Im above average looking, a 7.5, and I have gotten aproached before, in fact most of my LTR and FWB approached me first or I met trough tinder, hot or not, etc... but first of all, its extremely rare for a girl to aproach you out of the blue meaning without having mutual friends, being in the same class, at a bar, etc... approaches at the gym, street, mall, etc are extremely rare and happen once every blue moon even if you are good looking, approaches in your class, at bars, etc do happen but its not as often as incels would think, no girl goes approaching every guy they find good looking, they would be approaching 24/7, for a girl to aproach you she has to be extremely into, not just find you good looking, I know some incels do approach and do so actively and still get rejected but if you are average looking or even slightly below and you dont approach you are not an incel