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Blackpill "If you want a girl, just be yourself!" is bullshit

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There was a time in my life where I was able to attract women... under a crucial expence.

For 15 years I followed the 'just be yourself' method when talking to women.

Perhaps for normies and chads it works well, for myself it never did. Women in our modern day society demand so much more form men then men demand from women. Feminsts complain about toxic masculinity when women themselves demand these patriarchal traits which CONTRIBUTE to so called toxic masculinity in men for sexual reproduction.

I'm not a social person
I'm not an extroverted person
I'm not a status seeking person
I'm not a dominant person
I'm not a 'confident' person (when women say they want confidence, they really mean they want cockyness and narcassism)
I'm not an assertive person
I'm a passive person
I have fears (which women expect men to have no fears at all... which are only sociopaths)
I'm softspoken
I dont like social events
I struggle with autism
I actually have emotions and like to talk about them

For 15 years I just released these traits over time when seeing women... and not a single one wanted to be with me after discovering who I was. It was as if the more they discovered, the more they were repulsed

For a brief period, I picked up some 'game' books and bought into 'being a better you' montra. Surprisingly enough with time, it 'worked'. I was able to attract women using those methods in those game books. What I didn't realize at the time was that I was showing women everything they wanted in a man, not anything to do with who I was as a man. As these women got to know me, they started to see who I really was as a person. You can only pretend to be someone you're not for so much time. After seeing who I really was... they all left me claiming I'm not "man enough" because I'm a gentle person as I speek or "too much of a loser" because I prefer quiet dates over alcholic parties or "needy" because I actually like to spend time with my partners and "clingly" because it's somehow a crime to talk about bothersome emotions to your "partner" and a "little boy" because I was caught having a PTSD episode which resutled in me crying.

What I am trying to convey to my fellow men is looks are not everything, superficial masculine traits are just as in demand as looks and physique are. They might be even more in demand since I have seen chads with not so tall heights and not so handsome faces with women that laughed and ridiculed me after they had left me.

The red pill is so sweet and easy to digest compared to being forced to take the black pill as it tears your soul into insanity.

I chose to remain who I am as I'm quite not as depressed, but still in the abyss of the black.
 
Don't ever fall short in even a single category or you are designated trash tier. Users here often claim "its all about height!" or "it's all about face!" or "it's all about race!" when in reality, chad has the perfect combination of all these things and femoids can detect it.
 
Only Chad can just be himself and still get laid. You're ugly, so normie advice will never work for you.
I've seen ugly ass chads. It's about brute traits bro. Thats my experience
 
Just b urself but also be confident and change ur personality!
 

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