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We tend to talk about seeing escorts like it's a victimless transaction, a business deal. Some even call the escort a predator for "taking advantage of lonely men."

Having seen so many escorts myself, I've realised I have been acting predatory.

Ask yourself one simple question: Why is she a prostitute?

Is it because she woke up with a burning passion to be intimate with sexually frustrated, lonely men off of the streets that she's never met before? :feelswhat:

No.

She's there because:
  • She's financially trapped with no way out
  • She's addicted to drugs and this is the fastest way to score
  • She's a trafficking victim
  • She has sexual trauma
You're using her suffering as a means to get your rocks off.

You are leveraging your cash to bypass the need for mutual attraction, respect, or connection. You are paying for access to a vulnerable whore.

This is predatory behavior. The strong exploiting the weak.

You can dress it up with words like "transaction" and "consent," but if her consent is born from desperation, trauma, or coercion, how meaningful is it? You are bypassing genuine, mutual desire and replacing it with a financial ultimatum given to someone in a compromised position.

So if you're considering doing this, have the guts to admit what it is.

Had I known the implication of all this . . . I still would've done it :forcedsmile: but I would've limited the frequency, not because I care about some scallywag whore :feelswhat: but because I don't like being a predator.
 
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We tend to talk about seeing escorts like it's a victimless transaction, a business deal. Some even call the escort a predator for "taking advantage of lonely men."

Having seen so many escorts myself, I've realised I have been acting predatory.

Ask yourself one simple question: Why is she a prostitute?

Is it because she woke up with a burning passion to be intimate with a frustrated, lonely men she's never met?

No.

She's there because:
  • She's financially trapped with no way out
  • She's addicted to drugs and this is the fastest way to score
  • She's a trafficking victim
  • She has sexual trauma
You're using her suffering as a means to get your rocks off.

You are leveraging your cash to bypass the need for mutual attraction, respect, or connection. You are paying for access to a vulnerable whore.
This is predatory behavior. The strong exploiting the weak.

You can dress it up with words like "transaction" and "consent," but if her consent is born from desperation, trauma, or coercion, how meaningful is it? You are bypassing genuine, mutual desire and replacing it with a financial ultimatum given to someone in a compromised position.

So if you're considering doing this, have the guts to admit what it is.

Had I known the implication of all this . . . I still would've done it :forcedsmile: but I would've limited the frequency, not because I care about some scallywag whore :feelswhat: but because I don't like being a predator.
She coudl get a betabuxx anytime but she decides she want to take cock for money
 
I saw what you deleted
 
You're one of the most cucked users.
 
Escorts are paid multiple times the minimum wage. How is being paid heavily predatory? Then every employer who's paying less than $100(about what prostitutes charge) an hour are predators. Yet you didn't mention this because you are a female supremacist who only cares about women's "suffering."
 
You're also implying there's something bad about sex. There's nothing wrong with sex.
 
Don’t care, the dumb whores shouldn’t sell their bodies if they feel that way.
 
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And why should this matter to anyone here, exactly? Why do you care about the thoughts and feelings of a literal whore?
 
And why should this matter to anyone here, exactly? Why do you care about the thoughts and feelings of a literal whore?
read the last sentence gray
 
You're using her suffering as a means to get your rocks off.
I would not have any problem with doing that, it’s the least I can do lol. Foids never suffer as much as lonely men though, nobody cares about their suffering, so I would never care about a foids suffering, 99% of the time a foid’s suffering is exaggerated and blown out of proportion tremendously.
 
Honestly, I do not care.

If it makes me a predator, well I'm a predators, I do not care, women reject me all the time, prostitute spread the legs as long as you pay, they are sex objects and if I had the money, I would Fuck multiple prostitute every week, at least 3 prostitute each week.

The only reason stopping me from going to prostitute now, is the money, I'd rather use the money for food than sex.
 
I don’t CARE! If I wanna fuck those whores I’ll do it nigger
 
If a woman, in this da and age, is financially trapped, that is SOLELY her fault.
She can ALWAYS find a betabuxxer, if she is a lazy bum. If she is not that lazy, she can easily land a make work job and probably earn more money than me, thanks to quotas.

If she is addicted to drugs, it was most likely her choice to take them. Even if she had neglectful parents and started using at a young age, it is not my fault.
Also, I would obviousely not get involved with a druggie, be ot a whore or a regular foid.
Yes, I can tell apart users from sober folks.

If she is a trafficking victim there is a way to tell it. Those are usually "branded" with specific tattoos. If you see the same tattoo on different whores, you know that they either have a pimp or are actual trafficking victims. All of them barely even speak the local language.
Steer clear of those whores, imo. I have seen it many asian whores.
But besides this, they have voted for politicians who've allowed shit to hit the fan like that, so they are to blame for it as well, even if only partially.

She has sexual trauma? Bullshit. Foids actually enjoy rape, which is proven by the books that they read.
 
We tend to talk about seeing escorts like it's a victimless transaction, a business deal. Some even call the escort a predator for "taking advantage of lonely men."

Having seen so many escorts myself, I've realised I have been acting predatory.

Ask yourself one simple question: Why is she a prostitute?

Is it because she woke up with a burning passion to be intimate with sexually frustrated, lonely men off of the streets that she's never met before? :feelswhat:

No.

She's there because:
  • She's financially trapped with no way out
  • She's addicted to drugs and this is the fastest way to score
  • She's a trafficking victim
  • She has sexual trauma
You're using her suffering as a means to get your rocks off.

You are leveraging your cash to bypass the need for mutual attraction, respect, or connection. You are paying for access to a vulnerable whore.

This is predatory behavior. The strong exploiting the weak.

You can dress it up with words like "transaction" and "consent," but if her consent is born from desperation, trauma, or coercion, how meaningful is it? You are bypassing genuine, mutual desire and replacing it with a financial ultimatum given to someone in a compromised position.

So if you're considering doing this, have the guts to admit what it is.

Had I known the implication of all this . . . I still would've done it :forcedsmile: but I would've limited the frequency, not because I care about some scallywag whore :feelswhat: but because I don't like being a predator.
This works under the assumption that I care about the other person's feelings towards me
Most dudes only care about the diseases and legality at it.
Also if you feel that you're a predator then reevaluate your morals
 
Honestly, I do not care.

If it makes me a predator, well I'm a predators, I do not care, women reject me all the time, prostitute spread the legs as long as you pay, they are sex objects and if I had the money, I would Fuck multiple prostitute every week, at least 3 prostitute each week.

The only reason stopping me from going to prostitute now, is the money, I'd rather use the money for food than sex.
Same thing I'm thinking
 
There are places where you can find independent escorts, so no exploitation or anything they’re doing it voluntarily and can reject people as they see fit.
 
whatever dude it happens, its your own life, why should you let someone elses problems keep you from having a good time
 
People think they can save whores but I believe your only chance at saving a whore is if you have known her since childhood and held her in your arms at the time.
 
One could agree to that. But predatory is natural, so is hypergamy in femoids. If they're hypergamous, then either nonchads are rightfully obligated to seize the means of reproduction or foids were committing injustice in the first place.
 
Also your recent posts looks to me like you're becoming a cuck. Or maybe you was an infiltrator from beginning.
 
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Now I must know
 
This is so cucked, I don't care about foids 'suffering'
 
I am a very proud predator
IMG 2037
 
I saw what you deleted
You saw nothing
I would not have any problem with doing that, it’s the least I can do lol. Foids never suffer as much as lonely men though, nobody cares about their suffering, so I would never care about a foids suffering, 99% of the time a foid’s suffering is exaggerated and blown out of proportion tremendously.
Honestly, I do not care.

If it makes me a predator, well I'm a predators, I do not care, women reject me all the time, prostitute spread the legs as long as you pay, they are sex objects and if I had the money, I would Fuck multiple prostitute every week, at least 3 prostitute each week.

The only reason stopping me from going to prostitute now, is the money, I'd rather use the money for food than sex.
I don't care either, especially when i see things for what they are. This thread targets those who don't like the idea of being a predator
If a woman, in this da and age, is financially trapped, that is SOLELY her fault.
She can ALWAYS find a betabuxxer, if she is a lazy bum. If she is not that lazy, she can easily land a make work job and probably earn more money than me, thanks to quotas.

If she is addicted to drugs, it was most likely her choice to take them. Even if she had neglectful parents and started using at a young age, it is not my fault.
Also, I would obviousely not get involved with a druggie, be ot a whore or a regular foid.
Yes, I can tell apart users from sober folks.

If she is a trafficking victim there is a way to tell it. Those are usually "branded" with specific tattoos. If you see the same tattoo on different whores, you know that they either have a pimp or are actual trafficking victims. All of them barely even speak the local language.
Steer clear of those whores, imo. I have seen it many asian whores.
But besides this, they have voted for politicians who've allowed shit to hit the fan like that, so they are to blame for it as well, even if only partially.

She has sexual trauma? Bullshit. Foids actually enjoy rape, which is proven by the books that they read.
“Financially trapped is solely her fault / she can always find a provider or job.”
not always : disability, abuse, childcare, immigration, criminal record, etc

“Drug addiction is her choice, not my fault.”
Not saying that you caused it, it’s that you’re benefiting from the vulnerability it creates.

“I can tell trafficking by tattoos/language; avoid those.”
Many trafficking victims have no obvious signs so your certainty is unjustified. “If I can’t detect coercion, it’s fine” is bad logic.

“Sexual trauma is BS; women enjoy rape, proven by books.”
Errr not sure. A lot of users here watch gore, but I don’t think they’d want to be murdered :feelsEhh:
Also your recent posts looks to me like you're becoming a cuck. Or maybe you was an infiltrator from beginning.
It’s because I like being self critical and hate echo chambers. Also one or two threads like this doesn't undermine the several other threads of mine lamenting about the pain of inceldom :feelstastyman:
 
You can be a predator or you can be prey. There is no other way, believing otherwise is bluepilled cuckoldry.
Incels are prey of the gynocentric society.

“Financially trapped is solely her fault / she can always find a provider or job.”
not always : disability, abuse, childcare, immigration, criminal record, etc
Unless we're talking about some 3rd world shithole, there are disabilitybuxx and programs to help disabled people find legal employment, especially for women because women always get special treatment.

Abuse? Men who are abused don't get the option to sell their body for money. They have to fall in line and get a job. Why are women excused from this?

Childcare? This is her fault. Should have chosen a man who wouldn't leave her. And if she has the time to prostitute herself while taking care of a child, then she also has the time for honest work. And again, there are welfare programs for single mothers.

Immigration, if legal, is not any excuse. Once again there are government programs and companies that help immigrants find employment.

How is criminal record not her fault? :feelskek:
 
If she is addicted to drugs, it was most likely her choice to take them. Even if she had neglectful parents and started using at a young age, it is not my fault.
Also, I would obviousely not get involved with a druggie, be ot a whore or a regular foid.
Yes, I can tell apart users from sober folks.
This is one of the most evil threads I've read. It's saying wrongfully that many men are evil and should feel bad. What's next? Advocating for prostitution to be illegal so men go to prison? I've never had a prostitute but I don't agree with OP.

The drug argument is so stupid. Literally other non-prostitution workers may be addicted to drugs, like fast food workers for example, yet the OP doesn't say it's wrong to stop going to fast food restaurants. It doesn't make sense since drug users are everywhere. You can't buy anything by OP's logic because it supports drug users. And no I don't think drugs should be legal.
 
You can be a predator or you can be prey. There is no other way, believing otherwise is bluepilled cuckoldry.
Incels are prey of the gynocentric society.


Unless we're talking about some 3rd world shithole, there are disabilitybuxx and programs to help disabled people find legal employment, especially for women because women always get special treatment.

Abuse? Men who are abused don't get the option to sell their body for money. They have to fall in line and get a job. Why are women excused from this?

Childcare? This is her fault. Should have chosen a man who wouldn't leave her. And if she has the time to prostitute herself while taking care of a child, then she also has the time for honest work. And again, there are welfare programs for single mothers.

Immigration, if legal, is not any excuse. Once again there are government programs and companies that help immigrants find employment.

How is criminal record not her fault?:feelskek:
OP is a foid worshipper. He only cares about women's "suffering" but not men's.
 
Then i accept the fact that i could be predator.
 
You can be a predator or you can be prey. There is no other way, believing otherwise is bluepilled cuckoldry.
Incels are prey of the gynocentric society.


Unless we're talking about some 3rd world shithole, there are disabilitybuxx and programs to help disabled people find legal employment, especially for women because women always get special treatment.

Abuse? Men who are abused don't get the option to sell their body for money. They have to fall in line and get a job. Why are women excused from this?

Childcare? This is her fault. Should have chosen a man who wouldn't leave her. And if she has the time to prostitute herself while taking care of a child, then she also has the time for honest work. And again, there are welfare programs for single mothers.

Immigration, if legal, is not any excuse. Once again there are government programs and companies that help immigrants find employment.

How is criminal record not her fault?:feelskek:
“A program exists somewhere therefore her situation is her fault and not constrained.”
Existence ≠ adequacy. Help being available doesn’t mean it’s sufficient, accessible, safe, or actually workable for everyone. A life raft existing doesn’t mean everyone can reach it.

Disability / “there are benefits”:
Benefits aren’t a magic exit. They can be below living costs, slow to access, conditional, and don’t cover debt, housing shortages, care needs, or unstable health


“men don’t get to sell their body either”:
Irrelevant, The question is whether buying sex exploits vulnerability, not whether men suffer too. That’s just “others suffer, so I’m allowed to benefit from suffering.” Not a defense.

Childcare: “she chose wrong / welfare exists”:
If she’s selling sex while caring for a child, that obviously means she’s doing a high-risk job because safer routes don’t pay enough or aren’t available.
Welfare being real doesn’t mean it’s livable or immediate. Again: existence ≠ workable alternative.

Immigration:
immigrants still hit barriers: language, non-recognition of qualifications, discrimination, no local network, delay before help arrives, often exploitative job markets.

Criminal record: “how is that not her fault?”
didn't say it's not her fault. Just saying if someone has a record, it probably prevents them from getting a job

What you’re really arguing:
Not “she has real alternatives,” but “I want to believe she does, so I don’t feel guilty.”
 
Ask yourself one simple question: Why is she a prostitute?
She is a prostitute because she knows how valuable her pussy is and that men pay large sums to get access to it.
You're using her suffering as a means to get your rocks off.
No, I just want to experience what others can experience for free at least once in my lifetime (I haven't booked an escort yet, but I don't see anything morally wrong with it and consider it). Some people say they had sex dreams only after having sex with an escort and even for that it could be worth it. Remembering how it could feel to be loved even if it never happened.

Prostitutes suffer way less than incels so I don't really care as she also doesn't care about my suffering.
You are leveraging your cash to bypass the need for mutual attraction, respect, or connection.
It's called a business transaction and not that different to e.g. caregivers for elderly who also might not actually care for them but just do it to get paid. IMHO the only reason it's seen as predatory is because ugly men profit from it, and as we know everything men and which benefits men is evil.
but if her consent is born from desperation, trauma, or coercion, how meaningful is it
Idc, her "desperation" is less than the ones of incels. As written above, lives which would be considered as dream for every incel is seen as the worst situation by prostitutes. They have a completely warped view of how life is for men.
replacing it with a financial ultimatum given to someone in a compromised position.
Even if everything were true it's mutual exploitation as she exploits our unmet desires of intimacy while we exploit her unmet desires of financial stability. The only advantage we have over even street walkers is that they don't know for sure we are incels, but they probably can guess just from our looks.

And here is another thing: The only reason why having sex with their clients is so difficult for them IMHO is that they just don't want that ugly men have any kind of pleasure, so even if they pay it's awful to them. In some way I think this mindset shows how evil they are. Their clients often enjoy giving them money because they like them and want them to have a good life while they hate giving them sex in return because they think that these ugly men are supposed to die as sexless virgins and the ability to pay for it gives them a chance to avoid this fate. Like really, how hard is it to spread your legs? The only legit concern IMHO is the one of safety, but they also often complain about ugly guys or guys who simply don't fuck them amazingly (while yes, at the same time complaining if they have orgasms when with unattractive clients, because even though for a guy having an orgasm would probably always be nice, they cannot stand if someone who is so ugly that they repulse them still has the skills to be a good lover)
not always : disability, abuse, childcare, immigration, criminal record, etc
In any way she has more options than men. Essentially women can do everything men can do in the same situation but have the additional option of fucking them to get money. They just like the option more than whatever men do in that situation
Existence ≠ adequacy. Help being available doesn’t mean it’s sufficient, accessible, safe, or actually workable for everyone. A life raft existing doesn’t mean everyone can reach it.
Still much better than what men get.
Irrelevant, The question is whether buying sex exploits vulnerability, not whether men suffer too. That’s just “others suffer, so I’m allowed to benefit from suffering.” Not a defense.
The point is that she CHOOSES to do it over whatever a man in a similar situation would have to do. So in any way she doesn't suffer more than probably the average man, but likely even less so. Tell me why I should be concerned by people with that much privileges?
 
it’s hard to draw the compulsory line between a non-predator and hypocrite isn’t it? if infrequent compulsive conscience is the flat lattice of armoring the same feeding shade as reinforming baselessness, aren’t you just beating the bush as well

what you’re really saying is, “i’m better than full on escortcels for realizing the obvious”
 
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it’s hard to draw the compulsory line between a non-predator and hypocrite isn’t it? if infrequent compulsive conscience is the flat lattice of armoring the same feeding shade as reinforming baselessness, aren’t you just beating the bush as well

what you’re really saying is, “i’m better than full on escortcels for realizing the obvious”
A bunch of word salad to just say: “you’re not perfect so shut up”

I admit I acted predatory, I want to see if others admit to it too
 
A bunch of word salad to just say: “you’re not perfect so shut up”

I admit I acted predatory, I want to see if others admit to it too
my point is you’re still predatory.

t.
Had I known the implication of all this . . . I still would've done it :forcedsmile: but I would've limited the frequency,
that means you’re approaching escortceling as you see fit and admitting that doesn’t make you non-predatory in any way lmao
 
no theres nothing "predatory" about it. it's a transaction. this is a feminist take
 
We tend to talk about seeing escorts like it's a victimless transaction, a business deal. Some even call the escort a predator for "taking advantage of lonely men."

Having seen so many escorts myself, I've realised I have been acting predatory.

Ask yourself one simple question: Why is she a prostitute?

Is it because she woke up with a burning passion to be intimate with sexually frustrated, lonely men off of the streets that she's never met before? :feelswhat:

No.

She's there because:
  • She's financially trapped with no way out
  • She's addicted to drugs and this is the fastest way to score
  • She's a trafficking victim
  • She has sexual trauma
You're using her suffering as a means to get your rocks off.

You are leveraging your cash to bypass the need for mutual attraction, respect, or connection. You are paying for access to a vulnerable whore.

This is predatory behavior. The strong exploiting the weak.

You can dress it up with words like "transaction" and "consent," but if her consent is born from desperation, trauma, or coercion, how meaningful is it? You are bypassing genuine, mutual desire and replacing it with a financial ultimatum given to someone in a compromised position.

So if you're considering doing this, have the guts to admit what it is.

Had I known the implication of all this . . . I still would've done it :forcedsmile: but I would've limited the frequency, not because I care about some scallywag whore :feelswhat: but because I don't like being a predator.
What a simp. This nigga care about them. He's writing posts about them.
 
Paying for sex is cucked
 
We tend to talk about seeing escorts like it's a victimless transaction, a business deal. Some even call the escort a predator for "taking advantage of lonely men."

Having seen so many escorts myself, I've realised I have been acting predatory.

Ask yourself one simple question: Why is she a prostitute?

Is it because she woke up with a burning passion to be intimate with sexually frustrated, lonely men off of the streets that she's never met before? :feelswhat:

No.

She's there because:
  • She's financially trapped with no way out
  • She's addicted to drugs and this is the fastest way to score
  • She's a trafficking victim
  • She has sexual trauma
You're using her suffering as a means to get your rocks off.

You are leveraging your cash to bypass the need for mutual attraction, respect, or connection. You are paying for access to a vulnerable whore.

This is predatory behavior. The strong exploiting the weak.

You can dress it up with words like "transaction" and "consent," but if her consent is born from desperation, trauma, or coercion, how meaningful is it? You are bypassing genuine, mutual desire and replacing it with a financial ultimatum given to someone in a compromised position.

So if you're considering doing this, have the guts to admit what it is.

Had I known the implication of all this . . . I still would've done it :forcedsmile: but I would've limited the frequency, not because I care about some scallywag whore :feelswhat: but because I don't like being a predator.
yes i am
 
We tend to talk about seeing escorts like it's a victimless transaction, a business deal. Some even call the escort a predator for "taking advantage of lonely men."

Having seen so many escorts myself, I've realised I have been acting predatory.

Ask yourself one simple question: Why is she a prostitute?

Is it because she woke up with a burning passion to be intimate with sexually frustrated, lonely men off of the streets that she's never met before? :feelswhat:

No.

She's there because:
  • She's financially trapped with no way out
  • She's addicted to drugs and this is the fastest way to score
  • She's a trafficking victim
  • She has sexual trauma
You're using her suffering as a means to get your rocks off.

You are leveraging your cash to bypass the need for mutual attraction, respect, or connection. You are paying for access to a vulnerable whore.

This is predatory behavior. The strong exploiting the weak.

You can dress it up with words like "transaction" and "consent," but if her consent is born from desperation, trauma, or coercion, how meaningful is it? You are bypassing genuine, mutual desire and replacing it with a financial ultimatum given to someone in a compromised position.

So if you're considering doing this, have the guts to admit what it is.

Had I known the implication of all this . . . I still would've done it :forcedsmile: but I would've limited the frequency, not because I care about some scallywag whore :feelswhat: but because I don't like being a predator.
not sure if this is troll.



You do realize that she could just choose to be a decent woman by marrying a decent man who would take care of her?
 

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