When I used to be around girls in my teenage years I always thought that their must be something 'more' to women then they show at facevalue, that they weren't purely just vapid, unwitty, generic, catty, and child-like. I still hope now, but my experiences say otherwise. I had a few girls intersted in me during HS/College and their supposed social skills are nonsense, women always expect you to intiate conversation & entertain them and if you don't they think there's something wrong you even if they're the one who's courting. Women don't have better social skills they're just more socially accepted/forgiven for their flaws and aren't expected to be extroverted like men are. If you're a passive man you will have no success with women and other men will see you as weak and easy to walk over for their enjoyment. Women also just don't have the capacity to be funny like men do, they don't have the intelligence to be and don't even need to be funny to be socially accepted. I also find that most women have no interst in intellectual topics history, geopolitics, philosophy etc. Many men don't either but at least they have humour. Overall it's very hard to respect the character of women, they're mundane outside of their sex appeal. I have a Chad friend who literally believed at one point that he might be gay due to his distate for women's personalities, and the guy has had numerous relationships, FWB, and female friends.