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Theory I wonder how much of the cuckold fantasies are just an escapism from the male brain that understands the man is unable to compete with other men

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I AM NOT SUPPORTING CUCKOLDRY. READ THE WHOLE THING BEFORE YOU COMMENT, PLEASE.

There is a reason women fantasize about rape and enjoy masochism: human nature has learned to circumvent and overcome pain by giving us pleasure from it. Since the females of this species and others got raped by anyone anytime, their bodies and brains learned to at least gain something from it.

Masochism is the pleasure derived from pain and everyone has it to an extent.

Even in the case of heterosexual men, many enjoy women using the fingers to scratch their backs like this:

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I am not saying men are cuckolds by default just because they derive some pleasure from a light form of pain, obviously.

I am saying that maybe cuckolds "like" cuckoldry because their nature understands that they will never be able to compete with other men for their desired woman, so they might as well give up, pass the woman to other men, and feel some pleasure from this act, which is very wicked and degenerate.

Just another variation of the sexual immorality that we see in today's society. There is no serious monogamy nor societal pressures to keep women in check, so men are in this constant fear of losing their spouses to genetically superior men, so much so that they just give up and end up cucking themselves.
 
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Read the thread, will ya?

I'm trying to theorize why a man would purposefully cuck himself, and my thesis is that his nature understands he's a beta and there's no other way around him getting cucked, which is why he simply accepts it. I am not endorsing it, of course. I even condemned it in the end of the post.
 
There is a reason women fantasize about rape and enjoy masochism: human nature has learned to circumvent and overcome pain by giving us pleasure from it. Since the females of this species and others got raped by anyone anytime, their bodies and brains learned to at least gain something from it.
This theory doesn't make sense, those types of men would not reproduce and would've been filtered out long ago. Even if it's a small genetic variation, they would only make up a tiny portion of the population.

Idk why you're theorizing about this in the first place to be honest.
 
This theory doesn't make sense, those types of men would not reproduce and would've been filtered out long ago. Even if it's a small genetic variation, they would only make up a tiny portion of the population.
Good point. Being a cuck is not evolutionary advantageous.

Idk why you're theorizing about this in the first place to be honest.
I got the idea from here:

 
I do think it's some sick cope that they've integrated into their identity in order to deal with their inferiority. No one acknowledges that their wife settled for them, all the people will say "oh she married you! YOU WON!" when she would rather drink chad's piss. The "solution"? Become a willing participant in his own humiliation.

What else could it be? It's never some mega hunk, or big dicked ogre that's a cuck. It's always some nintendo playing dweeb.
 
I do think it's some sick cope that they've integrated into their identity in order to deal with their inferiority. No one acknowledges that their wife settled for them, all the people will say "oh she married you! YOU WON!" when she would rather drink chad's piss. The "solution"? Become a willing participant in his own humiliation.

What else could it be? It's never some mega hunk, or big dicked ogre that's a cuck. It's always some nintendo playing dweeb.
Exactly my point.

How low a man can go is just disturbing to me. It's another product of this sick society.
 
It's possible that's why. Maybe the fetish comes from that a man feels the only way to survive is by letting the alpha have sex with his woman. Otherwise he'll just get his skull concaved inside out then the alpha will fuck his woman anyways.
 
I AM NOT SUPPORTING CUCKOLDRY. READ THE WHOLE THING BEFORE YOU COMMENT, PLEASE.

There is a reason women fantasize about rape and enjoy masochism: human nature has learned to circumvent and overcome pain by giving us pleasure from it. Since the females of this species and others got raped by anyone anytime, their bodies and brains learned to at least gain something from it.

Masochism is the pleasure derived from pain and everyone has it to an extent.

Even in the case of heterosexual men, many enjoy women using the fingers to scratch their backs like this:


I am not saying men are cuckolds by default just because they derive some pleasure from a light form of pain, obviously.

I am saying that maybe cuckolds "like" cuckoldry because their nature understands that they will never be able to compete with other men for their desired woman, so they might as well give up, pass the woman to other men, and feel some pleasure from this act, which is very wicked and degenerate.

Just another variation of the sexual immorality that we see in today's society. There is no serious monogamy nor societal pressures to keep women in check, so men are in this constant fear of losing their spouses to genetically superior men, so much so that they just give up and end up cucking themselves.
Kurt cobain would be a cuck if he were alive today. Recording Courtney love get trains ran on her by black guys like the feminist retard he is.
 
There is no god.
 
no its just typical westoid faggotry which has been normalized
 
I AM NOT SUPPORTING CUCKOLDRY. READ THE WHOLE THING BEFORE YOU COMMENT, PLEASE.

There is a reason women fantasize about rape and enjoy masochism: human nature has learned to circumvent and overcome pain by giving us pleasure from it. Since the females of this species and others got raped by anyone anytime, their bodies and brains learned to at least gain something from it.

Masochism is the pleasure derived from pain and everyone has it to an extent.

Even in the case of heterosexual men, many enjoy women using the fingers to scratch their backs like this:


I am not saying men are cuckolds by default just because they derive some pleasure from a light form of pain, obviously.

I am saying that maybe cuckolds "like" cuckoldry because their nature understands that they will never be able to compete with other men for their desired woman, so they might as well give up, pass the woman to other men, and feel some pleasure from this act, which is very wicked and degenerate.

Just another variation of the sexual immorality that we see in today's society. There is no serious monogamy nor societal pressures to keep women in check, so men are in this constant fear of losing their spouses to genetically superior men, so much so that they just give up and end up cucking themselves.
I thought this was obvious no? Isn’t the whole point of being a cuck just watching a dude fuck your girl while you watch ? I mean if you’re into that I automatically assume you enjoy it and why would you be enjoying watching a dude who looks like you fuck your girl when you could do it , so it’s always someone that looks way better than them. Basically an incel that’s willing to do anything just to be with a woman they find attractive
 
Yeah this thread has too many flaws
 
I think most males think that if they accept to do anything a woman wants, they could get her (or keep her if they're in a relationship).

Even humiliating shit, i.e. femdom

For instance, about polyamorous couples shit, I don't think that the idea often comes from the guy, and I don't think either that the guy has more to win with this crap. (water)

But if a guy has the opportunity to have sex with a woman with the condition of sharing her, many would accept because in their mind, sharing a girl is better than not having a girl at all.

Without taking into account their own dignity.
 
I AM NOT SUPPORTING CUCKOLDRY. READ THE WHOLE THING BEFORE YOU COMMENT, PLEASE.

There is a reason women fantasize about rape and enjoy masochism: human nature has learned to circumvent and overcome pain by giving us pleasure from it. Since the females of this species and others got raped by anyone anytime, their bodies and brains learned to at least gain something from it.

Masochism is the pleasure derived from pain and everyone has it to an extent.

Even in the case of heterosexual men, many enjoy women using the fingers to scratch their backs like this:


I am not saying men are cuckolds by default just because they derive some pleasure from a light form of pain, obviously.

I am saying that maybe cuckolds "like" cuckoldry because their nature understands that they will never be able to compete with other men for their desired woman, so they might as well give up, pass the woman to other men, and feel some pleasure from this act, which is very wicked and degenerate.

Just another variation of the sexual immorality that we see in today's society. There is no serious monogamy nor societal pressures to keep women in check, so men are in this constant fear of losing their spouses to genetically superior men, so much so that they just give up and end up cucking themselves.

I always thought that was the deal. The man feels inadequate, insecure, and like he can't compete so he derives sick pleasure from his own mental or emotional pain to cope. It's normal for men to feel sexual jealousy so it makes cuckoldry all the more bizarre.
 
good thing this guy was hardbanned
 
they like it because they're fags
 
I AM NOT SUPPORTING CUCKOLDRY. READ THE WHOLE THING BEFORE YOU COMMENT, PLEASE.

There is a reason women fantasize about rape and enjoy masochism: human nature has learned to circumvent and overcome pain by giving us pleasure from it. Since the females of this species and others got raped by anyone anytime, their bodies and brains learned to at least gain something from it.

Masochism is the pleasure derived from pain and everyone has it to an extent.

Even in the case of heterosexual men, many enjoy women using the fingers to scratch their backs like this:


I am not saying men are cuckolds by default just because they derive some pleasure from a light form of pain, obviously.

I am saying that maybe cuckolds "like" cuckoldry because their nature understands that they will never be able to compete with other men for their desired woman, so they might as well give up, pass the woman to other men, and feel some pleasure from this act, which is very wicked and degenerate.

Just another variation of the sexual immorality that we see in today's society. There is no serious monogamy nor societal pressures to keep women in check, so men are in this constant fear of losing their spouses to genetically superior men, so much so that they just give up and end up cucking themselves.
This is true

As you said, the problem is there’s no wizened patriarch or clan elder to keep chad males and impulsive whores in check so they just do whatever they want with no accountability. Cuck males can’t control or punish their women thanks to foid worship culture

What’s worse is tying self worth to getting cucked. I think there’s an ongoing problem in Western culture even before zog where males get mocked for being cheated on rather than the woman who actually cheated. So cuckold males refuse to expose themselves.

Heck it’s arguably worse in foreign cultures. Societies always side with females and chads over betas hence they let them get away with it. Punishment for adultery is never truly enforced in practice

In the face of this inferiority and powerlessness over your women, males tend to just accept it
 
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I think most males think that if they accept to do anything a woman wants, they could get her (or keep her if they're in a relationship).

Even humiliating shit, i.e. femdom

For instance, about polyamorous couples shit, I don't think that the idea often comes from the guy, and I don't think either that the guy has more to win with this crap. (water)

But if a guy has the opportunity to have sex with a woman with the condition of sharing her, many would accept because in their mind, sharing a girl is better than not having a girl at all.

Without taking into account their own dignity.
This sounds like a better theory from an evolutionary perspective.

Also, the arousal one feels when watching a woman having sex could be meant to spur you to compete, though usually these days it doesn't have that effect, and the male just masturbates.

Or, in the case of conquered males, the male who derives pleasure from it rather than fighting may improve his chances of survival, thus perhaps impregnating a woman down the road rather than being killed. It could be linked to the instinct of submission to authority.

I think much of it is conditioned by the degenerate, enslaving nature of modern society. Believe me, it feels better to fuck than to watch, even as someone who spent many years watching, with horrible self-esteem.
 
This sounds like a better theory from an evolutionary perspective.

Also, the arousal one feels when watching a woman having sex could be meant to spur you to compete, though usually these days it doesn't have that effect, and the male just masturbates.

Or, in the case of conquered males, the male who derives pleasure from it rather than fighting may improve his chances of survival, thus perhaps impregnating a woman down the road rather than being killed. It could be linked to the instinct of submission to authority.

I think much of it is conditioned by the degenerate, enslaving nature of modern society. Believe me, it feels better to fuck than to watch, even as someone who spent many years watching, with horrible self-esteem.
It's this 'better than nothing' survival instinct. At least they get SOME ass. Natural instinct is to try and give her your sperm then kill the bastards from other males. That way she's at least the mother of your kids.
 
This sounds like a better theory from an evolutionary perspective.

Also, the arousal one feels when watching a woman having sex could be meant to spur you to compete, though usually these days it doesn't have that effect, and the male just masturbates.

Or, in the case of conquered males, the male who derives pleasure from it rather than fighting may improve his chances of survival, thus perhaps impregnating a woman down the road rather than being killed. It could be linked to the instinct of submission to authority.

I think much of it is conditioned by the degenerate, enslaving nature of modern society. Believe me, it feels better to fuck than to watch, even as someone who spent many years watching, with horrible self-esteem.
Makes sense
 
I thought this was obvious no? Isn’t the whole point of being a cuck just watching a dude fuck your girl while you watch ? I mean if you’re into that I automatically assume you enjoy it and why would you be enjoying watching a dude who looks like you fuck your girl when you could do it , so it’s always someone that looks way better than them. Basically an incel that’s willing to do anything just to be with a woman they find attractive
I think it's more than that. It's probably a mix of learned helplessness, a humialiation fetish and a reverse power fantasy. On the outside, a cuck would interpret it as a sexual preference, but since fetishes are tied to abnormal (or not in this case, normal) psychological constitutions. You can then think that a man with a defeatist mindset, or an inclination to forced victimhood might interpret cuckholding as an "enjoyable" and "exciting" experience. It's fundementally a way to relieve repressed psychological complexes , or amplify an existing desire to be dominated. The loss of control turns into power in itself : if the woman refuses the cuck has power over her since "it's for her enjoyment" , and if the man cucking him enjoys it , the cuck has power over him since he provides the woman. In the end it's all a bunch of psychological defects that need to be purged from the world
 
This theory doesn't make sense, those types of men would not reproduce and would've been filtered out long ago. Even if it's a small genetic variation, they would only make up a tiny portion of the population.

Idk why you're theorizing about this in the first place to be honest.
It kinda does make sense when you consider hypergamy wasn't as nearly as bad in the past and shitty women genes can easily lead to a submissive beta son
 
I think it's more than that. It's probably a mix of learned helplessness, a humialiation fetish and a reverse power fantasy. On the outside, a cuck would interpret it as a sexual preference, but since fetishes are tied to abnormal (or not in this case, normal) psychological constitutions. You can then think that a man with a defeatist mindset, or an inclination to forced victimhood might interpret cuckholding as an "enjoyable" and "exciting" experience. It's fundementally a way to relieve repressed psychological complexes , or amplify an existing desire to be dominated. The loss of control turns into power in itself : if the woman refuses the cuck has power over her since "it's for her enjoyment" , and if the man cucking him enjoys it , the cuck has power over him since he provides the woman. In the end it's all a bunch of psychological defects that need to be purged from the world
So where does bbc fit into all this? Thats the real question
Is this connected to that porn genre?
And on pornhub, it says blacked ranks number 3 in the world.
does this mean white dudes are by and large defeated and cucked?
Sorry if that waa too explicit. I respect whites but this is something everyone needs to get to the bottom of
 
Dnr

if you are into cuckold you take pleasure on beign humillated, a pathetic existence to say the least
 

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