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Even if you were raised by a dude, you will never be fully accepted as his offspring and it is unlikely that he shared GOOD advice with you. Oh sure you can have superficial relations. With accepted I mean a deep genetic bond, kind of like animals who sacrifice themselves to save their offspring. The first time you make trouble, you're out, whereas real fathers would forgive their kids almost everything.
Your biodad will never fully accept you either. He didn't raise you. Those memories matter. You will always be evidence of his shame and worst period of his life, not something to celebrate.
As a child of divorce you were denied one of the richest bonds there is. Mothers only love their kids because of instinct. Foids do it for ressources. A dad is the first human in your life who can CHOOSE to love you, but doesn't have to. What does it say about the world, if he didn't or can't? What does it say about your worth?
Look at any succesful person in history. There's a fat chance he has a great relationship to his father. Even fucking foids care about that shit, they're even fascinated by it. It shows them if you have good genes or not. Here's my theory. Not all, but ALMOST all Chads have a good relationship to their fathers or came from non-divorce households whereas MOST incels have either physically or emotionally absent dads. Chas dads are the first who show them how to play the social game. How to stand up for yourself. That foids are enothing to be feared, but to be used. All that shit.
TL;DR: Chads had good dads, incels had shitty or absent fathers.
Your biodad will never fully accept you either. He didn't raise you. Those memories matter. You will always be evidence of his shame and worst period of his life, not something to celebrate.
As a child of divorce you were denied one of the richest bonds there is. Mothers only love their kids because of instinct. Foids do it for ressources. A dad is the first human in your life who can CHOOSE to love you, but doesn't have to. What does it say about the world, if he didn't or can't? What does it say about your worth?
Look at any succesful person in history. There's a fat chance he has a great relationship to his father. Even fucking foids care about that shit, they're even fascinated by it. It shows them if you have good genes or not. Here's my theory. Not all, but ALMOST all Chads have a good relationship to their fathers or came from non-divorce households whereas MOST incels have either physically or emotionally absent dads. Chas dads are the first who show them how to play the social game. How to stand up for yourself. That foids are enothing to be feared, but to be used. All that shit.
TL;DR: Chads had good dads, incels had shitty or absent fathers.