Everyone tells me I need to get out more and it will increase my chance of meeting someone. (I am a home body most of the time besides going to work, ETC.) But I personally don't believe that it will help. And the reason I don't think it will, is because most people meet their partner just living their normal course of life. For example, they just so happened to be at this party where this person they met happened to be, or it was a friend's friend, stuff like that.
Why can't I meet someone just living my normal life? Like, say, a cashier at a store, a customer at work, ETC? I worked at a casino a few years back where 5,000 other people worked.....why didn't I meet someone there? On the weekends (for fun) I am a mobile DJ who plays at weddings, campgrounds, and all kinds of other public events - why by now haven't I met someone at one of these parties? A friend of mine is actually a seasonal camper at one of the campgrounds I regularly DJ at and I have stayed there many weekends, and I do go out with guys on occasion, but whenever we go out, I meet no one.
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If you didn't get a girlfriend while living a normal course of life, it's because you're an undesirable incel.
If you grew up in the West or at least a Western-ish country with no gender segregation, you went to kindergarten, school, high school, college/work... Hundreds of women were literally forced to be around you. If you would be attractive to women, you would land something easily. It's not a science. All that needs to be is some sort of mutual attraction and things then go their own way.
All these people tell you you need to "go out there" and do this, do that... Meanwhile they got their girlfriends just living their random normal life.
High-tier normies and chadlites telling you to do some fancy PUA stuff, take a ton of hobbies that you don't even like etc. is ridiculous because so many of these people had girlfriends when they had literally zero game and were just some fucking clueless young men who happened to look good to women who were around them in school.
Also JFL at all the incels in denial who think that the reason they're 30 year old virgins is because they were unlucky or didn't take chances. If they were attractive, girls would make things easier for them and make them comfortable enough to approach them.
Why can't I meet someone just living my normal life? Like, say, a cashier at a store, a customer at work, ETC? I worked at a casino a few years back where 5,000 other people worked.....why didn't I meet someone there? On the weekends (for fun) I am a mobile DJ who plays at weddings, campgrounds, and all kinds of other public events - why by now haven't I met someone at one of these parties? A friend of mine is actually a seasonal camper at one of the campgrounds I regularly DJ at and I have stayed there many weekends, and I do go out with guys on occasion, but whenever we go out, I meet no one.
Why am I still single at 31?
Hi all, Hope I’m posting this in the right section. I found this forum and thought it would be a good place to post and ask for input on my situation. I am 31 years old, and it seems no matter how hard I try, I just can not find a companion. I have nver been in any kind of serious...
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If you didn't get a girlfriend while living a normal course of life, it's because you're an undesirable incel.
If you grew up in the West or at least a Western-ish country with no gender segregation, you went to kindergarten, school, high school, college/work... Hundreds of women were literally forced to be around you. If you would be attractive to women, you would land something easily. It's not a science. All that needs to be is some sort of mutual attraction and things then go their own way.
All these people tell you you need to "go out there" and do this, do that... Meanwhile they got their girlfriends just living their random normal life.
High-tier normies and chadlites telling you to do some fancy PUA stuff, take a ton of hobbies that you don't even like etc. is ridiculous because so many of these people had girlfriends when they had literally zero game and were just some fucking clueless young men who happened to look good to women who were around them in school.
Also JFL at all the incels in denial who think that the reason they're 30 year old virgins is because they were unlucky or didn't take chances. If they were attractive, girls would make things easier for them and make them comfortable enough to approach them.
