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If you got a gf would you be paranoid she would cheat?

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How much? Hopefully she's loyal and nice and loves me :feelsbadman:
 
yep, one mtn and its over for me
 
1000%
I've seen good looking men lose their life long wives over a one night stand.
 
No, because if she cheats then I'd just leave her, it's not worth spending so much energy checking if your partner will cheat on you. I obviously wouldn't be naive but if I discover it then I'd just leave.
 
No, because if she cheats then I'd just leave her, it's not worth spending so much energy checking if your partner will cheat on you. I obviously wouldn't be naive but if I discover it then I'd just leave.
Thats the point though. Some of us here are closing to our 30s. And even if I get a partner and she cheats and I leave her then what? Takes you 25-30 years to find someone and she cheats on you and then who you gonna find? You gonna wait another 20 years for chance #2? Bullshit. Its all a cope.
The way you talk it sounds as if you know you gonna find someone new soon after you leave her.
 
I know she would so why bother getting a gf
 
No, because if she cheats then I'd just leave her, it's not worth spending so much energy checking if your partner will cheat on you. I obviously wouldn't be naive but if I discover it then I'd just leave.
There is no if. She WILL cheat. So you are basically signing up yourself to get cucked in exchange for female touch.
 
How did you cope.
Well, by just "surviving" (not dying) I guess. Although I wouldn't mind dying tbh. Copes were food, watching tv. My childhood cat was also my cope for 17 long years but she sadly died 2 years ago that was a big loss. I am very skinny but unhealthy food still makes me feel slightly better for a few minutes. So my hope isn't to get a gf, although that is still my wish. Rather I hope that I don't mind anymore, that I will never have one.
 
There is no if. She WILL cheat. So you are basically signing up yourself to get cucked in exchange for female touch.
It's not something I ever have to worry about, now at almost 30, being 5'4" and deformed this is clearer than it ever was, at least to me. Objectively it was always so clear, but I was coping. Never asked a girl out btw, I knew how that would end.
I still want and desire a gf, but it is absolutely not my goal or hope. I hope that I can somehow be content without a gf (despite knowing the downsides), and that people are mean to me because of how I look, I want to stop caring there. Does that make any sense?
 
Yes you’ll be lucky if she’s just cheating on you with one guy
 
Thats the point though. Some of us here are closing to our 30s. And even if I get a partner and she cheats and I leave her then what? Takes you 25-30 years to find someone and she cheats on you and then who you gonna find? You gonna wait another 20 years for chance #2? Bullshit. Its all a cope.
Good points. Not that that's something I ever have to worry about, but it still scares me, illogically.
A gf is my desire, but not a hope or goal I have anymore. I'm realistic. And when I think about this particular girl, fantasying about her being my gf (she doesn't even know me), I think if she became my gf by some crazy luck, why wouldn't she leave a 5'4" ugly man for chad? But it is a very illogical and inconsistent thought.


The way you talk it sounds as if you know you gonna find someone new soon after you leave her.
That is EXACTLY what I thought too.
 
>If you got a gf
Lol. lmao even
 
>If you got a gf
Lol. lmao even
It's supposed to be a thought experiment. Like "if you won the lottery, what would you do". Although that is much more likely for me.
 
It's supposed to be a thought experiment. Like "if you won the lottery, what would you do". Although that is much more likely for me.
If I were the kind of guy to have a gf then she'd be the one worried about me cheating.
 
I'd be enjoying it too much to worry about the future
 
nah, because i wouldn’t care if she cheats. I don’t understand why people obsess over their partner cheating, if they cheat then leave them and move on. You can’t stop someone from cheating, if they wanna do it then they will do it, and by preventing it then you’re only delaying the inevitable and wasting your time. But i have never been in a relationship so it’s easy for me to say this, who knows how i would act if i entered one. I can only understand worrying about getting cheated on if you’re married but if i married someone i would 100% trust them.
 
nah, because i wouldn’t care if she cheats. I don’t understand why people obsess over their partner cheating, if they cheat then leave them and move on. You can’t stop someone from cheating, if they wanna do it then they will do it, and by preventing it then you’re only delaying the inevitable and wasting your time. But i have never been in a relationship so it’s for me to say this, who knows how i would act if i entered one. I can only understand worrying about getting cheated on if you’re married but if i married someone i would 100% trust them.
well said. It's just a thought I had, and one I likely never have to worry about. At age 29, this is pretty clear.
 
Thats the point though. Some of us here are closing to our 30s. And even if I get a partner and she cheats and I leave her then what? Takes you 25-30 years to find someone and she cheats on you and then who you gonna find? You gonna wait another 20 years for chance #2? Bullshit. Its all a cope.
The way you talk it sounds as if you know you gonna find someone new soon after you leave her.
you need to come to peace with being alone. If you find one, good. If you don’t, oh well. Realistically a lot of us will die alone. You need to kill what little hope you have in entering a relationship and come to terms with it. Especially if you’re nearing 30s.
 
Be paranoid around foids
 
Would be inevitable
 
you need to come to peace with being alone. If you find one, good. If you don’t, oh well. Realistically a lot of us will die alone. You need to kill what little hope you have in entering a relationship and come to terms with it. Especially if you’re nearing 30s.
I'm at least hoping to find something short term before I kms. I'm not hoping for a long term relationship because I know its not gonna happen.
To get to at least have a short relationship with some genuine love on both sides, even if it only lasts a couple of weeks or a month. Hell even a few days if we spent them together. It would make me able to die in peace at least. Without bitterness
 
well said. It's just a thought I had, and one I likely never have to worry about. At age 29, this is pretty clear.
i understand that, i also create hypotheticals that will never happen, i like to fantasise about living a normal life and what i would do in situations most people have been on. Basically the only way to stay sane when you’re isolated.
 
I'm at least hoping to find something short term before I kms. I'm not hoping for a long term relationship because I know its not gonna happen.
To get to at least have a short relationship with some genuine love on both sides, even if it only lasts a couple of weeks or a month. Hell even a few days if we spent them together. It would make me able to die in peace at least. Without bitterness
man if you nearing 30s then the chance of that happening is very low. I would say that after 25 the chance of you ever entering a relationship drops to 1%. The best thing you can hope for is hooking up with a drunk whore at a club that can barely walk due to how drunk she is
 
man if you nearing 30s then the chance of that happening is very low. I would say that after 25 the chance of you ever entering a relationship drops to 1%. The best thing you can hope for is hooking up with a drunk whore at a club that can barely walk due to how drunk she is
I'm 27 now and I think you might be right. And also the method you explained is how many jocks back in high school used to hook up. A lot of low tier normies straight up fucked drunk schoolgirls and now those faggots have families while I was too much of a good boy to go and do anything like that. I wish I had no morals back then. Although I think even a drunk whore would reject me tbh. Both then and now.
 
nah, because i wouldn’t care if she cheats. I don’t understand why people obsess over their partner cheating, if they cheat then leave them and move on. You can’t stop someone from cheating, if they wanna do it then they will do it, and by preventing it then you’re only delaying the inevitable and wasting your time. But i have never been in a relationship so it’s easy for me to say this, who knows how i would act if i entered one. I can only understand worrying about getting cheated on if you’re married but if i married someone i would 100% trust them.
Yeah THIS, if ur gonna be paranoid 24/7 abt cheating then why marry lul, idk if its only me but I would 100% take the gamble if it means ascension, the risk may be worth it
 
Yeah THIS, if ur gonna be paranoid 24/7 abt cheating then why marry lul, idk if its only me but I would 100% take the gamble if it means ascension, the risk may be worth it
Me too. I was more curious what others thought, and I'd still have some worries every now and then. I think many on here do, what if a chadlite seduces her?
 
Me too. I was more curious what others thought, and I'd still have some worries every now and then. I think many on here do, what if a chadlite seduces her?
Then I just leave on the spot, as @fatass30000 said, if a foid wanna cheat they will inevitably do it, and tryna stop her is js buying urself time at best, the relationship is already over bruh, js leave atp
 
No, it’s out of my control. If she chooses to cheat that’s her decision.
 
Lowkey i wouldnt get mad cause you can just get a new one if you have that mindset but if youre sub5 think why would a girl stoop down to date a sub5 exactly so she cant cheat otherwise she would have left
 
oh she will drive me really insane

put I'll play fair officer

keeping face is important officer
 
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Probably, but it's nothing we can control sadly
 
25 years ago my uncle caught his wife in bed with his best friend. He came home from work early.
 
your worth as a man is determined by height and penis size. If you're not tall and dont have a big dick , you're worthless
 
your worth as a man is determined by height and penis size. If you're not tall and dont have a big dick , you're worthless
i'm 5'4", my d is 6.3 inches, girth 5.1 inches , both of which I guess are not enough
 
your worth as a man is determined by height and penis size. If you're not tall and dont have a big dick , you're worthless
what's a "big dick"? 6.3 ain't enough, right?
 

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