Discussion Idea on how to be less inhibit.

[Iamnothere000]

Declaimer: Don’t do anything risky, always abide by the rules of society. You will eventually, after an indeterminate length of time, be happy this way, I promise.

TL;DR: There are many people almost exactly like you. If you get the chance to differentiate yourself from them you should take it since the other “you´s” will still continue your life even if you fail.


Ok, let’s get philosophical for a moment:

Let us assume that there are a number of parallel worlds/universes that are all exactly identical to our own. In each of those universes there is an instance of “you” as you are right now. All those “you´s” are living the exact same lives and are similar in every way.

So now something interesting happens:

One of the “you´s” is suddenly made aware of this situation and is therefore offered a choice:


A: You can ignore this realization and continue living the exact same live as all the other you´s.

B: You can do something risky but potentially rewarding (become less inhibit), knowing that, should anything bad happen to you, the other you´s will live the live that you would have lived if you had chosen option A.


I think there are many cases in which a person would choose B.
For example, I often fantasies about horrifically maiming my former bullies in a way the will make the rest of their lives absolutely unbearable. However, should I fail, I will go to prison and can’t continue my various cope-projects. But if there are other “me`s” that would continue my projects anyway, why should I restrain myself?


Now let’s try to map this theoretical situation onto the real world:

There are probably no parallel worlds and identical “you´s”, but there is the next best thing: Since most people are pretty dull, average and interchangeable, it stands to reason that there is a number of people out there that are, while not exact copies of you, seminar to you in all the ways that matter.

I am sure there are many people in my city that basically live the same life that I live, have similar hobby’s and struggles as me and work similar jobs… and are also incel….
(I have met a number of those people in uni.)

This means that my live is not special and that I could, theoretically, risk it by being less inhibit. If I succeed I will reap the reward, should I fail than the others will continue “my” life anyway.

You can almost look at it like having multiple lives in a videogame.

I think the idea that our individual lives are “sPeCiAl aNd uNIqUe” is made up bullshit since obviously most people are neither of those things. Whoever made this up did so in order to make us risk-averse and easier to control with fear.

 

[Deleted member 22572]

Be good looking

 

[Ping And Pong]

should I fail than the others will continue “my” life anyway.

I lost you here, idc if others live similar lives to me I'm not going to ruin my own.

 

[Angry_runt]

What kind of low inhib behavior would be rewarding for an ugly man?

 

[Copticcel]

Be good looking

 

[Studiocel]

Get beat down by life to the point where you just dont care anymore and everything is trivial

 

[Deleted member 27159]

should I fail than the others will continue “my” life anyway.

I disagree with this part. It’s not worth ruining your life just because people are living the exact same life as you

 

[Iamnothere000]

What kind of low inhib behavior would be rewarding for an ugly man?

The kind that may lead to status, money, fulfilment of revenge-fantasies and the knowledge of having tried to change your shitty lot in life instead of taking it like a little bitch -> dignity.

I lost you here, idc if others live similar lives to me I'm not going to ruin my own.

I disagree with this part. It’s not worth ruining your life just because people are living the exact same life as you

Yea, but you are not supposed to ruin it, just to be less risk-averse. I think there are a lot of old fucks in retirement homes who regret not having taken risks and now are slowly dying among other old fucks that have the same regrets.

But I too am a self-preservative coward so I understand your reservations.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

Yea, but you are not supposed to ruin it, just to be less risk-averse. I think there are a lot of old fucks in retirement homes who regret not having taken risks and now are slowly dying among other old fucks that have the same regrets.

But I too am a self-preservative coward so I understand your reservations.

In general taking risks is a bad idea since you can end up in a worse situation than you already are in. If you have nothing to lose then you can take a risk but if it fails you will need a way to rope

 

[caniwin]

Yea, but you are not supposed to ruin it, just to be less risk-averse. I think there are a lot of old fucks in retirement homes who regret not having taken risks and now are slowly dying among other old fucks that have the same regrets.

But I too am a self-preservative coward so I understand your reservations.

I agree that you should take risks, especially in your youth, and it's true that this is a common regret of older people. However, I don't say "take more risks" because of the fact (which may not even be true for most people) that there are other people very similar to me who would live out the less-risky life path. I say "take more risks" because it makes life more interesting and helps to avoid the regret in my old age that you mentioned.

 

[Shin no Shi]

Declaimer: Don’t do anything risky, always abide by the rules of society. You will eventually, after an indeterminate length of time, be happy this way, I promise.

TL;DR: There are many people almost exactly like you. If you get the chance to differentiate yourself from them you should take it since the other “you´s” will still continue your life even if you fail.


Ok, let’s get philosophical for a moment:

Let us assume that there are a number of parallel worlds/universes that are all exactly identical to our own. In each of those universes there is an instance of “you” as you are right now. All those “you´s” are living the exact same lives and are similar in every way.

So now something interesting happens:

One of the “you´s” is suddenly made aware of this situation and is therefore offered a choice:


A: You can ignore this realization and continue living the exact same live as all the other you´s.

B: You can do something risky but potentially rewarding (become less inhibit), knowing that, should anything bad happen to you, the other you´s will live the live that you would have lived if you had chosen option A.


I think there are many cases in which a person would choose B.
For example, I often fantasies about horrifically maiming my former bullies in a way the will make the rest of their lives absolutely unbearable. However, should I fail, I will go to prison and can’t continue my various cope-projects. But if there are other “me`s” that would continue my projects anyway, why should I restrain myself?


Now let’s try to map this theoretical situation onto the real world:

There are probably no parallel worlds and identical “you´s”, but there is the next best thing: Since most people are pretty dull, average and interchangeable, it stands to reason that there is a number of people out there that are, while not exact copies of you, seminar to you in all the ways that matter.

I am sure there are many people in my city that basically live the same life that I live, have similar hobby’s and struggles as me and work similar jobs… and are also incel….
(I have met a number of those people in uni.)

This means that my live is not special and that I could, theoretically, risk it by being less inhibit. If I succeed I will reap the reward, should I fail than the others will continue “my” life anyway.

You can almost look at it like having multiple lives in a videogame.

I think the idea that our individual lives are “sPeCiAl aNd uNIqUe” is made up bullshit since obviously most people are neither of those things. Whoever made this up did so in order to make us risk-averse and easier to control with fear.

Just don’t have any rEgRets

 

[based_meme]

Why do you want to be low inhibition, OP?
@Iamnothere000

 

[Iamnothere000]

Why do you want to be low inhibition, OP?
@Iamnothere000

I am convinced that people will treat you better if there is an on-zero chance that you will retaliate (verbally/physically depending on the situation) when they disrespect you.

I would also say that, after lookism, high inhibition is one of the leading causes of inceldom. Women respect men who are dangerous or have the potential to be so.

Being or having the reputation of being a high inhibit bitch will practically guarantee you a shity life compared to your peers, unless you have model-tier looks.

 

[based_meme]

I am convinced that people will treat you better if there is an on-zero chance that you will retaliate (verbally/physically depending on the situation) when they disrespect you.

I would also say that, after lookism, high inhibition is one of the leading causes of inceldom. Women respect men who are dangerous or have the potential to be so.

Being or having the reputation of being a high inhibit bitch will practically guarantee you a shity life compared to your peers, unless you have model-tier looks.

You're correct, they will treat you better. However, you still need something to back up your low inhibition. You can't always be low inhib bluffing your way through everything. You have to build muscle mass and learn how to fight, if you don't already. Just looking like you could fuck somebody up is enough for people's primitive fear instincts to kick in and affect them at the ego level.

I hate having to posture sometimes, but people are fucking reptilian brain monkeys and this is how you have to deal with them sometimes.

 

[Iamnothere000]

You're correct, they will treat you better. However, you still need something to back up your low inhibition. You can't always be low inhib bluffing your way through everything. You have to build muscle mass and learn how to fight, if you don't already. Just looking like you could fuck somebody up is enough for people's primitive fear instincts to kick in and affect them at the ego level.

I hate having to posture sometimes, but people are fucking reptilian brain monkeys and this is how you have to deal with them sometimes.

Yea, if you look like an Auschwitz-inmate you will have trouble to display low inhibition, I agree. However, this is something that actually can be self-improved, even by (most) incels through gymcelling.

But even if you are not that threatening looking, having the reputation of being dangerous / capable of violence is also good.

Lol, I know what you mean. My Mother never took me serious when I calmly explained my troubles to her. But if I complained to her about the exact same shit while pretending to be enraged she suddenly listened. And no, this was not because I somehow frightened her but because she thought that my problems are only real when I sperg out about them.

Fucking animals, all of them….

 

[Deleted member 17419]

What kind of low inhib behavior would be rewarding for an ugly man?

Crime if you're >100 IQ.

 

[Angry_runt]

The kind that may lead to status, money, fulfilment of revenge-fantasies and the knowledge of having tried to change your shitty lot in life instead of taking it like a little bitch -> dignity.

That's pretty vague. If I thought I could do something that would improve my situation, I'd push through any inhibitions and do it anyway. It's just that nothing comes to mind. I'm incel because I'm unattractive, not because I'm scared to try this or that.

Crime if you're >100 IQ.

Crime to achieve what?

 

[Deleted member 17419]

Crime to achieve what?

Drug manufacturing at the very least, it's a very legit source of income tbh. We can't all be app creators, the market is very saturated.

 

[Angry_runt]

Drug manufacturing at the very least, it's a very legit source of income tbh.

Criminals don't have good lives and they don't tend to make much money. Whatever income level you're hoping for, it's easier and safer to get it legit than as a criminal.
I read some book where a researcher was hanging out with drug dealers and found that they on average earned less than workers at McDonald's and that people on death row were on average safer (more likely to survive) than drug dealers.

Why Drug Dealers Live With Their Moms

If you had a job paying $3.30 an hour, you'd be bunking at home too.

www.latimes.com

I assume drug manufacturing business isn't completely safe either.