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I wish I had incel friends to talk about life. My friends are normies and I always fail to keep incels as friends

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I never hide the truth about biology and female nature from my friends, if you can't handle the truth, you can't be my friend. Even though my friends agree with my opinions on female nature, they are sex havers, most have girlfriends and there is one who has more than one fuckbuddy.

Even though I am 100% honest about the reality of the dating market, I am never 100% honest about myself. I never reveal that I am a virgin at 29 to them, I pretend that I lost it at a young age but that I don't have sex very often, and I think they believe me (probably because I can easily infiltrate normie circles and be social, pretending to be another NT guy)

However, this shit about never being able to be 100% honest with them is starting to get to me. I have nobody IRL to talk about the kind of stuff that I talk here (I talk about escorts and shit with them but I never fucked one and they know I mostly avoid them, and they obviously know I am no pussy slayer Chad either)

I can remember 3 incels who I tried being friends with, it never worked.

  1. One was the ogre-style incel in high school, he was tall but ugly as fuck, kind of immature but whatever, we were always together and he was the only person that I can remember joking about never having sex or having friends (we only had each other back then). We used to stop being friends for dumb reasons though, like owing money or discussions, whatever. I talked to him again recently when I invited a few friends home and even tried talking a little about this stuff but he just came up with the whole LE CONFIDENCE bullshit and pretending to be having sex now (total lie, dude is a truecel) so it was all worthless
  2. Second one was a midget I met in college, he was an huge weeb and loved video games so it was nice to talk with him about nerdy shit, but I could tell he was not really invested into our friendship, and I was always the one starting conversations. He was not a bad guy but everyone hated him because he was really short, really ugly and did some cringy shit on class sometimes. He was a really optimistic coping guy and loved his nerdy hobbies and seemed perfectly fined living as an uber nerd (something I envy him for) One really interesting thing about him is that he had no fear of public speaking since he was trained to do it since he was a child. He could get in front of the class and talk perfectly, while I looked like a total jackass. Once he left college, all conversations ceased, he doesn't even have social media to use
  3. Third one was a short blackcel with skin issues in college, I really liked talking to him about politics even though we disagreed in many things it was really good talking to him, he knew about all sorts of stuff and it always felt like we were both learning from each other. This one was by far the most blackpilled of the 3. He was blackpilled even before the term was created, one day he told me in 2011 "In the end, everything in life is all about appearances." If he was talking about looks (and not how people present themselves) then he was simply ahead of the curve. I also invited him home at the same day I invited the 1. and he didn't even bother coming
So that's it, I never managed to keep an incel friend to keep it real and feel like I am not alone, all I can do is cope in incel forums

tl;dr: I can only have normie friends, incel friends avoid me, I can only talk about this stuff with anonymous users on the internet
 
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I used to have some incel friends but they were bluepilled as fuck(or at least seemed that way on the outside) - when I tried explaining the blackpill to them they just didn't get it. Nowadays I don't talk to anybody anymore.
 
I never hide the truth about biology and female nature from my friends,
Lmao same
Even though I am 100% honest about the reality of the dating market, I am never 100% honest about myself
Are u me?
However, this shit about never being able to be 100% honest with them is starting to get to me. I have nobody IRL to talk about the kind of stuff that I talk here (I talk about escorts and shit with them but I never fucked one and they know I mostly avoid them, and they obviously know I am no pussy slayer Chad either)
Tbh
 
I used to have some incel friends but they were bluepilled as fuck(or at least seemed that way on the outside) - when I tried explaining the blackpill to them they just didn't get it. Nowadays I don't talk to anybody anymore.
Brutal. Having no friends suck shit, I've been there
 
I also invited him home at the same day I invited the 1. and he didn't even bother coming
Yea I have experienced this with bluepilled incels/shut ins.
My friends are on the border of low tier normie and incel, some of them are like IT politically so its risky to blackpill them.
 
Lmao same

Are u me?

Tbh
The reality of every chameleon incel, fitting in with the normies but always hiding who he really is
Yea I have experienced this with bluepilled incels/shut ins.
My friends are on the border of low tier normie and incel, some of them are like IT politically so its risky to blackpill them.
Ironic that the people who have the least opportunities to socialize are also the ones more likely to dismiss them
 
I haven’t talked to anyone in 6 years
 
Incels, thanks to femishit, were ostracized. We are something that they fear( Imagine incels being recognized publicly and fgiven support, it would be the end of feminism).
Incels by definition is "being a loser", because, nobody wants to accept that we are the result of an unfair society, this contradiction that could give us advantage, is hidden under the carpet and disphemisms are used.
So much disadvantages sui generis, people try to avoid this definition at all cost and would rather lie or cope with escorts, so that they can somehow escape from this taboo.
If you've read from Sigmund Freud, you will know why society needs taboos.
 
I have sexhaver friends but they are bluepilled af. One is a virgin and blackpilled on a lot of issues. But he is a volcel, not incel.

I have found that I have a special problem making friends with manlets. Especially fat manlets. I try to be friendly and good with them but the moment they realize my timid, non confrontational pacifist nature, they become mean to me. Ironically they behave very will with other guys who bully them constantly. Like they can't accept the fact that someone is being nice to them and feel more natural when they are treated like shit. Skinny mannlets on the other hand don't have this problem this much.
 
I have sexhaver friends but they are bluepilled af. One is a virgin and blackpilled on a lot of issues. But he is a volcel, not incel.

I have found that I have a special problem making friends with manlets. Especially fat manlets. I try to be friendly and good with them but the moment they realize my timid, non confrontational pacifist nature, they become mean to me. Ironically they behave very will with other guys who bully them constantly. Like they can't accept the fact that someone is being nice to them and feel more natural when they are treated like shit. Skinny mannlets on the other hand don't have this problem this much.
I've met some non-fat people like that, its an huge red flag.
 
Finding incel friends is a challenge, finding blackpilled incel friends is almost impossible. Most of my friends were incels and outcasts, but they were all bluepilled as fuck. I don't hear from them much these days, but last time I heard from them, they were all still KHHV like me. Nothing changed for them, yet they remain bluepilled, that's pretty much why I don't talk to them that much.
 
I feel you man, usually incels we see irl are bluepilled guys copemaxxing

I do have a friend who is blackpilled however, but he's more like normie
 
Finding incel friends is a challenge, finding blackpilled incel friends is almost impossible. Most of my friends were incels and outcasts, but they were all bluepilled as fuck. I don't hear from them much these days, but last time I heard from them, they were all still KHHV like me. Nothing changed for them, yet they remain bluepilled, that's pretty much why I don't talk to them that much.
no one wants to admit that its about looks. That they are ugly. And there's nothing they can do about it. Society functions on bluepills. Study this, career that and you will get a hot wife.
 
no one wants to admit that its about looks. That they are ugly. And there's nothing they can do about it. Society functions on bluepills. Study this, career that and you will get a hot wife.
It's not all false though, you can have a hot wife from some third world country if you are rich. What they don't tell you however is that she will get a divorce.
 
Id love to have a based blackpilled incel friend irl so bad
 
Id love to have a based blackpilled incel friend irl so bad
tfw you will never have blackpilled incel friends to talk about life and playing games while making jokes about who's a Chad and who's a virgin

Voldemor cries
 
It's not all false though, you can have a hot wife from some third world country if you are rich. What they don't tell you however is that she will get a divorce.
being rich is mostly about being born in the right family and having that kind of mindset where you are not limited by social inhibitions(can easily fool people, cheat people, swindle them etc.). Typical wageslaving can only take you so far.
 
I honestly can’t remember the last time I had irl friends. I believe it was in middle school
 
being rich is mostly about being born in the right family and having that kind of mindset where you are not limited by social inhibitions(can easily fool people, cheat people, swindle them etc.). Typical wageslaving can only take you so far.
There is a small chance of a poor man becoming rich.

I can't say the same about an ugly man becoming good looking
 

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