Look at your family, friends, mentors, peers that actually are willing to hang out with you and spend their free time with you, only the ones that will spend time with you and essentially share their status and connections with you.
If pretty much all of them are now weird, unkempt, fat, and shut-in... essentially having given up early on doing anything with their lives... then no matter how fucked up you are and how much it's all your fault, you can't deny that they are letting you down, and fucking you out of your last and only chance of ever digging yourself out of this hole.
PUA shit doesn't work for guys that aren't both good looking and with healthy minds, you need some kind of support network, people that have to be in a semi-decent state where they don't themselves repel women and people in general.
If everyone around has thrown in the towel, and has basically become a debased weirdo that could never form a new connection or attract a new spouse in their current dilapidated state... then they have let you down, it's a small cut out of a thousand, but it's there, and the closer you get to old age and the harder you try to looksmax and go against the grain out of desperation, the more you will resent any final cuts like these.
Even you can tell, by taking a bird's eye view of the situation, that it doesn't even make sense for you to succeed when everyone around you is failing and giving up and shutting down and cocooning and is basically an "incel", it would be some kind of miracle out of nowhere, it doesn't add up.
Finally, no, I don't know what to tell you about what you should do if you're also in this situation and feel this way, you probably shouldn't just aggressively cut out these people out of your life like they're nothing, but definitely consider some way to bring in some more successful people into your circle, even if it means LARPing hardcore, and tapering off the amount of time and money you expend on people that have just completely fucking given up.
If pretty much all of them are now weird, unkempt, fat, and shut-in... essentially having given up early on doing anything with their lives... then no matter how fucked up you are and how much it's all your fault, you can't deny that they are letting you down, and fucking you out of your last and only chance of ever digging yourself out of this hole.
PUA shit doesn't work for guys that aren't both good looking and with healthy minds, you need some kind of support network, people that have to be in a semi-decent state where they don't themselves repel women and people in general.
If everyone around has thrown in the towel, and has basically become a debased weirdo that could never form a new connection or attract a new spouse in their current dilapidated state... then they have let you down, it's a small cut out of a thousand, but it's there, and the closer you get to old age and the harder you try to looksmax and go against the grain out of desperation, the more you will resent any final cuts like these.
Even you can tell, by taking a bird's eye view of the situation, that it doesn't even make sense for you to succeed when everyone around you is failing and giving up and shutting down and cocooning and is basically an "incel", it would be some kind of miracle out of nowhere, it doesn't add up.
Finally, no, I don't know what to tell you about what you should do if you're also in this situation and feel this way, you probably shouldn't just aggressively cut out these people out of your life like they're nothing, but definitely consider some way to bring in some more successful people into your circle, even if it means LARPing hardcore, and tapering off the amount of time and money you expend on people that have just completely fucking given up.
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