trap porn. I know I did. I hated seeing it on 4chad when I was a wee lad, and always got it out of my sight, until one day I fapped to it and I fapped to it many more times since (though not particularly recently from the time of writing).
I say that because murder is the ultimate mog, the ultimate demonstration of survival ability. Only murder with bare hands tho. No tools. Murder ability granted by genetics, that will be passed to one’s offspring.. it’s why foids love bullies and hate bullied kids..
 
Better volcel than cuck
 
I rather die then become a cuck.
 
If I had a girlfriend and she cucked me , then I will cut off the bulls penis and flay him alive. Invest the whore with Magots and makes her watch. She would die , eventually , the maggots would eat her.
 
Too much exposure to degenerate material leads to people to becoming desensitized to it, leaving them searching for even more vile things for them to get off to.
This is what n:soy:fappers often say, but they're wrong. It's all a process of involuntary sexual traumatization and relief through masturbation.

Take the example of trap porn that I used above. Nobody just decides one day that "chicks with dicks" are hot and worth fapping to, no matter how much vanilla pornography they've consumed. The concept is inherently disgusting to everybody who is first exposed to it.

But one day, despite their efforts to avoid it, they will begin fapping to a gif of what they think is a cute girl moaning, yet the camera will pan down and they will see a huge dick squirting cum! Boom! In that moment sexual desire is combined with trauma and the seeds of a fetish have been planted.

It's not they've become "desensitized" to less extreme forms of pornography, but that they've become "sensitized" to the extreme form of pornography; that is, made sexually sensitive to it through trauma. It's why people often report feeling guilty after masturbating -- they feel contradicted over pleasuring themselves to something that is sourced in pain.
 
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I notice a lot of the guys who like cuckoldry have small dicks and are ugly. You don't see Chad and Tyrone enjoy cuckoldry.

Having said that it's not as simple as X + Y = Z. There are molested kids who grow into perfectly normal heteros, perfectly normal kids who grow into pederasts.

There are a pretty wide array of fetishes and preferences on this site. There does seem to be an unusually high-degree of interest in very young girls, but I think that's partly just to do with our honestly. I would account psychological sexual arrested development as the other major factor, since we feel we never started sexual relations at the normal age.
 
Most people talk about cuckold fetishists as if they're these freaks of nature who consciously develop a liking for getting cuckolded and are happily masochistic. Wrong! They all experience a shocking, traumatic event rendering them a cuckold in their lives. It causes them a ton of mental torment, which they then anesthetize through masturbation and even real-life reenactments of their original trauma.

This template is seen time and time again in sexual fetishes:

1. Somebody gets molested as a child and then molests children themselves as an adult. It's not a coincidence, but rather a classic progression of trauma into a fetish!
If they were molested by a male authority figure as a boy, they may become a twink who wants Daddy to ream them while they wear a diaper; or else they'll become Daddy himself and ream twinks who wear diapers.

2. A foid gets raped by a male and then fantasizes about the experience, even revisiting her rapist and having sex with him! Foids who go so far as to do the latter often cope about it being a "reclamation of their sexuality" -- but in reality, their sexuality remains possessed by the original trauma of getting raped and culminates in the affair.


So considering that trauma is the basis of sexual fetishes, think about the particular trauma of being incel. What does it involve? Rejection, humiliation, emasculation. Cuckoldry! If you are an incel, you have invariably been cuckolded in your life, and there are only two ways to cope with the trauma of being cuckolded without other sexual options: honor kill your oneitis/throw acid in her face, or else masturbate to the thought of her and thus the idea of your impotence.

If you have not experienced this, you're plainly a volcel who's never approached or otherwise attempted to get out of your situation (if not a fakecel).

Now, obviously, I'm not saying that cucks who drink bull semen out of their wife's roasties are incels. Those are "beta cucks," if you will. Incels, on the other hand, are necessarily "omega cucks" (unless they've done something ER tier, which less than 0.1% of incels do).

"Better incel than cuck" is properly understood as "better omega cuck than beta cuck." Better than both is to be a naive volcel who's never experienced the pain of a broken heart and a trauma-induced cuckold fetish.
Yes I have definitely been cucked and Im being cucked every second that Im not having sex(so are we all) but idk if you have to develop a cuckold fetish because of that. Maybe and just because you have that fetish doesnt mean you give in to, after all you can be 100% blackpilled and still have that quite unfortunate I really pity fetishists.
 
There does seem to be an unusually high-degree of interest in very young girls, but I think that's partly just to do with our honestly.

Trauma is why people develop a fetish for JBs. They become mentally frozen at a young age because they weren't able to fulfill their formative sexual desires, a source of great pain for them. You constantly see them complain about how they never had "teenage sexual experiences" on this board, which is a case in point.

But it's not just this. I've seen people acquire a JB fetish through online traumatization. For example, Freddit/h8chan used to allow (non-pornographic) JB content, and this provoked tons of moralfags to outrage. Yet over time, the sound of their rustles faded and several came out as admitting that they now enjoyed JBs.
 
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This is what n:soy:fappers often say, but they're wrong. It's all a process of involuntary sexual traumatization and relief through masturbation.

Take the example of trap porn that I used above. Nobody just decides one day that "chicks with dicks" are hot and worth fapping to, no matter how much vanilla pornography they've consumed. The concept is inherently disgusting to everybody who is first exposed to it.

But one day, despite their efforts to avoid it, they will begin fapping to a gif of what they think is a cute girl moaning, yet the camera will pan down and they will see a huge dick squirting cum! Boom! In that moment sexual desire is combined with trauma and the seeds of a fetish have been planted.

It's not they've become "desensitized" to less extreme forms of pornography, but that they've become "sensitized" to the extreme form of pornography; that is, made sexually sensitive to it through trauma. It's why people often report feeling guilty after masturbating -- they feel contradicted over pleasuring themselves to something that is sourced in pain.
tl;dr
Stop trying to justify beating off to cuckold porn you IT plant.
 
this is why whenever a new wave of incels come only half of em make it.. lets hope this soy OP gets banned bros
 
tldr but title sounds like major cope
 
strong soy ops lately. Starting to think we need a rule against these types of threads.

Beware of cuckops.

There was another inceltears poster who made a thread about how cultural socialism can bring government mandated girlfriends to incels. He got banned immediately though.
 
Well, I have some real cruel masochistic and humiliation fetishes (I wrote a thread about the reason few days ago) and jerking off to it, but I'm have a big doubts I would do this in real life (even if I can). To be completely honest, I don't care about cucks who just want see their wife get banged by chad if they ok with it so let it be, I do care about cucks who saying shit about "equality", "empowering" foids and shit what destroying our world.

But this fetish is inappropriate just because foid who cucks you doesn't considering it's like a fetish, like a game. The ape in her head are completely happy she get fucked by alpha-ape and she putting down the beta ape and relationship getting ruined. If we can't change women so they can see this as game not as reality, we can change ourselves and increase man solidarity. When she sees this two "alpha" and "beta" acting ok after action, and respect each other no matter of what, the main reason why foids love it: alpha male beats down beta and take his female to himself showing alpha-status is not relevant anymore.

Also I think involuntary celibate is not only about not having sex, it's about uglyness and all that shit which comes with it.

PS: It's sad that foids getting horny by make other people suffer.
 
This is pretty high IQ. Also, I think porn and masturbation culture helps a lot. Porn = cuckoldry.
 
I am a reverse cuckold fetishist. As my ascension via plastic surgery is completed, I will cuck the normcucks' girlfriend / wife and engage in all sorts of filth and degenracy with her.

I fantasize about being the one who cucks, not the one getting cucked.
 
Cuckoldry is because of low prenatal androgen levels. This leads to a feminized brain, even though the fetus is XY karyotype.

In 2019 we should focus on science and blackpill, not 100 year old jewish quackery. Femdomcels are not incel, you are cucks.

"High paraphilic scorers had a significantly greater number of older brothers, higher right-hand 2D:4D, and a trend for lower Edinburgh Handedness Inventory (EHI) scores compared to low-paraphilic scorers. "

 
Most cucked thread I ever seen on this forum
 
strong soy ops lately. Starting to think we need a rule against these types of threads.
> LE Freudian psychology
If you want the real reason for cuckoldry, not this fluffy new-age psychology bullshit, it's much more simple.
Too much exposure to degenerate material leads to people to becoming desensitized to it, leaving them searching for even more vile things for them to get off to.
Better volcel than cuck
 
I still cant understand if this thread is joke
 
Wait a sec OP.

If someone gets molested and then goes on to molest other people that's awful. Bad for them, bad for the other people.

You haven't proven that "If you're not a cuckold fetishist you're a volcel", that's bullshit. You proved that cuckold fetishism is bad for people.

Victims of child molestation can get over it without becoming abusers- it's called "breaking the cycle". They have that power.

Same thing, incels don't have to cope by fetishizing our trauma. We can transcend it, through making changes that improve our conditions and make us feel better about ourselves. This can even lead to some people ascending.

Cuckold fetishism is an unhealthy way to relive our sexual trauma. It's the opposite of moving in a good direction. If you want to move towards the light you have to say, no way, I'm not becoming a cuck.
 
I do not have any fetish, I like women with socks and I've seen some interracial and BBW, but I say I do not have one because I did not see them alone.
 
thank god,i knew I wasn't the only one im such a degenerate who watches bbc cuck porn :feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:.This is my greatest shame as an incel,i have nothing left to lose from losing face anyways
 

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