If you were bullied in school it’s over for life

[Pesttanz]

Sorry for the late response I got busy

Thanks dude

 

[BoneHermit666]

Especially high school which is most important. High school makes or breaks you. If you were chad in high school you are set for life and will be highly respected for the rest of your life. If you were bullied mercilessly in high school like I was, you will never be able to live it down. In those 4 years you have given people the blueprint to how you should be treated for the rest of your life. If you were gossiped about, leered at, laughed at in high school people will do that to you for life. Even if you somehow overcome it and become successful which is highly fucking unlikely, you will never be respected and always looked at as a target to be harassed or taken advantage of. It makes me so angry looking back that I never even really fought back, I just sat their and let them ruin my life. Now I’m a very angry person and people will think twice about saying something to my face, but I still get the stares, the smirks, the laughs and I just have to fucking live with it.

but if you did fight back you just got beaten up and dominated .

 

[tandoorichickencel]

I got bullied pretty badly in high school. I still haven’t recovered from it. The trauma will haunt me forever I feel

 

[BoneHermit666]

I got bullied pretty badly in high school. I still haven’t recovered from it. The trauma will haunt me forever I feel

same here.

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

It mentally destroys you

 

[Jimbonzo]

There are literally studies on how it changes you permanently, but society will always go with the bullies’ side

sauce?

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

Bullying and Suicidal Ideation and Behaviors: A Meta-Analysis - PMC

Over the last decade there has been increased attention to the association between bullying involvement (as a victim, perpetrator, or bully-victim) and suicidal ideation/behaviors. We conducted a meta-analysis to estimate the association between ...

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

This meta-analysis examined the link between bullying involvement (as a victim, perpetrator, or both) and suicidal thoughts and behaviors in youth. Here's a more detailed breakdown:

Key Findings:

• Strong Association:The study found a significant and substantial association between all forms of bullying involvement and both suicidal ideation (thoughts of suicide) and suicidal behaviors (attempts).
  • Bully-Victims: Youth who both bully and are bullied (bully-victims) exhibited the highest risk for both suicidal ideation and behaviors.
• Specific Findings:
  • Victimization:
    • Youth who are bullied are significantly more likely to experience suicidal thoughts and attempt suicide compared to those who are not bullied.
  • Perpetration:
    • Youth who bully others also have a significantly increased risk of suicidal ideation and attempts.
    • This risk was particularly pronounced in studies conducted in the United States.
  • Bully-Victims:
    • This group demonstrated the strongest association with both suicidal ideation and behaviors.
    • Studies using specific definitions of bullying and non-behavioral questions to assess bullying involvement showed a particularly strong link to suicidal ideation in this group.
    • The association between bully-victim status and suicidal behaviors was also significantly stronger in US-based studies.
• Implications:
  • Serious Public Health Concern: Bullying has serious mental health implications, including significantly increased risk of suicidal thoughts and behaviors.
  • Comprehensive Approach: Prevention and intervention efforts must address all forms of bullying involvement, including victimization, perpetration, and bully-victim status.

sauce?

 

[UglyDumbass]

Especially high school which is most important. High school makes or breaks you. If you were chad in high school you are set for life and will be highly respected for the rest of your life. If you were bullied mercilessly in high school like I was, you will never be able to live it down. In those 4 years you have given people the blueprint to how you should be treated for the rest of your life. If you were gossiped about, leered at, laughed at in high school people will do that to you for life. Even if you somehow overcome it and become successful which is highly fucking unlikely, you will never be respected and always looked at as a target to be harassed or taken advantage of. It makes me so angry looking back that I never even really fought back, I just sat their and let them ruin my life. Now I’m a very angry person and people will think twice about saying something to my face, but I still get the stares, the smirks, the laughs and I just have to fucking live with it.

This is literally what i learned right after i got a job after high school ended. The suffering never ends youngcels Bullying never stops Adults will always be mean You’re not safe. Do remote jobs quick

 

[UglyDumbass]

sitting there and just taking it cause you dont know what to do is the worst thing ever

then when you do something you’re called crazy

 

[UglyDumbass]

i was bullied until i grew my hair out in 7th grade then i just became invisible for the remainder of my school years but then i got out of highschool and got bullied in the workforce so i guess it only saved me through school

how did you cope with the bullying how did you take it out of ur mind

 

[PrototypeCel]

how did you cope with the bullying how did you take it out of ur mind

videogames
thats all i looked forward to
the bullying was bad but the videogames helped me cope

 

[UglyDumbass]

videogames
thats all i looked forward to
the bullying was bad but the videogames helped me cope

i coped with that too but it never got the bad memories off my head What about you

 

[PrototypeCel]

i coped with that too but it never got the bad memories off my head What about you

yeah still think about the brutal times

 

[UglyDumbass]

yeah still think about the brutal times

It’s a fuckinf curse man

 

[justuseless]

They imprisoned us. We never grew or developed mentally.

 

[anotherwastedlife]

Yep. I was the punching bag who copped a lot shit from all the normalfaggot and chadlite bullies, excluded from everything, destorying my self worth and now they have good lives while i don't

 

[TooSomething]

sitting there and just taking it cause you dont know what to do is the worst thing ever

If nobody ever teaches you what to do, like my good for nothing father did, then yeah, it's over for you.

 

[TooSomething]

There are literally studies on how it changes you permanently, but society will always go with the bullies’ side

Those who got bullied should receive compensation from the government. Sort of like an early pension.
Obviousely the rest of the population will be taxed to oblivion the more bullied people come forth, but this might eventually stop bullies from continuing and passing on the tradition to their cursed offspring.

 

[Friezacel]

I never even really fought back,

Fighting back is a cope. If you were physically strong they wouldnt fuck with you in the first place. They bully know because they know you cant do shit