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Discussion If you got a gf trough self-improvement, would you really be able to like her?

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Let’s assume you did all the things normies told you to:

-workout
-dress nice
-learn to socialise
-lower your standards
-good haircut
-find interesting hobbies
-good hygiene
-build a social circle
-lots of therapy

And after maybe 5 years you would meet a girl who likes you and she became your girlfriend.

Would you even be able to really appreciate her?

Because, in all likelihood, she would have done very few of the thigs mentioned above to get into the relationship. She just had to be herself, unlike you.

Could you even see her as remotely equal?

Seeing her would make me think things like:

“If I were like you, I would never have been good enough for you.”

And I would be borderline disgusted by her.

There would be no real romance in the relationship. She would just be a price you won because you invested all this work and had luck.

What I’m trying to say is, if you have to work in order to get in a relationship, it will not be a relationship between equals but more like employment were you get fired as soon as you underperform too much.
 
It's quite similar to a hypothetical scenario where an incel improves his looks through a bunch of expensive surgeries and then meets a girl who's a looksmatch of his pre-op version and loves him. I think this scenario is more likely to exist. And in this case, tbh, it'd be hard for me to really love her, since she literally did nothing compared to me.
 
I don’t think I would ever be truly satisfied knowing that if I lost everything she’d leave me in an Instant SELF Improvement is supposed to be for you not to get women to like you if women only like at your best then that’s an indication that it never begun for you
 
If shes loyal and nice to me then yes, i would benefit from healthy lifestyle not counting the bitch. Some of things are waste of time and i would drop them.
 
If shes loyal and nice to me then yes, i would benefit from healthy lifestyle not counting the bitch. Some of things are waste of time and i would drop them.
 
I know that women are self-centered and they can't love a man so why bother waste my time with them
 
no. self improvement for foids just makes you a slave to them
 
Let’s assume you did all the things normies told you to:

-workout
-dress nice
-learn to socialise
-lower your standards
-good haircut
-find interesting hobbies
-good hygiene
-build a social circle
-lots of therapy

And after maybe 5 years you would meet a girl who likes you and she became your girlfriend.

Would you even be able to really appreciate her?

Because, in all likelihood, she would have done very few of the thigs mentioned above to get into the relationship. She just had to be herself, unlike you.

Could you even see her as remotely equal?

Seeing her would make me think things like:

“If I were like you, I would never have been good enough for you.”

And I would be borderline disgusted by her.

There would be no real romance in the relationship. She would just be a price you won because you invested all this work and had luck.

What I’m trying to say is, if you have to work in order to get in a relationship, it will not be a relationship between equals but more like employment were you get fired as soon as you underperform too much.
no, and that’s why “dating” or having a gf is cucked

having sex casually is a human right for men, maslow pyramid, or at least being guaranteed to sex

so don’t do it
 
No, I would only enter an ltr with a girl who is obsessed with me.
 
realistically, no
 
The very fact you have to put in work for a foid to like you is a massive red flag.
 
What I’m trying to say is, if you have to work in order to get in a relationship, it will not be a relationship between equals but more like employment were you get fired as soon as you underperform too much.
Exactly. This is why I always detested the redpill con artists who sell the shit about "how to respond to her shit tests," and " how to maintain frame in a relationship." As far as I'm concerned a girlfriend should make your life easier and happier, not put even more stress and pressure on your life

If I ever were in a relationship like that, my first response to some petty shit like that would be to just walk away immediately, not stick around and try to win her back over with my masculine frame jfl
 
As far as I'm concerned a girlfriend should make your life easier and happier, not put even more stress and pressure on your life
Lol, a gf like this is like one in a million. Even Chad is annoyed by his girlfriends. (hence the huge amounts of domestic violence). A (hot) girlfriend is a status symbol and sex object, not a partner.
 
I would be angry at her.
 
I know that women are self-centered and they can't love a man so why bother waste my time with them
no. self improvement for foids just makes you a slave to them
no, and that’s why “dating” or having a gf is cucked

having sex casually is a human right for men, maslow pyramid, or at least being guaranteed to sex

so don’t do it
realistically, no
yeah women do no work for men to lust over them
Exactly. This is why I always detested the redpill con artists who sell the shit about "how to respond to her shit tests," and " how to maintain frame in a relationship." As far as I'm concerned a girlfriend should make your life easier and happier, not put even more stress and pressure on your life

If I ever were in a relationship like that, my first response to some petty shit like that would be to just walk away immediately, not stick around and try to win her back over with my masculine frame jfl

Is this some 'based users meetup'? :chad::chad::chad::chad::chad::chad:
 
no, and that’s why “dating” or having a gf is cucked

having sex casually is a human right for men, maslow pyramid, or at least being guaranteed to sex

so don’t do it
why do you thing sex is a human right
 
Exactly. This is why I always detested the redpill con artists who sell the shit about "how to respond to her shit tests," and " how to maintain frame in a relationship." As far as I'm concerned a girlfriend should make your life easier and happier, not put even more stress and pressure on your life

If I ever were in a relationship like that, my first response to some petty shit like that would be to just walk away immediately, not stick around and try to win her back over with my masculine frame jfl
Both bluepill and masked bluepill (redpill) advice seem so tiring
“Give her gifts twice a day, show affection and do all the chores, give compliments on small details” :bluepill::bluepill::bluepill: :bluepill::soy::soy:
“Make sure your psychic powers are activated at all times, always be on guard, be dominant yet kind blah blah blah” :redpill::redpill::bluepill::bluepill::soy::soy:
I’d self implode within two days. In reality any wise old chad will tell you that you should just chill because satisfying women is impossible anyway
 
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