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Serious If you have friends as an incel you're setting yourself up for betrayal

Stupid Clown

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You're going to get betrayed if you do. If you are a truly ugly man then betrayal is inevitable. The sad truth is most friendships are not driven by unconditional love. Most friendships are simply an exchange of value. Even if you befriend another ugly man who is arguably equal to you in value, you will still be betrayed if he finds friends of higher status.

That's how it works. You need to find ways to cope with being alone. OTHERWISE you're going to drive yourself insane.
 
Friendship is chad only.
 
I’ve been isolated for a long time
 
Also if you are not outgoing (literally) , your friendship isn't really going to be enjoying
 
Also if you are not outgoing (literally) , your friendship isn't really going to be enjoying
You need to at least engage in different activities. Otherwise their prefrontal cortex will numb to your existence and become bored of you.
 
Were they even ever your friends if they could have never been loyal to you though? I'm splitting hairs somewhat. but still
Most friendships are shallow.
 
This is why i don't feel bad on admitting i befriended the irl wizard cause at 36 and KHHV and non NT meants its game over for him

It has allowed us to truly thrive on the friendship and he has put all trust on me
 
If you're going to make friends, they have to be lonely men like yourself or you're just setting yourself up for disappointment.

If they have the need to please women at all, you will be thrown under the bus eventually.

Then if you're an ugly, short, any genetic weakness, you will have to placate the other person to have value for them. Usually in the form of being a people pleaser, a jester, whatever going out of your way in an unbalanced relationship.
 
even if you aren't an incel male friends are still pointless because the rare chance a foid approaches your group then instantly they will turn on you and mock you in a desperate attempt to be above you and impress the foid
 
All friendships are conditional at least to a point. Good thing I'm used to being alone, that's how I spent my entire life.
 
Absolute fact, every single friendship I was in has ended in me being stabbed in the back or ditched, not worth it mang
 
You're going to get betrayed if you do. If you are a truly ugly man then betrayal is inevitable. The sad truth is most friendships are not driven by unconditional love. Most friendships are simply an exchange of value. Even if you befriend another ugly man who is arguably equal to you in value, you will still be betrayed if he finds friends of higher status.

That's how it works. You need to find ways to cope with being alone. OTHERWISE you're going to drive yourself insane.
No genuine friendship for us
 
I want to cry :cryfeels: :cryfeels:
 
It's true. All my best friends have left me aside when they got girlfriends, and every time I call them to do something they make excuses. Still, facing loneliness is extremely difficult for an idealistic and sensitive person like me
 
It's true. All my best friends have left me aside when they got girlfriends, and every time I call them to do something they make excuses. Still, facing loneliness is extremely difficult for an idealistic and sensitive person like me
:feelsrope:
 
What's wrong?
This reminded me that I may not have friends in real life. I only have people from the university as acquaintances. And the 2 friends I have already had a girlfriend and sex with them. In the meantime I'm fighting with myself. There are days when I want death, and there are also days when I want life. To think that I won't have anyone I can call a friend makes me sad.

Sometimes I think about how my friends are going to betray me.


Sorry if I made any mistakes. English is not my native language and I am using a translator
 
There's a theory that there's no such thing as "friends." They're all just acquaintances engaging in transactions.
 
This reminded me that I may not have friends in real life. I only have people from the university as acquaintances. And the 2 friends I have already had a girlfriend and sex with them. In the meantime I'm fighting with myself. There are days when I want death, and there are also days when I want life. To think that I won't have anyone I can call a friend makes me sad.

Sometimes I think about how my friends are going to betray me.


Sorry if I made any mistakes. English is not my native language and I am using a translator
As an unattractive man you need to accept that your friends aren't going to be very close. You should view them more as acquaintances. Don't set yourself up for emotional pain


There's a theory that there's no such thing as "friends." They're all just acquaintances engaging in transactions.
Brutal... True too
 
yeah im not sure where my 15 year friendship between me and my lifemogger friend is heading
but it seems like it might be that way
i just dont understand why he hasnt left me in the dust yet i guess because im a bigger loser than he is but if thats true that kind of doesnt make much sense either since im just holding him back so idk
 
You're going to get betrayed if you do. If you are a truly ugly man then betrayal is inevitable. The sad truth is most friendships are not driven by unconditional love. Most friendships are simply an exchange of value. Even if you befriend another ugly man who is arguably equal to you in value, you will still be betrayed if he finds friends of higher status.

That's how it works. You need to find ways to cope with being alone. OTHERWISE you're going to drive yourself insane.
I'm already insane
 
You're going to get betrayed if you do. If you are a truly ugly man then betrayal is inevitable. The sad truth is most friendships are not driven by unconditional love. Most friendships are simply an exchange of value. Even if you befriend another ugly man who is arguably equal to you in value, you will still be betrayed if he finds friends of higher status.

That's how it works. You need to find ways to cope with being alone. OTHERWISE you're going to drive yourself insane.
bro my sperg friends don’t have any way to ascend but hell not even they care much about me
 
Friendship was always a human cope, you can never trust another human because a moment they have a chance to get ahead they will. Idiots that don't see this get filtered quickly by cutthoratcels.
 
You're going to get betrayed if you do. If you are a truly ugly man then betrayal is inevitable. The sad truth is most friendships are not driven by unconditional love. Most friendships are simply an exchange of value. Even if you befriend another ugly man who is arguably equal to you in value, you will still be betrayed if he finds friends of higher status.

That's how it works. You need to find ways to cope with being alone. OTHERWISE you're going to drive yourself insane.
I have freinds but I keep my distance.
 
Just shelter yourself from the world all the time so you don't get hurt, what kind of logic is that.
 
I try not to overthink this. You are dying alone either way.
 
Not to be a tradcon but sometimes i think that men are naturally more lonely at a fundamental level (thus even without the contextual circumstances like society being anti male since the last decades) due to human nature being inherently shitty and men being more sensible to it as it's men that were made in the image of god. And the more sensible you are the more you see through the bullshit and the more unbearable it get's, so you're predisposed to become lonely. But what might stem from virtue at the beginning ends up being misled partly by modern soyciety (not being a pro-social foid worshipping soy latte sipping yuppie or tryharding thugmaxxer can make you a pariah), partly by vices (laziness, porn, anger), and all those things combine and reinforce each other (being a social pariah is not conducive to develop noble traits, for example). It's again something about inherent differences between genders that modern soyciety can't figure out and will just put onto men stuff like them being less muh vulnerable :foidSoy: or less socially capable, which is insulting and dumb.

With the world now being so feminized, immoral (i mean real morality and not normie posturing) and deranged, this makes even more sense.
 
True
Every "friend" I had betrayed me in a way or another
 
All my friends have betrayed me. Fuck those backstabbing little shits. They are same as foids they always chase leader and most popular guy, while leave you to be alone unless you bring them something.
 
All my friends have betrayed me. Fuck those backstabbing little shits. They are same as foids they always chase leader and most popular guy, while leave you to be alone unless you bring them something.
With the loss of common values and simplicity (like people marrying in their early 20's, or rather women marrying men at all) everything becomes a mogging contest and the worst of humanity will express itself. It's very cruel that women don't want men or divorce rape them often given that men need families the most as they're less inclined to be social imo. Some MRA's circles interpret male reluctance to male friendships as in-built male hostility and female worship but they're wrong. Men just don't like to go through hypocrisy and fakeness and even when they find their good ""tribe"" they don't like to sit there patting themselves on each other's backs but rather seek transcendence through love/family. I hate it when dudes like CityCrusher say how men don't care about children and only the woman.
 

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