most women aren't even virgins by the time they turn 19 or 20 – some have had a lot more OR a lot less sex
"lot more" or "lot less" compared to what frame of reference exactly, the moving average?
You're not a cuck if you have sex with a woman whom has had LESS sex than average
I don't see why comparison to average would matter.
This would be like saying:
a) in an age where women have 1 sex partner on average, fucking one with 2 prior partners is cucked
b) in an age where women have 900 sex partners on average, fucking one with 500 prior partners is not cucked
Of course I don't actually think cucking has anything to do with partner count at all: it's soy/beta sure but cuck should remain linked to deception.
So if we link it to partner count it should actually be more along the lines of "the amount by which a foid has under-represented her count".
So for example, it's more cucked to fuck a girl with 10 partners who lies about having only had 5 partners, than it would be to fuck a girl with 20 partners who is honest about having 20 prior partners.
In the first case, you were deceived/cucked by a factor of 5 partners, while in the latter case you were not deceived at all.
If you're dating a carousel rider, there's a conversation to be had there.
The progression into the classification of carousal is a gradual process full of gray areas, there aren't really any hard lines about it.
Arguably carousel-riding might not even be about absolute partner count at all, but instead about the casualness at which she chooses a seat.
Promiscuity can be about standards in when you choose to have sex, rather than how often you actually do it, or how many people you do it with.
I would consider a girl who consented (uncoerced) to be gangbanged w/o condoms by a bunch of HIV-positive hobos behind a dumpster to be a bigger slut (more promiscuous) than a girl who decided to have thirteen consecutive and separate sexual condomed-up encounters with a series of well-bathed undiseased gentlemen, for example.
The latter has a higher "count" but that's clearly a lot more civilized and less disgusting than the former.