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Discussion If a genuinely nice female wants to befriend you, would you oblige?

If a genuinely nice female wants to befriend you, would you oblige?

  • yes

    Votes: 39 41.1%
  • no

    Votes: 24 25.3%
  • I would go er on everyone

    Votes: 7 7.4%
  • females are only for fucking

    Votes: 25 26.3%

  • Total voters
    95
Ok.

No such foid would ever be genuinely nice to me, because I am ugly.
She hates ugly men only when it comes to fucking. But she wouldn't mind befriending an ugly man.
 
Tbh I have such friend. Not being a cuck cause I get the benefits and not being an emotional tampon or ego booster. She does what I ask for like giving homework answers if I can't do it myself or save me a chair in the back when there are quizzes so we can cheat
The only valid situation.
 
She's a slut, but she still genuinely thinks you're a "cool" guy. So she doesn't even see you as a sexual being in the slightest, but she still enjoys being your friend
But if you're ugly, and she hates ugly people, then she hates you. Why would she go out of her way to be nice to you if she hates you?
 
I probably wouldn't turn her friendship down if I actually enjoyed her company
I think friendship isn't a real thing at all. Even men who are friends are in a constant competition with each other. I'm glad I am friendless.
Massive cope
 
But if you're ugly, and she hates ugly people, then she hates you. Why would she go out of her way to be nice to you if she hates you?
So, she hates ugly men when it comes to the dating scene. She would rather slit her child's throat and gut it than to fuck an ugly man, but she has no problem being friends with an ugly man. She sees you as a sexless being. She enjoys hanging out with you because she knows sex is out of the question
 
So, she hates ugly men when it comes to the dating scene. She would rather slit her child's throat and gut it than to fuck an ugly man, but she has no problem being friends with an ugly man. She sees you as a sexless being. She enjoys hanging out with you because she knows sex is out of the question

OK. I think I understand what you're getting at.

I suppose I would be OK with being acquaintances with such a foid. I do have foid acquaintances. If our interactions were limited to, say, academic collaboration, I could see that happen.

We could never possibly be "friends" in a real sense -- I could never share my true thoughts and feelings with a foid.
 
So, she hates ugly men when it comes to the dating scene. She would rather slit her child's throat and gut it than to fuck an ugly man, but she has no problem being friends with an ugly man. She sees you as a sexless being. She enjoys hanging out with you because she knows sex is out of the question
So she doesn't hate you, she just finds you unattractive.

Choose your words better, jfl.
 
So she doesn't hate you, she just finds you unattractive.

Choose your words better, jfl.
She hates the way you look though. She does however enjoy talking to you because it gives her time to get away from the sexual side of life.
 
Let's say you meet a girl and she is somewhat friendly with you. She isn't flirty with you, but she is kind do you. I'll give an example below:

You are in college/uni. You are quiet and hardly speak unless you're spoken to. A female classmate begins talking to you -- she involves you in things (asks you questions about exams/studies in class with you/laughs at jokes you make). While every other guy and girl ignore you completely, this female tries to involve you in things and asks about your test scores, talks about better methods of studying, etc.

Would you befriend this foid (she is most likely a typical slut who fucks only chads and hates ugly people) and just be content with an acquaintance, or would you ignore her and continue being a mute who speaks to no one in class?
Yes and i would probably develop Feelings for her soonr or later , cause im desperate .
But maybe its possible to have a good friendship with a foid , but i seriously doubt it .
She would have to really try to convince me to trust her .
 
It would never happen but if it then sure i'd befriend. her
 
They are only for fucking and sucking
 
Tbh I have such friend. Not being a cuck cause I get the benefits and not being an emotional tampon or ego booster. She does what I ask for like giving homework answers if I can't do it myself or save me a chair in the back when there are quizzes so we can cheat

you are a massive cuck. you belong in le reddit
 
I have to say no because I'd feel like she has some kind of ulterior motive. I have major trust issues
 
I would of course answer her questions, but not develop any deeper friendship, since

1) I don't even know how to ”befriend” a girl in the first place, and
2) Being friendzoned is cucked
 
I don't think that is possible, why would a female want to become friends with me and have to look at my ugly face. She could easily get an average looking normie orbiter or a chad to befriend.
 
I can only truly be friends with foids that I fuck/fucked/have good prospects of fucking tbh.

It's either that or them being 0% attractive to me, which is difficult since I'm high T and very forgiving of huge age gaps.
 
No man. I have no interest in interacting with foids.
 
I can’t make female friends, they all think I’m too weird or creepy to be willing to interact with me. Mark of a trucel
 
If she’s not fucking me then there’s no point in having a platonic relationship. FWB or GTFO
 
only as a mere acquaintance that I use for say homework, job reference or business purpose

otherwise no
Men and women can’t be friends
also this

when it happens romantic feelings are more likely to happen between them
 
Fuck no. I've been there and it sucked dick. Spending time with a foid you'll never fuck, while she fucks Chads is pure suifuel/ragefuel. I can't believe myself for thinking I'll one day fuck these "female" friends of mine. But then again I was bluepilled back then, but nowadays I wouldn't be caught DEAD being friends with a foid after becoming blackpilled. Anyone on this forum with foid friends should be eaten alive.
 
If a woman started acting that way towards me, from experience I'd think that she wanted something from me, that she wanted to use me. The idea of a woman befriending an unattractive man just out of the kindness of her heart is not supported by any observations or other scientific evidence.

This is how orbiting almost always starts. Women usually don't ask for huge favors right from the start. They start by being nice, then ask for small favors, then big favors. Before the fool knows it, he's become an orbiter.
 
If she’s not fucking me then there’s no point in having a platonic relationship. FWB or GTFO
If a woman started acting that way towards me, from experience I'd think that she wanted something from me, that she wanted to use me. The idea of a woman befriending an unattractive man just out of the kindness of her heart is not supported by any observations or other scientific evidence.

This is how orbiting almost always starts. Women usually don't ask for huge favors right from the start. They start by being nice, then ask for small favors, then big favors. Before the fool knows it, he's become an orbiter.
Fuck no. I've been there and it sucked dick. Spending time with a foid you'll never fuck, while she fucks Chads is pure suifuel/ragefuel. I can't believe myself for thinking I'll one day fuck these "female" friends of mine. But then again I was bluepilled back then, but nowadays I wouldn't be caught DEAD being friends with a foid after becoming blackpilled. Anyone on this forum with foid friends should be eaten alive.
 
Yes. I'd never deny a friend. I'd only dump her if she made me feel insecure somehow, by making me feel shitty about myself, but if she was genuinely nice, I'd keep her.
 
Yes. I'd never deny a friend. I'd only dump her if she made me feel insecure somehow, by making me feel shitty about myself, but if she was genuinely nice, I'd keep her.
Remember if you’re not fucking her, she’s just using you
 
Remember if you’re not fucking her, she’s just using you
I've had genuinely nice female friends before I moved, and they never used me for anything or asked me for anything at all. I never gave anything to them at all either. It was just a mutual friendship. I honestly remember that being one of my only positive experiences I've had with women, but yet again, that was just a 1% outlier, women have dealt a LOT of bullshit to me for the past 19 years of my life.
 
reminds me of a female in my class, wouldnt consider her a friend but she was a stacy who would start conversations with me but i mostly answered with one word
 
Having a female friend is begging to be cockteased
 
In theory, yes I wouldn't mind this. My experienced reality is that at best women will use me as the driving force in group projects while they are probably fucking their boyfriends.
I dunno, because most females are incredibly boring and not funny at all. Guys make much better friends honestly and females are for relationships and sex. I would if this hypothetical kind girl wanted to be friends tho
This also can't be understated, remove their sexual value and I can count on one hand the amount of women I've interacted with who I thought had more than one brain cell. So if a hypothetical woman who was capable of holding a decent conversation was nice to me then yes I would befriend them.
 
If she is acting like that, then I have a good amount of suspicion to not engage with her. The chance is too big that she is trying to get something out of me.
 

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