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I Wish I Had Friends

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I wish I had friends and a social like like a regular person. I try my best to make friends by being social and outgoing but its to no avail.
 
Same been friendless for years
From experience making friends is impossible outside of school, it's your only chance to get them
Not only that but it's much harder for people to even want to be around a loner incel
 
Yeah our parents fucked us on that end. They probably saw we were ugly and without a girlfriend but didn't care and as a result our ugliness not only led us to be incels but also no friends.
 
Only way to friendmax as an incel is to be the laughing stock and say retarded things to make everyone laugh at you
 
Only way to friendmax as an incel is to be the laughing stock and say retarded things to make everyone laugh at you
Does this mean I'm a fakecel?
 
Yep we pretty much could only be friends with normies since if we tried to befriend other high IQ incels we would get mad if they mogged us even slightly.
 
The older you get the harder it will be to make friends because people already have tight social circles
 
Same. Is that too much to ask?
Only way to friendmax as an incel is to be the laughing stock and say retarded things to make everyone laugh at you
This pretty much I can relate
 
Same been friendless for years
From experience making friends is impossible outside of school, it's your only chance to get them
Not only that but it's much harder for people to even want to be around a loner incel
That's actually not true, people are able to make friends as adults too, the problem is that the ability to do this is based on social skills and experiences you had during school. If you were a social outcast, you never learned these skills and so you have no understanding or direction on how to act in order to make new social connections as an adult.

TL;DR It's like knowing how to swim
 
A gf would be enough for me.
 
No one wants the loneeliness pill
 
That's actually not true, people are able to make friends as adults too, the problem is that the ability to do this is based on social skills and experiences you had during school. If you were a social outcast, you never learned these skills and so you have no understanding or direction on how to act in order to make new social connections as an adult.

TL;DR It's like knowing how to swim

you're not wrong, but in general it is harder for even sociable people to make friends in adulthood. Full time jobs and a nagging wife and kids can eat up the time for friends. The days of no real responsibilities and hanging out all day at school and after school are long gone.
 
i have no friends

not even on this board
 
As someone who had an active social life and a solid friend group I can say with absolute certainly that it would not have helped you.

I had to watch as 1 by 1 my friends became too busy for me with their girlfriends and going out and chaising pusy because it was an option for them. They won't help you get laid because their girlfriends know you are too ugly for any of their friends. Then in your mid 20s the wedding invitations start coming in.

Been best man at a few as well. You didn't miss much tbh, cept for the pure suicide fuel
 
I'm 32, once you hit around 30 it is fucking OVER for making friends.

OVER.
 
As someone who had an active social life and a solid friend group I can say with absolute certainly that it would not have helped you.
I had to watch as 1 by 1 my friends became too busy for me with their girlfriends and going out and chaising pusy because it was an option for them. They won't help you get laid because their girlfriends know you are too ugly for any of their friends. Then in your mid 20s the wedding invitations start coming in.
Been best man at a few as well. You didn't miss much tbh, cept for the pure suicide fuel

Very similar to my own experience. Now my best friend's wife despises me. (Wont say it aloud, but I know) Quickly running out of friends... :feelsbadman:
For anyone looking to blame me; No I did not say controversial things around her.
 
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same i could cope with them
 
Same been friendless for years
From experience making friends is impossible outside of school, it's your only chance to get them
Not only that but it's much harder for people to even want to be around a loner incel
I tried looking for people who share the same hobbies at my uni. The anime club is filled with normies yelling Jojo references in public and chads who have a thing for cosplayers. Any music-related social groups are obviously not for a virgin like me; chads produce music to "work on their personality" and fuck female vocalist.
I can't even find people to play vidya together because I suck at multiplayer. Foids only care about looks but my personality sucks as well. It wouldn't work either way. Truly over for me :cryfeels:
 
I’ll never be one of the lads :cryfeels:
 
i got rejected from every social circle and group i ever tried to join. uni really is no different from school, so cliquey.
 
I wish I had friends and a social like like a regular person. I try my best to make friends by being social and outgoing but its to no avail.
I really, truly, regret not trying my hardest to make friends in secondary school. What I didn’t realise then is that that was the easiest time for making friends I’ll ever have in my life. If I couldn’t make friends then, then of course I’ll never be able to make them in college or work. I missed out, both on making my lifelong friends and on making the social skills and experience necessary to make new ones. Now I have nothing left to look forward to but a lifetime of loneliness and misery.
 
I don't tbh friends are worthless ngl
 
Unfortunately they’re a prerequisite for having a girlfriend.
 
I really, truly, regret not trying my hardest to make friends in secondary school.
You lose them later. Don't worry.
Unfortunately they’re a prerequisite for having a girlfriend.
Foids buy into a lifestyle, a social circle which can elevate them. Many people ignore that.
That's why most simps have to cut contact with their old friends when getting into a relationship if there's not social benefit there for the foid.
 
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I have friends , all from school
 
As someone who had an active social life and a solid friend group I can say with absolute certainly that it would not have helped you.

I had to watch as 1 by 1 my friends became too busy for me with their girlfriends and going out and chaising pusy because it was an option for them. They won't help you get laid because their girlfriends know you are too ugly for any of their friends. Then in your mid 20s the wedding invitations start coming in.

Been best man at a few as well. You didn't miss much tbh, cept for the pure suicide fuel
 

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