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Cope I wish the bluepill was real

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The blackpill revealed countless harsh truths and realities, but I just wish it it wasn't real. The more blackpills I swallow the worse I feel. I've completely destroyed me as a person. I used to be blissfully ignorant, unaware of the situation. I used to not care about height, now every day I am checking to see if this guy or that is shorter or taller than me. "I wish I could believe that with enough effort, I could change, that I could become someone worthy of love and attention." Truth is, uglies have no place in society. :feelsbadman:

I wish one day we all wake up to discover that we were wrong about everything.
All those statistics were somehow wrong. The people who did the OkCupid study lied to everyone.
That one girl who posted about how she only dates 6ft+ men on Tiktok? Turns out it was part of a Russian disinformation program
The majority of women don't worship Richard Ramirez or Jeremy Meeks.
That IncelTears and Bluepillers were the ones who were correct.

I don't want to hate women all the time. I don't want to hate anyone. Hate isn't a good thing to feel no matter who it is directed at. But how could we not? How can someone not be bitter, knowing that you will never experience life? A man can only dream though.
 
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I wish I'd wake up in another universe
 
I wish I was dead
 
Would be way better for us if they were right
 
Bluepillers don't seem to realise that we want them to be right. I was much happier before I was blackpilled. I wasn't as insecure and miserable. But after so much exposure and horrific trauma, you just can't return to that state of ignorance. It's like trying to believe in Santa, the Tooth Fairy or the Easter Bunny again.
 
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I just want to be isekai’d into a new, not subhuman crippled body
 
Bluepillers don't seem to realise that we want them to be right. I was much happier before I was blackpilled. I wasn't as insecure and miserable. But after so much exposure and horrific trauma, you just can't return to that state. It's like trying to believe in Santa, the Tooth Fairy or the Easter Bunny again. I'm permanently damaged.
Stupid people are always happier.
Sometimes I wish I had very very low IQ. I've genuinely thought about bashing my head in to make myself dumb.
 
The blackpill revealed countless harsh truths and realities, but I just wish it it wasn't real sometimes. The more blackpills I swallow the more shit I feel. Many of these pills have completely destroyed me as a person. I used to be blissfully ignorant, unaware of the situation.
I used to not care about height a few years ago, now every day I am checking to see if this guy or that is shorter or taller than me.

I don't want to hate women all the time. I don't want to have to hate anyone all the time. Hate isn't a good thing to feel no matter who it is directed at. But how could we not? How can someone not be bitter, knowing that you will never experience life? The truth is, ugly people have no place in society.

I wish that one day we all wake up and find out we wrong about literally everything.
All the statistics were somehow wrong. The people who did the OkCupid study lied to everyone.
That one girl who posted about how she only dates 6ft+ men on Tiktok? Turns out it was part of a Russian disinformation program based in Yakutsk.
The majority of women don't worship Richard Ramirez or Jeremy Meeks.
That IncelTears and Bluepillers were the ones who were correct.

A man can only dream though.
The world is so disappointing for everyone except those who were born into fortunate circumstances. We push the fortunate ones into the public eye and idolize their existence, while we push the unfortunate ones into the shadows and tell them to shut up.

Children grow up with chads/stacies as their idols, as well as their primary idea of what their future should be like. As kids we never were taught about those who failed, in fact, we were told that if you fail it's due to a lack of willpower and determination, further vilifying the unfortunate. Every child grows up with the same ideal life in mind, blissfully unaware of the fact that for every successful chad, there are 100 men who simply couldn't make the cut, likely due to factors out of their control.
 
Just be delusional theory
 
It wouldnt change anything because personality is also genetic
 
Bluepillers don't seem to realise that we want them to be right. I was much happier before I was blackpilled. I wasn't as insecure and miserable. But after so much exposure and horrific trauma, you just can't return to that state of ignorance. It's like trying to believe in Santa, the Tooth Fairy or the Easter Bunny again.
The best way to know if somebody is non-biased in their belief is to evaluate how much they benefit from believing it.
 
Stupid people are always happier.
Sometimes I wish I had very very low IQ. I've genuinely thought about bashing my head in to make myself dumb.
People will also look after you if you're extremely low IQ. You won't ever be expected to work or support yourself. And people don't care if you're not in a relationship; they don't expect you to be. When you're an incel, being bright or a midwit is pure hell. Not only are you expected to complete with everybody else, but you probably won't be able to change your circumstances much even with knowledge of the blackpill.

I think people overate the importance of accepting the blackpill. It's only hugely beneficial if you're rich, NT or a genius. You just won't be in any position to change your life without those traits. You certainly won't be able to afford surgery or game the system in your favor. At most, being blackpilled might spare you from humiliation and financial exploitation.
 
People will also look after you if you're extremely low IQ. You won't ever be expected to work or support yourself. And people don't care if you're not in a relationship; they don't expect you to be. When you're an incel, being bright or a midwit is pure hell. Not only are you expected to complete with everybody else, but you probably won't be able to change your circumstances much even with knowledge of the blackpill.

I think people overate the importance of accepting the blackpill. It's only hugely beneficial if you're rich, NT or a genius. You just won't be in any position to change your life without those traits. You certainly won't be able to afford surgery or game the system in your favor. At most, being blackpilled might spare you from humiliation and financial exploitation.
If I discovered the blackpill and how things were three years earlier, then I likely wouldn't be rotting on this site.
 
The blackpill revealed countless harsh truths and realities, but I just wish it it wasn't real. The more blackpills I swallow the worse I feel. I've completely destroyed me as a person. I used to be blissfully ignorant, unaware of the situation. I used to not care about height, now every day I am checking to see if this guy or that is shorter or taller than me. "I wish I could believe that with enough effort, I could change, that I could become someone worthy of love and attention." Truth is, uglies have no place in society. :feelsbadman:

I wish one day we all wake up to discover that we were wrong about everything.
All those statistics were somehow wrong. The people who did the OkCupid study lied to everyone.
That one girl who posted about how she only dates 6ft+ men on Tiktok? Turns out it was part of a Russian disinformation program
The majority of women don't worship Richard Ramirez or Jeremy Meeks.
That IncelTears and Bluepillers were the ones who were correct.

I don't want to hate women all the time. I don't want to hate anyone. Hate isn't a good thing to feel no matter who it is directed at. But how could we not? How can someone not be bitter, knowing that you will never experience life? A man can only dream though.

This is a worthwhile post that highlights something important. At the end of the day, bluepilled men are bluepilled because they want to feel happy, even if that means deluding themselves. So how hostile can we really be to them, when they are deluding themselves as much as they are encouraging others to be deluded? Be antagonistic to the world-view, but don't make it too personal. The problem precisely is they aren't that different from us or far from being in our position but are in denial of this. We all thought the way they did once, we just grew out of it because there was nothing to feed the delusions. Chad is never bluepilled.

There's an understandable tendency here that would characterize bluepilled men in an antagonistic light. I share the dislike of them, but here's the thing: many of them are single. The notion they're all in a relationship or necessarily have it that much better than us is wrong, though the bluepilled guy who got in a relationship early and acts like it's easier than it is for other men is what is typical. Also they're more likely to be with a woman who is uglier than they are or what their looks + money could have gotten them before, and to be with a shitty Feminist type of woman rather than a woman more attractive and with a better attitude, mindset, and world-view. (This is a thing, but I also recognize the false ideal of the "beautiful woman with the right world-view" that Conservatives and redpillers have, proving they're gynocentric foid worshippers in the process because while they could be better in some respects such women really aren't that different from the rest. Conservatism and religion was always gynocentric, it's literally nothing other than "marry and devote your life to a foid")

The majority of men have a mindset that combines aspects of the bluepill and the redpill. (of course "the purplepill" is bullshit and just means you're a bluepiller that incorporates redpilled framing.) Most bluepilled men are not sheer bluepillers, this is reserved for woke soyboys. Redpillers encourage lies and delusion and are gynocentric defenders of women and their shittiness, so we recognize they might as well be bluepillers in a sense even if they're more correct and willing to criticize things without political correctness overall.

Most men delude themselves to some extent. Even if they know the truth, they suppress it to get through each day. As has often been said, any man who is not Chad is coping, (when I say coping I mean in mindset, not "I do X activity to cope," so we aren't coping by this definition) certainly if they're single and between relationships, especially if they're in one. They're probably with some woman that's mediocre that encourages them to be bluepilled and to put up with her shit, to suppress the thoughts he could be with someone hotter and better with a higher standard of living in a previous phase of economic development and that things are only getting worse.

The reason we're not like this is because we don't have the luxury of coping. Actually because we're at the opposite pole of extremes, we're closer to how Chad thinks than the average person. (the reasons foids are the most despicable is because they understand the blackpill and live it every day, but act like the bluepill is true and insist on it regardless, because they know dumb men will believe it.) We've been forced by circumstance to confront reality about society, female nature, competition, and dating dynamics. We are the most unfortunate of the unfortunate. The average poor guy in the poorest countries (think Asia, Africa, South America) is happier than we are because chances are they have a loving woman, family and community by their side, whereas we have nothing in a society perceived as affluent.
 
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Same, I also wish I was blissfully unaware of reality.
 
Same, but I know better than that. It makes sense why normies don't want to believe in it, because to accept the blackpill you have to accept the grim reality that genes truly dictate our destiny, and humans tend to want to believe in equality. Some just see through the haze.
 
I don't want to hate women all the time. I don't want to hate anyone. Hate isn't a good thing to feel no matter who it is directed at. But how could we not? How can someone not be bitter, knowing that you will never experience life? A man can only dream though.

If you don't hate children or animals, I don't see why you would hate women.

The mindset that justifies hatred to women is irrational because it's always justified with a mystified conspiracy logic. It would be so simple if we could just point to one of the two biological sexes and say, "look there, that's really the problem." There is no "the problem," just humans trying to survive and compete with each other in an increasingly inverted, warped, abstract, inhuman, unnatural, unlivable society and world. As opposed to being the thing that makes society the way that it is in isolation, women are just feeding into it and taking advantage of it. Yes, that makes them selfish and awful and merits dislike and resentment but most men in their place wouldn't act differently, so it's really just basic human self-interest as that manifests in women. Certainly this means women are basically worse than men, but it doesn't warrant generalized hatred on the basis of them being women.

Take a step back and consider how simply humans lived and mated for the 200,000 years they've been on earth, or hell how comparatively simply for most of the history of civilization until recently, and try to imagine people talking the way anyone is now about any of this in these ancient and tribal societies. Some of it would apply and be timeless, to be sure, but a lot of it would also be inapplicable and absurd. Women certainly don't come out looking good. I'm in agreement with dislike and resentment to them. But hatred is just too far. Reserve hatred for the mindsets that most men and women alike in this society typically hold about the way things are, the lies, pretense, hypocrisy, and denial. Sure, hate the women that think this way, Liberals and Feminists, but don't act like all women are like this. (in the U.S.A. it's arguably the majority.)

The reason I'll never agree with hatred to women is that there do exist women who would completely understand and agree with us. Such intellectual women are very much in the minority, incomporably more so than men, but it doesn't mean they don't exist. Mary Marcy, the author of the best essay on this subject, was a woman. Esther Vilar, the author of The Manipulated Man, was a woman. History has produced revolutionary women like Rosa Luxemburg, though such figures are unicorns.
 
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