Welcome to Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate Forum

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

If women match with you on Tinder, but don't message you…

Status
Not open for further replies.
BonePressed

BonePressed

Banned
-
Joined
Nov 18, 2017
Posts
669
Does that mean they're not interested and were just seeking validation?
 
Yes, it means you're ugly
 
jackbud said:
Yes, it means you're ugly

I bet women message Chad as soon as they match with him :(
 
Women rarely message first, because guys always take the first steps normallly. So message her, you have nothing to lose.
 
ElfCake said:
Women rarely message first, because guys always take the first steps normallly. So message her, you have nothing to lose.

If a girl is not interested enough to message first, then it is a good indicator that's she's not that interested about going on a date or meeting up

I refuse to message first
 
ElfCake said:
Women rarely message first, because guys always take the first steps normallly. So message her, you have nothing to lose.

cope
 
BonePressed said:
I bet women message Chad as soon as they match with him :(

They do. Create a tinder profile with some Matthew noszka pics and watch your world absolutely shatter before your eyes. 8/10 girls swiped right, and the majority messaged first. When I saw the VAST difference between Matthew noszka's pics vs my best tinder morphs, I was officially blackpilled and can never go back. I regret doing it.
 
BonePressed said:
If a girl is not interested enough to message first, then it is a good indicator that's she's not that interested about going on a date or meeting up

I refuse to message first

Volcel
 
It's because she thought you were good enough but she found a better match who she will message first.
 
yes, its happened to me a few times as well, although even those matches are pretty rare, most of the time its 0 matches for ages.


ElfCake said:
Women rarely message first, because guys always take the first steps normallly. So message her, you have nothing to lose.

no he was asking if they dont reply to you = its over

and also ur coping, plenty of females message first, its just a meme from PUA to make men more delusional and "confident bro" that they have to be the ones who are to approach first.
 
Might aswell rope especially when they unmatch you. It’s over.
 
lol @ so called " incels " who even get matches.
 
like always, if you get rejected or girls don´t reply to your messages it´s always because you weren´t good looking enough.

When I used a fake male model profile on PoF back in the days the same girls who wouldn´t reply to my messages with my real profile were the ones messaging my chad profile first. If I didn´t answer they just kept messaging, that´s how desperately they wanted chads cock.
 
only bots message first
 
Do you mean message first? Cause that is only Chad territory. Or just message in general?


PM_ME_STRIPPERS said:
yes, its happened to me a few times as well, although even those matches are pretty rare, most of the time its 0 matches for ages.



no he was asking if they dont reply to you = its over

and also ur coping, plenty of females message first, its just a meme from PUA to make men more delusional and "confident bro" that they have to be the ones who are to approach first.



If they dont respond it means you are in very danger territory and have just barely gotten a match.
 
I got hardly messaged back when I wrote my matches.

Mental + Not attractive to women is a deadly combination. It's fucking ovER.
 
St.Tropez said:
If they dont respond it means you are in very danger territory and have just barely gotten a match.
 
Her thumb slipped right while she was trying to answer Chad on the phone.
 
She thought you were fine enough for her to swipe right on you, but she probably has matched with a Chad who’s REALLY worthy of her time. She’s probably keeping you as a last resort or w/e. Try messaging her, you have nothing to lose.
 
Girls almost never message first unless chad.

But if she doesn't write after u write her-it's over.
 
Women are usually super picky with who they match with on tinder, but most don't message first because it falls into that vein of girls not being the one's to initiate (message first, ask out first, etc).
 
unless you only get messages from bots, you're volcel
 
Their finger slipped.
 
only about 1% of my matches even respond to my first message.

its over
 
ElfCake said:
Women rarely message first, because guys always take the first steps normallly. So message her, you have nothing to lose.

This is exactly right, the only women who message first are usually fat or unnatractive so just like in real life, the man is usually the one to message first.
 
Twisted said:
This happens to me. Literally only about 5% of my matches actually messaged me first.
Also got superliked by a girl, she messaged first and then she unmatched mid convo

>5%

Tbh you should be banned. What a subtile brag.
 
Twisted said:
St.Tropez said:
>5%
Tbh you should be banned. What a subtile brag.
You should be banned for having 15 gfs. Literally raged so hard when I saw that you fakecel.
You are a 18 y old kid with 5 matches per day and 5% first massage rate.
Anyone who ever used tinder here could tell you that you have. NOTHING in common with incels.
But I suppose you are a mentalcel,but I doubt you will be virgin by your age 20. Mark my words and I want you to send me a pm.if I was right when it happens.
 
St.Tropez said:
Twisted said:
St.Tropez said:
>5%
Tbh you should be banned. What a subtile brag.
You should be banned for having 15 gfs. Literally raged so hard when I saw that you fakecel.
You are a 18 y old kid with 5 matches per day and 5% first massage rate.
Anyone who ever used tinder here could tell you that you have. NOTHING in common with incels.
But I suppose you are a mentalcel,but I doubt you will be virgin by your age 20. Mark my words and I want you to send me a pm.if I was right when it happens.

You both need to stop now.
 
Some of you people are seriously retarded. Get the fuck out of this forum if you think "Women barely initiate first". Here's the deal...women don't initiate first because they don't find you attractive enough. That's it. A lot of women use Tinder for validation, and while most won't swipe left on an ugly guy, they'll swipe left for an average looking guy who is just that "average"; sexually unappealing to them, but will use to gloat to their friends on how many matches they have without ever messaging the guy.

Most women message first if you are good looking enough. Sometimes Chadlite level, but mainly in the Chad looks area they will.
 
anincelforlifelol said:
Some of you people are seriously retarded. Get the fuck out of this forum if you think "Women barely initiate first". Here's the deal...women don't initiate first because they don't find you attractive enough. That's it. A lot of women use Tinder for validation, and while most won't swipe left on an ugly guy, they'll swipe left for an average looking guy who is just that "average"; sexually unappealing to them, but will use to gloat to their friends on how many matches they have without ever messaging the guy.

Most women message first if you are good looking enough. Sometimes Chadlite level, but mainly in the Chad looks area they will.

Of course this is true. But for most of us women messaging you first is not even something to consider. It is just our reality.
 
anincelforlifelol said:
Some of you people are seriously retarded. Get the fuck out of this forum if you think "Women barely initiate first". Here's the deal...women don't initiate first because they don't find you attractive enough. That's it. A lot of women use Tinder for validation, and while most won't swipe left on an ugly guy, they'll swipe left for an average looking guy who is just that "average"; sexually unappealing to them, but will use to gloat to their friends on how many matches they have without ever messaging the guy.

Most women message first if you are good looking enough. Sometimes Chadlite level, but mainly in the Chad looks area they will.

True except women don't gloat to their friends about their matches... they all get tons.. so it's hardly worth gloating over.
 
I have about seven matches who never messaged me. A few others unmatched within a couple of days. I don't message them first on principle, apart from one who super-liked me. I said 'Hi, what's up? Want to meet?' and she unmatched me, top kek.

It's all a big game to me now. I have no expectations of getting any meetings, let alone sex.
 
If they don't message you first, you're ugly, but then again, you matched, so that means you're really just average looking.
 
And as we know, average isn't good enough for modern FHOs anymore. We're grouped with the rest of the non-Chads and considered unfuckable. FML.
 
Women also message Chad because they know 80% of women are competing for a few Chads.
 
ElfCake said:
Women rarely message first, because guys always take the first steps normallly. So message her, you have nothing to lose.

They rarely message first for average looking guys.

But they always message first if the guy looks like a model.

And does not message at all if she later finds out that the guy is actually quite ugly in some other pics.
 
True. Plus, from seeing Tinder experiments, their 'game' is usually shit; very basic. They are low-effort, even for Chad.
 
BlackPill47 said:
True. Plus, from seeing Tinder experiments, their 'game' is usually shit; very basic. They are low-effort, even for Chad.

Because for a lot of women, Chad is just barely worth it. 

Some women don't find Chad worth it at all - these women are usually lesbians, and lesbianism is increasing in popularity.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.

Similar threads

coping_manlet
Replies
12
Views
270
FishmanBecker
FishmanBecker
Zuckuccius
Replies
17
Views
235
Starfish Vs Koala
Starfish Vs Koala
never began
Replies
24
Views
636
The Scarlet Prince
The Scarlet Prince
ZaynShahar
Replies
7
Views
217
SlayerSlayer
SlayerSlayer
HeinzKell
Replies
14
Views
469
Pesttanz
Pesttanz

Users who are viewing this thread

shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape5
shape6
Back
Top