If you have to try to be normal, it's already over

[ionlycopenow]

This comes effortlessly to every normie and above who socializes with ease and ascends appropriately. If you're struggling with this, it's crucial to understand that it is not your fault (unless you're a literal low iq retard who doesn't understand things like washing at least once a week), but that you're just a social outcast and nobody wants anything to do with you. People are supposed to gravitate towards each other, as we are all supposed to be social. If you have to force your way into social interactions, if you have to read endless guides, if you have to read shit like "how to win friends and influence people" and have to basically LARP being neurotypical by seeing what other normshits do and coping their quirks and mannerisms, it is incredibly over.

 

[Saigon Depression]

I have to pretend that I'm a normal person in almost all social situations, sometimes it works, but usually I fuck up somehow.
The way I walk, the way I talk, the way I react to people, it's not honest, it's what I pretend to be.

 

[Deleted member 19236]

It's hard for me but I can still cope that im NT because Im not tested (i lied in the test when i was a kid tbh)

 

[Deleted member 4159]

You can't change your DNA. Trying to compensate makes you look even worse than being your natural self. Humans are designed to hate those that are different.

 

[ionlycopenow]

You can't change your DNA. Trying to compensate makes you look even worse than being your natural self. Humans are designed to hate those that are different.

Even my dad is a sperg. He is so lucky he did not have tinder and social media growing up or I would not exist right now. My mom told me her friends would outright call him a weirdo right to her, that is obviously rude as hell to say yet they did it anyway.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

I know what you mean. I don't have social anxiety or anything like that, but socialising isn't something that feels completely natural for me, and it's clear to me that a lot of people can sense that there's something 'different' about me when they talk to me.

 

[ionlycopenow]

I know what you mean. I don't have social anxiety or anything like that, but socialising isn't something that feels completely natural for me, and it's clear to me that a lot of people can sense that there's something 'different' about me when they talk to me.

People flat out don't like me. When I was younger I'd try to add people to social media or get their number, they'd either day no most of the time or add me then completely ignore me

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Even my dad is a sperg. He is so lucky he did not have tinder and social media growing up or I would not exist right now. My mom told me her friends would outright call him a weirdo right to her, that is obviously rude as hell to say yet they did it anyway.

Boomers don't know how lucky they have it.

People flat out don't like me. When I was younger I'd try to add people to social media or get their number, they'd either day no most of the time or add me then completely ignore me

"Just get out there and network dude"

 

[ionlycopenow]

Boomers don't know how lucky they have it.

"Just get out there and network dude"

I could never understand what I was doing wrong and it made me hate myself and feel like a freak. Eventually I grew up and realized I am just ugly and not NT so it's not my fault at all and there's nothing I can do about it.

 

[Deleted member 21504]

This comes effortlessly to every normie and above who socializes with ease and ascends appropriately. If you're struggling with this, it's crucial to understand that it is not your fault (unless you're a literal low iq retard who doesn't understand things like washing at least once a week), but that you're just a social outcast and nobody wants anything to do with you. People are supposed to gravitate towards each other, as we are all supposed to be social. If you have to force your way into social interactions, if you have to read endless guides, if you have to read shit like "how to win friends and influence people" and have to basically LARP being neurotypical by seeing what other normshits do and coping their quirks and mannerisms, it is incredibly over.

How the fuck is it "your fault" if u have a low IQ?

 

[Deleted member 4159]

I am just ugly and not NT so it's not my fault at all and there's nothing I can do about it.

Yeah but it's really due to society changing for the worse. Autists exist for a reason, they are good at focusing on one thing and working for long periods in isolation.

 

[TheSecondComing]

I know what you mean. I don't have social anxiety or anything like that, but socialising isn't something that feels completely natural for me, and it's clear to me that a lot of people can sense that there's something 'different' about me when they talk to me.

 

[blond_elf_bard]

it anything is even slightly difficult it is impossible

 

[ionlycopenow]

it anything is even slightly difficult it is impossible

Not sure if sarcasm or not

 

[bonk123]

I don't bother trying to be normal anymore

 

[ihaveno1]

guess its already over for me then

 

[iblamemyself]

I disagree. Fitting in is exhausting af. Normies are simply willing to put in the effort.

 

[RollD20]

I guess I am too retarded to be normal, guess I will just be a friendless virgin

 

[needsolution]

once you autist, there is no way back