Dates are so fucking pojntless as an incel. First of all, you are one of the hundreds of guys on her dating list. This means that tou are not important to her and you have to excatly what she wants personality wise in order to get in her panties. Exactly what she wants. Extroverted, sexualluy experienced, comfortabel with women, funny, adventurous, witty by normie standards, NT, interesting, charming, maintain eye contact, laugh a lot, be in control of the date.
Second, if you go on a dart eoyu are a cuck since every girl has had one night stands in her life but you are the losers that has to waste time "getting to know each other" in order to have a chance at fucking her.