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Discussion If one day you got a girl, if that were possible

Limitcel

Limitcel

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Wouldn't you be afraid of her finding out about your past and all the scars of inceldom?

Or in case you have to first kiss her, you have no experience with kissing and you're already old, bro
All the confidence you forced yourself to have would go down the drain at that moment.

Or even worse, what if you have to go to bed without ever having had any sexual experience, with the only experience being pornography?

Do you think a woman is capable of admiring such a failed and unwanted guy? A guy that no other woman has wanted before, don't you think she will feel inferior or will lose all attraction for you?

But I think the main there is always thisI up by so many years of rejection, loneliness and bitterness, to the point where it becomes difficult to make effectived connections, there will always be this barrier of strangeness

If you suffer a serious accident you may will never be able to walk properly again, when you lose certain pillars in growth you will never be able to relate properly again.
This is my tragic vision, the most you can do is "physiotherapy" to try to "walk" but it will always be something... That does not have the same efficiency, you cannot play serioud

Looking at it this way, the rejection is fair, besides having nothing to offer a woman, she would still have to be the caregiver for my social deficiencies.
 
for a girl to be with me, she would really have to love me so no i wouldn’t care. Her being with me implies directly that she isn’t superficial and doesn’t care about that stuff.
 
Looking at it this way, the rejection is fair, besides having nothing to offer a woman, she would still have to be the caregiver for my social deficiencies.
What does this mean? It sounds cucked.
 
If you're afraid of appearing sexually inexperienced go escortmaxx a few times. Kissing and fucking is not rocket science and you overthink it too much.
 
for a girl to be with me, she would really have to love me so no i wouldn’t care. Her being with me implies directly that she isn’t superficial and doesn’t care about that stuff.
Tru
 
If you're afraid of appearing sexually inexperienced go escortmaxx a few times. Kissing and fucking is not rocket science and you overthink it too much.
 
who cares it will never happen jfl
 
The longer you are celibate, the harder it would be to adjust to that sort of lifestyle. That's a complete shift, not only emotionally, but financially. Honestly, I would find it hard to switch my brain to even be willing to fuck with a woman. If a woman took interest in me, I'd immediately be paranoid asf that she's some spook from the government; alphabet spy. I'm also way too negative and impatient at age 30. I really don't believe you can just "flip the script / flick the switch" just because a woman comes into your life, especially if you've become jaded like myself. I don't see myself ever getting approached, of course, let alone go on any date, but if it were to happen (hypothetically), I honestly don't know how I'd handle it...
 
she would be additcted to my aggressivenes and my 18cm deck
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for a girl to be with me, she would really have to love me so no i wouldn’t care. Her being with me implies directly that she isn’t superficial and doesn’t care about that stuff.
:feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
This only exists at Disney
And none of this is superficial
Seriously, I've noticed this, incels are very deluded on bluepill about relationships
 
The longer you are celibate, the harder it would be to adjust to that sort of lifestyle. That's a complete shift, not only emotionally, but financially. Honestly, I would find it hard to switch my brain to even be willing to fuck with a woman. If a woman took interest in me, I'd immediately be paranoid asf that she's some spook from the government; alphabet spy. I'm also way too negative and impatient at age 30. I really don't believe you can just "flip the script / flick the switch" just because a woman comes into your life, especially if you've become jaded like myself. I don't see myself ever getting approached, of course, let alone go on any date, but if it were to happen (hypothetically), I honestly don't know how I'd handle it...
Brutal 30 pill
 
If you're afraid of appearing sexually inexperienced go escortmaxx a few times. Kissing and fucking is not rocket science and you overthink it too much.
I know
I just didn't want to have to resort to prostitutes like that.
It's not overthinking, it's symbolic, you don't understand what a kiss is properly as an adult, that it's something silly for pre-teens, it's silly and I'm aware of that, but it has a social meaning.
 
The longer you are celibate, the harder it would be to adjust to that sort of lifestyle. That's a complete shift, not only emotionally, but financially. Honestly, I would find it hard to switch my brain to even be willing to fuck with a woman. If a woman took interest in me, I'd immediately be paranoid asf that she's some spook from the government; alphabet spy. I'm also way too negative and impatient at age 30. I really don't believe you can just "flip the script / flick the switch" just because a woman comes into your life, especially if you've become jaded like myself. I don't see myself ever getting approached, of course, let alone go on any date, but if it were to happen (hypothetically), I honestly don't know how I'd handle it...

Relatable as fuck (I'm also 30). I honestly think I'm too high-inhib to even go through with actually having sex. Idk, maybe if I found myself in that situation some primal monkey part of my brain would take over or something. But aside from that, I'm way too in my own head to even go through with the sexual act
 
Afraid? How would I be afraid of someone weaker and dumber? I would be condescendent.
 
I know
I just didn't want to have to resort to prostitutes like that.
It's not overthinking, it's symbolic, you don't understand what a kiss is properly as an adult, that it's something silly for pre-teens, it's silly and I'm aware of that, but it has a social meaning.
Cope
 
for a girl to be with me, she would really have to love me so no i wouldn’t care. Her being with me implies directly that she isn’t superficial and doesn’t care about that stuff.
 
Id be more afraid of finding out about her past than her about mine
 
It's not overthinking, it's symbolic, you don't understand what a kiss is properly as an adult, that it's something silly for pre-teens, it's silly and I'm aware of that, but it has a social meaning.
Literally contradicting yourself in the same sentence. "It's something silly for pre-teens", "but it has a social meaning". Or maybe you meant it doesn't have social meaning?

?????

In latter case, then my answer is. No kissing is not silly and does have social meaning in a relationship. It's a very intimate act, and gives you butterfly feelings if it's a person you truly like/love. Escorts I fucked who allowed french kissing, the sex was 10 times more intimate and more amazing.
 

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