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RageFuel If your parents weren’t pushing you to get a gf in high school they failed you.

I can't imagine any parent. Encouraging their son to pursue women in this modern era of false rape allegations and sexual harassment lawsuits.
In high school the risks are far far lower of any trouble assuming you don't grape her.
 
In high school the risks are far far lower of any trouble assuming you don't grape her.
You be surprised, man, girls can make up shit. And the adults won't even believe you. To prove your innocence, you would have to hire very expensive. Lawyers, which I'm sure your parents can't afford. So women have the ability to throw you in jail and ruin your life. This is how dangerous girls are today.
 
You be surprised, man, girls can make up shit. And the adults won't even believe you. To prove your innocence, you would have to hire very expensive. Lawyers, which I'm sure your parents can't afford. So women have the ability to throw you in jail and ruin your life. This is how dangerous girls are today.
I call bullshit. This is probably far more rare than the workplace. Realistically they'll tell you to fuck off.
 
They thought I was gay so they never pushed it
 
As for feminine vs masculine men, where do you think this guy is on that scale?
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He looks more on feminine side but I don't know his other characteristics ( like how deep his voice is, does he has hair on his chest, does he has a micropenis etc. )
 
This is broscience testosterone worship. I'm sure t-levels have an effect in how you behave, but it's not like you have to achieve some superhuman feat. Just go over to a girl and tell her she's cute and ask her for her number or whatever. If you're too afraid, you're a coward. If you think testosterone will help you then get roids, I dunno.
Women constantly compliment other women. Do this lead to relationships and sex between them?
I'm trying to say that you underestimate how important masculinity is for female-Male relationships.
Women are attracted to men with certain physical characteristics like broad shoulders and big hands.
An ugly freak with narrow shoulders and tiny wrists/small hands would be rather viewed as a 'gay friend' and friendzoned by majority of females.
 
How does this mean they failed you, some can’t get pussy no matter how hard parents push them
 
If the reason you didn't have a gf in hs is because you weren't pushed into it by somebody, you're a fakecel. Or gay or asexual or mentally ill or some shit.
you are forgetting that the guys in high school are uglier and shorter than adult men, unless you are like a genetic autist (which only like 1% of users here are) then you could have gotten a gf when young but you cope by saying it was impossible
 
There is nothing to be gained by playing into the corrupt system. This gynocracy we've got, it's not viable, and it won't last. The winner is not the captain of the sinking ship, it's the crewman on a lifeboat.
 
He looks more on feminine side but I don't know his other characteristics ( like how deep his voice is, does he has hair on his chest, does he has a micropenis etc. )
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That's Leonardo Di Caprio. It's from Titanic, a movie that made over $2 billion dollars. He went through a hundred focus groups for maximum appeal to women.

Here are his current day equivalents, the male celebrities women thirst most after.
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Masculinity is cope. Not that women aren't attracted to masculinity (most are to a point), but enough women don't really care, so not being masculine enough is not the reason anybody is incel. And increasing masculinity (just grow a beard bro, just get jacked bro) isn't going to do much for a guy who wasn't getting any pussy. That's why gymceling doesn't work.
 
you are forgetting that the guys in high school are uglier and shorter than adult men, unless you are like a genetic autist (which only like 1% of users here are) then you could have gotten a gf when young but you cope by saying it was impossible
So it just slipped his mind to get a girlfriend and that's why it didn't happen? All he needed was his parents to remind him and... what?
I don't know about you, but no girls in high school were attracted to me. And if they had been, I wouldn't have needed my parents to push me into what I was biologically hardwired to want anyway.
 
My mom thought I was gay cause I never got a gf :dafuckfeels:
They always think you're gay for not bringing girls home. They never think you're straight for not bringing dudes home.
 
You be surprised, man, girls can make up shit. And the adults won't even believe you. To prove your innocence, you would have to hire very expensive. Lawyers, which I'm sure your parents can't afford. So women have the ability to throw you in jail and ruin your life. This is how dangerous girls are today.
Long ago, my older sister's bf told me a story of a guy he knew in high school. He got falsely accused of rape by some bitch, and a group of white knights jumped him and beat him nearly to death. This was decades before #MeToo. USA has always been a simping shithole, it's just dialed up to 11 right now.
 
but no girls in high school were attracted to me.
yeah no shit, they are not gonna like a guy with no friends or barely any friends.

I'm worse looking now but I was much better looking before puberty ended and was tall for my age. still incel because I barely had a friend group and my parents didn't teach me how to talk to a girl at all, they just let me rot and become incel.
 
yeah no shit, they are not gonna like a guy with no friends or barely any friends.

I'm worse looking now but I was much better looking before puberty ended and was tall for my age. still incel because I barely had a friend group and my parents didn't teach me how to talk to a girl at all, they just let me rot and become incel.
If you became an incel, it was girls weren't attracted to you, not because you didn't have game at 15 or whenever. And how are your parents going to teach you to talk to girls? Is your mom supposed to give you a PUA bootcamp to practice your moves on her? What the fucking fuck??
 
yeah no shit, they are not gonna like a guy with no friends or barely any friends.
Well glad you cracked the code. Chad is just a guy who has many friends.
Close the forum, we've found the solution, we're done.
Just friendmaxx, bros.

Absolute fucking brainlet takes in this thread.
 
If you became an incel, it was girls weren't attracted to you, not because you didn't have game at 15 or whenever. And how are your parents going to teach you to talk to girls? Is your mom supposed to give you a PUA bootcamp to practice your moves on her? What the fucking fuck??
hurr durr muh attraction, you keep parroting the same NPC nonsense
sure I may not have been a 6'4 gigachad who girls lust after on sight but I was definitely much higher tier in looks than the rest of the guys in that school who had gfs
every normal parent encourages their son to talk to other boys and girls at a young age, if your parents just let you rot in a room with games like mine did then they failed you
 
hurr durr muh attraction, you keep parroting the same NPC nonsense
sure I may not have been a 6'4 gigachad who girls lust after on sight but I was definitely much higher tier in looks than the rest of the guys in that school who had gfs
Yeah, if the reason you're incel is that your parents didn't push you to go to girls then you're either mentally ill or gay or a fakecel.
Imagine thinking your mom needs to teach you how to flirt with girls and then cheer you on right up to sex.
 
Yeah, if the reason you're incel is that your parents didn't push you to go to girls then you're either mentally ill or gay or a fakecel.
Imagine thinking your mom needs to teach you how to flirt with girls and then cheer you on right up to sex.
all you do is parrot the same NPC stuff, you have no thoughts you just say this guy is a fakecel as he isn't completely disgusting looking, reddit is that way
 
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That's Leonardo Di Caprio. It's from Titanic, a movie that made over $2 billion dollars. He went through a hundred focus groups for maximum appeal to women.

Here are his current day equivalents, the male celebrities women thirst most after.
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Masculinity is cope. Not that women aren't attracted to masculinity (most are to a point), but enough women don't really care, so not being masculine enough is not the reason anybody is incel. And increasing masculinity (just grow a beard bro, just get jacked bro) isn't going to do much for a guy who wasn't getting any pussy. That's why gymceling doesn't work.
He is a pretty boy. Imagine being feminine and ugly.
Also these guys doesn't have really harrow shoulders.
Masculinity is related to physicality.
I remember buying a wide sweater. I even felt a bit more confident than usual when I started wearing it.
Having masculine frame like broad shoulders, big hands etc will make you more confident in life even if it doesn't turn you into slayer.
 
He is a pretty boy. Imagine being feminine and ugly.
Also these guys doesn't have really harrow shoulders.
Masculinity is related to physicality.
I remember buying a wide sweater. I even felt a bit more confident than usual when I started wearing it.
Having masculine frame like broad shoulders, big hands etc will make you more confident in life even if it doesn't turn you into slayer.
What I'm saying masculinity isn't that important. It's very important to some women, not at all important to others, which means even if you're not masculine you're fine. Being ugly is a completely different class of problem. I'd rather be a narrow shouldered pretty boy than a broad shouldered jacked ogre (which is much closer to what I am).
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all you do is parrot the same NPC stuff, you have no thoughts you just say this guy is a fakecel as he isn't completely disgusting looking, reddit is that way
If they guy's reason for being an incel is that his parents didn't remind him to talk to girls or whatever... he's a fakecel or mentally ill.
 
If they guy's reason for being an incel is that his parents didn't remind him to talk to girls or whatever... he's a fakecel or mentally ill.
everyone's reason for being an incel is bad environment. blaming only your looks is retarded, tons of ugly normies get laid while you post on obscure forums
 
I kind of agree actually
 
Cope, the only way they failed you is giving you bad genes.
 
What I'm saying masculinity isn't that important. It's very important to some women, not at all important to others, which means even if you're not masculine you're fine. Being ugly is a completely different class of problem. I'd rather be a narrow shouldered pretty boy than a broad shouldered jacked ogre (which is much closer to what I am).
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This ogre looks completely normally by any EE standards for men. Being a manly man, having some skills, simple job and driver's license, - and you will attract majority of females in EE.
Of course, this wouldn't work if you are really ugly, sick or mentally ill.
But in less cultured countries being able to scare other males matters since many men here act like aggressive apes and any weakness is punished.
So females naturally pick 'manly' men.
 
This ogre looks completely normally by any EE standards for men. Being a manly man, having some skills, simple job and driver's license, - and you will attract majority of females in EE.
The ogre looks completely normal but he wouldn't have a shot against the skinny model guy. Gyms are full of jacked incels. Prettyboy Chads rule everywhere.
 
everyone's reason for being an incel is bad environment. blaming only your looks is retarded, tons of ugly normies get laid while you post on obscure forums
Oh, for sure. My friend who's a balding 5'2" Indian quadriplegic janitor is dating a Victoria's Secret model because his parents reminded him to get a girlfriend in high school.
 
Oh, for sure. My friend who's a balding 5'2" Indian quadriplegic janitor is dating a Victoria's Secret model because his parents reminded him to get a girlfriend in high school.
can you do anything other than think in extremes? the average incel is 5'9 or 5'10 and completely normal looking, not a 5'2 quadriplegic disabled person
 
Jfl at blaming others and not accepting responsibility. This is 8544444444% cope
 
They failed me way before that. Starting with orthodontics. I could never be one of the normies anyway, but I could mog them in many ways. Instead they destroyed my mental with psychologists for example. Not worth dwelling too much on that.
 
Skippy (42 year old virgin) had a "wing mom"
 
They never ever pushed or even suggested I have a relationship like a normal person. They never cared for my happiness.
True. Your parents SHOULD motivate you and push you to get a gf, if they don't, they DON'T CARE about you.
 
My mom wanted me to NOT get a girlfriend and actively gave me lectures about it as it would distract me from my studies. Just fucking LOL. As if i could get one on demand.
 
My parents argued too much to give a shit about my social skills and after my dad died my mom made it way too hard for me to go hang out with the few people I did know pretty much forcing me to LDAR while she was bitching at me for LDAR.
 
Not much else needs to be said. If they just left you to rot in front of a screen, they neglected you during your crucial developmental years. While everyone else was reaching milestones, your parents allowed you to be left behind, and thus failed you.
100% agree pinkwell.

In fact I’d say that pushing a son to find a gf is more important than pushing them to study and go to a good college
 
I had other more important stuff to worry about back then
 
Not much else needs to be said. If they just left you to rot in front of a screen, they neglected you during your crucial developmental years. While everyone else was reaching milestones, your parents allowed you to be left behind, and thus failed you.
My mom absolutely opposed me getting along with girls let alone get a girlfriend. My father is stingy as hell and gave almost no money so I was poor as hell during HS.
 

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