If you reached a certain age it's almost impossible to learn social skills

[grayjedi90]

I'm 27, friendless and never had a girlfriend. In general i always had a hard time trying to connect or relate to other people. If i somehow get a conversation going people always make it clear they don't like me and end the conversation pretty fast. I don't know what to talk about because most normie mainstream shit doesn't interest me, at best i can hold a conversation up to 2 or 3 minutes.

Normies always say you can learn social skills at any age but this simply isn't true. You develop your social skills in your youth and throughout puberty and eventually a bit after that but at a certain age i presume about 25 it's almost impossible to catch up. People don't want to talk with me much, this leads to almost no opportunities for me to practice social skills. Also if you leave school or college your opportunities get even less because at some point older people already have their social circles and friends and don't want to increase it. It's an endless vicious cycle and then normies tell me to go alone to bars, clubs, disco or other likewise events to meet new people. But to be honest as friendless incel with no social skills this is one of the worst place to be that shit doesn't work for us.

 

[dr-problematic]

Graduation of college is point of no return. also i dont know a single person after age of 24-25, who managed to change their friendless situation for the better.

when you dont spin in social circles you slowly rot away. and at age of 24+ its extremely to jump into some1's social circle, since they all are formed, in order to be invited and accepted your SocialValueIndex should be extremely high, so that others see value in you and treat you as eqaul, having barely to no friends at age of 24+ instantly rings a bell in people's heads like there's something totally wrong with this guy, no normal and sane person ends up like this.

I dont know solution to this problem and i think there is none. Some of us just were born into unlucky life path.

 

[Indari]

talking, hanging out, going on dates. all these things are second nature to normies by age 13

 

[disposableman]

at 23 yo friendless because most people have already established their group of friends and they don't want another socially inept uglyface fag

 

[A Good Friend]

In my experience, it's something that you're born with. I never struggled to make conversation but I hated ever moment of it like jagged copper pinecone passed through the urethra.

 

[KV-]

its still possible to develop social skills but to develop social skills as a natural facet of one's conduct and personality rather than an applied facade, it needs to happen at a relatively early age.

 

[Deleted member 1627]

Yes becuase it gets harder the older you get. If you are younger than you can get away with it

 

[Currycel4Life]

A lot of people say 25 is the cutoff age for inceldom. I truly believe you know by the time you're 15. 

If you haven't been decently socially acclimated by then, the gap you need to close to just be normal is almost insurmountable. 

In life you don't get second chances. It's a brutal existence. One wrong turn and it's all over boyo.

 

[sepelion]

There is no such thing. Human interactions are an exchange of value. Nobody wants to be around someone who is worthless, and everyone wants to be around someone who is valuable.

You can be shy, but if you're genetically-valuable (attractive), and rich, your shy awkwardness becomes cute. You can be the most magnificent method actor of confidence, but if you're poor and ugly, people will minimize any interactions with you.