I Will Never Interact With a Black Woman Again
I am absolutely repulsed by my past experiences. I’m a white boi, and i grew up in a predominantly black area. Growing up I had the white boi experience, harassed casually by black women, berated, assaulted by female family members, treated as less than human. When i moved recently (to a predominantly white/asian place) it was a complete culture shock.
I have locs and i get complimented DAILY whenever i’m out. And the compliments are RESPECTFUL. I never get “aye boi” or “yo wyy boi” or “damn” or any of those other comments that make me uncomfortable in public. Women actually approach me, and tell me why they think i’m beautiful, they don’t say or do nice things (like opening the door for me) with the expectation of getting anything in return.
They compliment or do nice things, and leave me alone after. No ulterior motives. No harassment. They let me go on with my life. Also ive been on dates with non black women in my area, and i’m having the time of my life. Ive always thought i was “masculine” personality wise. But i’m not. I’m the most feminine ive ever been now. I’m no longer in survival mode. I never get asked about 50/50, i’m never prompted to pick up the bill on a date, some women even get personally offended when i offer. I get flowers, i get picked up (in nice cars might i add) and i’m just courted. Like actually pursued. Theres no manipulation, no lack of communication or anything. They dont expect me to open my legs on the first date. The women ive been seeing are so straightforward, i never end up confused or unsure of where i stand with them, its so un-stressful.
They buy me nice things, reassure me, and treat me like a man. I’m just realizing ive never been treated like a man by women of my the black culture, and it both hurts and enrages me. I dont have to struggle to earn anything from these women. Nobody needs a place to stay, they are WOMEN. Real WOMEN. Ive always envisioned myself with a black wife, and fully black kids. That is completely gone for me. If i do end up married, it will definitely not be to a black woman, and i’m okay with that. The trauma, pain, abuse, and competition is not worth it.
P.S: dont get in my comments with “not all black women” or “some white/ asian women are equally as bad” duh. That has not been my experience though. The worst nonblack woman ive met is running laps around the best black woman ive met. Keep it to yourself.
