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Edmund_Kemper
Disregard my larping efforts. I can’t change it.
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it makes it worse if you also missed out in HS. but missing out in HS can be fixed if you enjoy life in college. but if you enjoyed HS but missed out in college, or missed out in both, its over. if you missed out in college, its over. you fucked up your life.
i ddid absolutely nothing in college. i never experienced dating or sex, never got to go to a single fuckin party in college (or even HS). i never got to go to events where people hang out and do fun shit together. i never have gotten drunk before. never have went to a bar before. at my age, people have had sex, one night stands, went to at least a couple parties, made friends, went to places with friends, and enjoyed life. and i had to deal with fuckin gay ass OCD all fucking darn long throughout college missing out on everything. and i fuckin hate it. fuck this world. and then fucking quarantine just had to fucking happen. and now months are gonna feel like years when i wait for covid to end. now under covid, i have 0 opportunities for going to places. and i don't have my drivers test until a couple months, so i can't drive to places and my mom is an overprotective helicopter karen of a parent who restricts what i do. i hate that fucking cunt. i can't ascend without my license and i can't ascend under covid.
and if you think it's easy making friends after college you're wrong. if you think it's easy finding a date after college youre fuckin wrong. i read articles about how its much harder finding a friend or a girlfriend after college. people in their mid-late 20s usually hangout with those they met in high school/college. and their relationships often are with someone they began dating in college. college is your last chance to make friends and lose your virginity and find a GF, if you miss out on all of it, you have zero chances left. and nobody goes to parties or festivals or clubs or other fun events after college. in fact, nobody goes out to places after college. they still might during the 1st and 2nd year following college, but once they get to their mid-20s they completely outgrow it. if you missed out in it in your teens/early 20s, it's over. you fucked up in life. time to rope afterward in minecraft.
here's a study:
*https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/pag0000014
"Social connection, a leading factor in the promotion of health, well-being, and longevity, requires social knowledge and the capacity to cultivate intimacy. Life span development theorists have speculated that social information-seeking goals, emphasized at the beginning of early adulthood, give way to emotional closeness goals in later stages of early adulthood. Drawing on developmental theory (Baltes & Carstensen, 2003; Baltes, 1997), this 30-year prospective study assessed social activity at age 20 and age 30 with experience sampling methods, and psychosocial outcomes (social integration, friendship quality, loneliness, depression, and psychological well-being) at age 50. Results supported the hypothesis that the quantity (but not the quality) of social interactions at age 20, and the quality (but not the quantity) of social interactions at age 30 predict midlife psychosocial outcomes. Longitudinal structural models revealed that age-20 interaction quantity had a direct, unmediated effect on age-50 social and psychological outcomes. The effects of age-20 interaction quality on midlife outcomes, on the other hand, were mediated by age-30 interaction quality. Our findings are consistent with the idea that selection and optimization serve important functions in early adulthood, and that engaging in developmentally appropriate social activity contributes to psychosocial adjustment in the decades that follow."
i ddid absolutely nothing in college. i never experienced dating or sex, never got to go to a single fuckin party in college (or even HS). i never got to go to events where people hang out and do fun shit together. i never have gotten drunk before. never have went to a bar before. at my age, people have had sex, one night stands, went to at least a couple parties, made friends, went to places with friends, and enjoyed life. and i had to deal with fuckin gay ass OCD all fucking darn long throughout college missing out on everything. and i fuckin hate it. fuck this world. and then fucking quarantine just had to fucking happen. and now months are gonna feel like years when i wait for covid to end. now under covid, i have 0 opportunities for going to places. and i don't have my drivers test until a couple months, so i can't drive to places and my mom is an overprotective helicopter karen of a parent who restricts what i do. i hate that fucking cunt. i can't ascend without my license and i can't ascend under covid.
and if you think it's easy making friends after college you're wrong. if you think it's easy finding a date after college youre fuckin wrong. i read articles about how its much harder finding a friend or a girlfriend after college. people in their mid-late 20s usually hangout with those they met in high school/college. and their relationships often are with someone they began dating in college. college is your last chance to make friends and lose your virginity and find a GF, if you miss out on all of it, you have zero chances left. and nobody goes to parties or festivals or clubs or other fun events after college. in fact, nobody goes out to places after college. they still might during the 1st and 2nd year following college, but once they get to their mid-20s they completely outgrow it. if you missed out in it in your teens/early 20s, it's over. you fucked up in life. time to rope afterward in minecraft.
here's a study:
*https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/pag0000014
"Social connection, a leading factor in the promotion of health, well-being, and longevity, requires social knowledge and the capacity to cultivate intimacy. Life span development theorists have speculated that social information-seeking goals, emphasized at the beginning of early adulthood, give way to emotional closeness goals in later stages of early adulthood. Drawing on developmental theory (Baltes & Carstensen, 2003; Baltes, 1997), this 30-year prospective study assessed social activity at age 20 and age 30 with experience sampling methods, and psychosocial outcomes (social integration, friendship quality, loneliness, depression, and psychological well-being) at age 50. Results supported the hypothesis that the quantity (but not the quality) of social interactions at age 20, and the quality (but not the quantity) of social interactions at age 30 predict midlife psychosocial outcomes. Longitudinal structural models revealed that age-20 interaction quantity had a direct, unmediated effect on age-50 social and psychological outcomes. The effects of age-20 interaction quality on midlife outcomes, on the other hand, were mediated by age-30 interaction quality. Our findings are consistent with the idea that selection and optimization serve important functions in early adulthood, and that engaging in developmentally appropriate social activity contributes to psychosocial adjustment in the decades that follow."