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Serious If you had a girlfriend, could you actually handle the fact that she’s been with other men?

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Let’s be real, we’re never getting a woman who’s a virgin. If we somehow manage to get a girlfriend, we have to cope with the fact that she’s already fucked several guys and had at least one serious relationship.

So the real question is:
Could you live with the fact that she’s fucked other men before you?

That she’s already given her heart and her body to another man?

That she’ll always be comparing you to the Chad who actually turned her on?
 
I know the replies are going to say that they can’t. But realistically they would.
 
... that she won't cheat?

I'm 29 and to answer your question....I don't have a choice. Even if I got a gf. And that's a big if. It would technically be legal for me to date a 16 year old, but she (or any woman) wouldn't want me anyway. I also prefer age 18-24 girls mostly to be on a closer level mentally and I like more developed bodies. I can't prefer anything. My odds of winning millions in the lottery are about 100x higher than me getting a gf (I'm 5'4", deformed, autistic).
 
Let’s be real, we’re never getting a woman who’s a virgin. If we somehow manage to get a girlfriend, we have to cope with the fact that she’s already fucked several guys and had at least one serious relationship.

So the real question is:
Could you live with the fact that she’s fucked other men before you?

That she’s already given her heart and her body to another man?

That she’ll always be comparing you to the Chad who actually turned her on?
No.

I'd just block it out.

No men accept that shit except closet cases using a woman as their beard.

Though at this point I'm so emotionally numb basic loyalty is all I care about but lets be honest.

Most hoes if not all can't do that.

Not even for the Chads they want.

Its why they (women) are hoes.
 
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life is irrational. sometimes you must accept it to not go insane.
 
thats why you beat your wife
 
Depends how many men before her if its just one or two its not too bad but like 7 is in rope territory
 
Let’s be real, we’re never getting a woman who’s a virgin. If we somehow manage to get a girlfriend, we have to cope with the fact that she’s already fucked several guys and had at least one serious relationship.

So the real question is:
Could you live with the fact that she’s fucked other men before you?

That she’s already given her heart and her body to another man?

That she’ll always be comparing you to the Chad who actually turned her on?
I woudn't care that much because i won't be in true love with her
 
no hymen no diamond.
 
Cuck if you say yes
 
No, realistically.

If it's a situation where I'm the best looking man she can get and there's no signs that she wants to stray... then it could work. But, that's a pipe dream.

Once you're awaken on hypergamy, it's impossible to turn back.
 
For my oneitis yes. There's no way a woman my age is a virgin, and I only would date a foid around 20-30 years old. But my chances will get slimmer each year. It would never happen anyway
 
You might get a virgin if u geomax but how would u even know if shes virgin ngl
 
Let’s be real, we’re never getting a woman who’s a virgin. If we somehow manage to get a girlfriend, we have to cope with the fact that she’s already fucked several guys and had at least one serious relationship.

So the real question is:
Could you live with the fact that she’s fucked other men before you?

That she’s already given her heart and her body to another man?

That she’ll always be comparing you to the Chad who actually turned her on?
i wouldnt really be happy if its like more than five bodies but like one or two i dont mind at all
 
Ngl I don't expect anything good from women
 
No?

Not even normies accept it. Look at how destroyed they are when a gf mentions an ex's name. They did not accept shit
 
It would disgust me i don't know if i could get past it
 
It is what it is
 
I don’t think I could accept it.

Women seem to have this need to remain their spouses of their previous lovers. Like they say to their husband about when Chad fuck and dump her
 
Let’s be real, we’re never getting a woman who’s a virgin. If we somehow manage to get a girlfriend, we have to cope with the fact that she’s already fucked several guys and had at least one serious relationship.

So the real question is:
Could you live with the fact that she’s fucked other men before you?

That she’s already given her heart and her body to another man?

That she’ll always be comparing you to the Chad who actually turned her on?
No i stay incel or virgin gf
but i will never get a gf anyway so cba
 
dafuq? What in the jebus is wrong with u dude? How retarded are u?

I would rather be skinned alive than have a non v foid for serious rl

Why the fuck would u want to settle for a cum dump with potential sexual diseases?
 
Realistically no
 
dafuq? What in the jebus is wrong with u dude? How retarded are u?

I would rather be skinned alive than have a non v foid for serious rl

Why the fuck would u want to settle for a cum dump with potential sexual diseases?
where did I say I want to be with a non virgin?

I couldn't enter a relationship with a woman who has had sex with other men
 
No, I can't accept a non-virgin girl as a virgin man. For it to be true love, the relationship needs to be equal, or with me above her. If I became a sexhaver I would pump and dump many whores before settling down. Sadly that's what they would force me to due to not having saved their virginity for me.

I know the replies are going to say that they can’t. But realistically they would.
:yes:
If I actually got a girlfriend, I would probably get blinded by love. You can't expect much maturity from someone who never had experiences nor felt these emotions.
 
I do not want any woman in my life fucking my shit up.
 
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No, I'd rather stay alone my entire life than take used goods.
 
Let’s be real, we’re never getting a woman who’s a virgin. If we somehow manage to get a girlfriend, we have to cope with the fact that she’s already fucked several guys and had at least one serious relationship.

So the real question is:
Could you live with the fact that she’s fucked other men before you?

That she’s already given her heart and her body to another man?

That she’ll always be comparing you to the Chad who actually turned her on?
Barely but i dont know maybe i am desperate at this point
 
i wouldnt have a choice
 

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