Ignore that part. But what I am trying to say is It is just stupid to sign marriage paper for a man in the west.
If woman is not staying with you unless you get married, It is wise to just break up with the woman.
A man's policy should be simple wrt woman - If you want to stay , stay , If you want to leave , leave.
It is the man who should be decide what will happen in the relationship. This is how nature has decided.
If you are letting a woman decide the terms and conditions, you are the on the path to get cucked for sure, one way or the other. 100 percent.
Marrying is just senseless in the west.