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Im curios how has it worked out? how many approaches have you done with this method and did you see any success in using it? whats your race height and looks?
you're losing your sanity op
I lost count tbh
My cold approach is under the false pretense of being new to the city and looking for new friends on my travels. This way the girl doesn't walk off within 10 seconds, which direct game does.
I always push for the 'Instant date' too, meaning you basically take her on a date on the spot. Similar to doing an on-spot interview before the main one. On the instant date I try to build comfort then take her somewhere intimate like a park or ocean, a good place to kiss and set a man to woman frame
Essentially I follow Deepak Wayne and Engineered lifestyle
Results: most girls walk away within 5 minutes. A select few actually went to the coffee place with me but ended up leaving shortly after. If I did this more I'll bet some girls would end up following me to the park and making out but my game isn't at that point yet
You already approached +20 thots and they all rejected you.
I think too much rejection will destroy your psyche.
I think too much rejection will destroy your psyche.
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This. Talk about something random and completely ordinary like the weather. How you're glad it's almost lunchtime or "beer o'clock" (so much cringe). But I would say if you're that low inhib, fucking LARP as a normie to take their guard down so that they don't just run away. Give them something to answer you back with (not just yes or no).
I'd like to see how that works.
Arise from inceldom, brother. Good luck.
This thread should be stickied.
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Most leads lead no where, thats a hard fact to swallow. No matter how good your game is there are always going to be girls that are not interested in talking to you.
Since you have managed to go on some instadates you are clearly not hideous. In you case its about approaching more and becoming more persistent. Set the man to women frame right from the get go. But you cannot escalate as fast since your in public. But you should try the same method but night game instead. Thats when the girls have let their ASD( anti slut defense) down.
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Uninstall - full marks for effort and stamina.
however - you know as well as I do - even if she smiles and says - hi - nice to meet you, I'm Karen. What will be your next move? Your insecurities will be nigh on impossible to conceal and you will probably soon be floundering. Women have an inbuilt insecurity detector - and tend to run away from what they consider to be weak men. They want confidence backed up by intelligence and good taste humour. Trouble is - you've been rejected by women all your life and while you may have intelligence - it is unlikely you will have the wits and confidence to make a huge impression.
I saw some thing on youtube - man asks 100 women for sex. he just went from one to the next asking for sex and was rejected every time. what you are doing is not that different.
Approaches should never be cold if you lack confidence.
So, there has to be some common interest that can be used as an ice breaker - from there - a common interest could lead to an exchange which could lead somewhere. Requests for information can also be effective if you appear genuinely in need of information, directions or whatever. If she sniffs desperation - the door will be slammed in your face for sure. But there is a much better chance of you not appearing and sounding like a desperado if you have something genuine to say to her. If she thinks it's just a line - you've failed already.
So I would say then that you need to be much more strategic with how you expend your energy. If all you've got to say to a girl as an opener is "hi my name's xxx" I'm afraid you are most likely going to continue to fail.
thoughts?
however - you know as well as I do - even if she smiles and says - hi - nice to meet you, I'm Karen. What will be your next move? Your insecurities will be nigh on impossible to conceal and you will probably soon be floundering. Women have an inbuilt insecurity detector - and tend to run away from what they consider to be weak men. They want confidence backed up by intelligence and good taste humour. Trouble is - you've been rejected by women all your life and while you may have intelligence - it is unlikely you will have the wits and confidence to make a huge impression.
I saw some thing on youtube - man asks 100 women for sex. he just went from one to the next asking for sex and was rejected every time. what you are doing is not that different.
Approaches should never be cold if you lack confidence.
So, there has to be some common interest that can be used as an ice breaker - from there - a common interest could lead to an exchange which could lead somewhere. Requests for information can also be effective if you appear genuinely in need of information, directions or whatever. If she sniffs desperation - the door will be slammed in your face for sure. But there is a much better chance of you not appearing and sounding like a desperado if you have something genuine to say to her. If she thinks it's just a line - you've failed already.
So I would say then that you need to be much more strategic with how you expend your energy. If all you've got to say to a girl as an opener is "hi my name's xxx" I'm afraid you are most likely going to continue to fail.
thoughts?
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Didn't approach today.
I was completely devastated.
u are describing the indirect approach
yes, with it you will get a lot more talking
but we are not doing this to talk
we are doing this to get girls
ultimately, both will have an enormous rejection rate
I AM NOT ASKING TO FOR SEX EINSTEIN so it's not the same
The thing is some women will like the direct approach others will not
And you won't get more girls with the indirect sleazy way
You will simply get different girls
958 to go
I was completely devastated.
u are describing the indirect approach
yes, with it you will get a lot more talking
but we are not doing this to talk
we are doing this to get girls
ultimately, both will have an enormous rejection rate
I AM NOT ASKING TO FOR SEX EINSTEIN so it's not the same
The thing is some women will like the direct approach others will not
And you won't get more girls with the indirect sleazy way
You will simply get different girls
958 to go
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Indirect game is not going to give you a better success rate. At some point in the interaction you are going to need to make your intentions clear, inother words you are going to need to have a non-platonic interaction, If you want to change your lead into a lay. Its better to set you intentions straight from the get go, instead off wasting your time with bad leads that won't go nowhere.
What i suggest you do is say something along the lines off "i think your cute btw" after you just open with the "new to town" line that way you let her know.
go to a club and take mdma
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Yes you are asking for sex - what else would drive a boy to approach women with nothing better than - hi my name is blah blah - any girl who even bothers to listen will just think - another loser who cant get laid.
You dont know the first thing about women - to get girls you need to charm them a bit - hence a skillful indirect approach can lead to results. Once you've got them talking - you can take it a step further if they seem interested - this is the point where you can ask her name and give yours. There's nothing sleazy about this - your hi my name etc is sleazy if anything. If that's the best you can do I suggest you save your time - stay at home and porn sos instead
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with this approach you will get faster dismissals - that will be the only difference. hot guys with super confidence go far with this approach - but is unlikely to yield results for uninstall.
Have you thought of changing your approach? Maybe try to comment/compliment them on something they are wearing or even ask them a question and then transition into something else. If all else fails maybe try to make them laugh with a pick up line. I know most of these won’t work but if you’re going to do 1000 attempts might as well mix things up. Good luck!
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only 1 approach today - complete fail
but I did some practice and started compliment people on their shoes even men
lmfao
and on man even smiled at me and said thank you very much lmfao
he legit felt like a girl complimented in school lmfao
hi pua expert
you are correct to a certain extend, not 100%
there's nothing SLEAZY about going FULL ON HARD MORE
sleazy is asking where's the coffee shop when u have lived in that town for 20 years
BUT U ARE CORRECT THAT LYING IS NEEDED WITH WOMEN
those bitches
yes, I agree with you
i have try all kinds of things
also, i think it's basically impossible to do 1000 approaches all identical
957 to go
but I did some practice and started compliment people on their shoes even men
lmfao
and on man even smiled at me and said thank you very much lmfao
he legit felt like a girl complimented in school lmfao
hi pua expert
you are correct to a certain extend, not 100%
there's nothing SLEAZY about going FULL ON HARD MORE
sleazy is asking where's the coffee shop when u have lived in that town for 20 years
BUT U ARE CORRECT THAT LYING IS NEEDED WITH WOMEN
those bitches
yes, I agree with you
i have try all kinds of things
also, i think it's basically impossible to do 1000 approaches all identical
957 to go
I think you should take a break...
You know maybe get a massage.
Im telling you man this shit will get to you...
This whole thread shows how cringey PUA shit really is.
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"BUT U ARE CORRECT THAT LYING IS NEEDED WITH WOMEN"
No I didn't say that. I also never suggested you ask where the nearest coffee shop is in an area where you live.
If you start out lying - even if you get anywhere - she will catch you out sooner or later.
I am not saying I would do any better than you and I am no PUA. But I think you will just get more angry and depressed with the strategy you are using.
No I didn't say that. I also never suggested you ask where the nearest coffee shop is in an area where you live.
If you start out lying - even if you get anywhere - she will catch you out sooner or later.
I am not saying I would do any better than you and I am no PUA. But I think you will just get more angry and depressed with the strategy you are using.
Wow, finding and approaching 1000 different women sounds really difficult as a 30 year old, even in a big city. Kudos to you for getting out of the house so much! Even if they all reject you, the Vitamin D is beneficial
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Approaching random women is completely ridiculous but I wish you the best
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You will nevER acquire a fair dAMe with that face.
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approching 100 would be more realistic and you would probably be able to luck out on at least one girl in the 100 you approach, also try to make your approaches better over time and you might see a higher success rate.
Also if you luck out maybe on the 50th, still approach the other 50 and dont just latch onto that one you approch, because she is defo still in contact with chad and can pass you off any time she wants for chad. If you ascend, apply TRP tactics because they actually fucking work.
Given we have shit skills socially anyway, you are more than likely to act very beta when you finally luck out, which is why i encourage you to approach the other amount of girls that you have left on the approach list. TRP sound silly as it only works for chad, but it also works if you have actually lucked out, forget plate spinning because that is literally only for chad, just work on being distant, when you fuck her work on being non responsive and taking forever to text her back, compared to beforehand when you are eager to msg her once you get her number, and work on not acting like a bitch around her.
This is my plan, but you are 6'1 and have a better chance of lucking out than i do, id probably get 1 in 1000 and you would probably be able to luck out within 100 approches.
Also if you luck out maybe on the 50th, still approach the other 50 and dont just latch onto that one you approch, because she is defo still in contact with chad and can pass you off any time she wants for chad. If you ascend, apply TRP tactics because they actually fucking work.
Given we have shit skills socially anyway, you are more than likely to act very beta when you finally luck out, which is why i encourage you to approach the other amount of girls that you have left on the approach list. TRP sound silly as it only works for chad, but it also works if you have actually lucked out, forget plate spinning because that is literally only for chad, just work on being distant, when you fuck her work on being non responsive and taking forever to text her back, compared to beforehand when you are eager to msg her once you get her number, and work on not acting like a bitch around her.
This is my plan, but you are 6'1 and have a better chance of lucking out than i do, id probably get 1 in 1000 and you would probably be able to luck out within 100 approches.
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Honestly, don't even worry about face. A 10/10 body with a 3/10 face is lightyears better than a 10/10 face with a 4/10 body.
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Not at all man, an ugly guy with a great body is almost always seen as a joke or a try hard. Then again it's better to be ugly with a good body than ugly with a shit body so whatever
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Im talking about when choosing a foid to approach. Ugly face=less confidence (not a 100%gauruntee) but with all the sexual plusses of a nice body. You're putting your dick in her ass and pussy not her fucking face (who even beats off to the blowjob part of porn?)
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Oh sorry i didn't understand what you said properly
This is the best advice OP. (apart from the rope part).
Look at Ice Poseidon live streams he's (((not))) good looking and yet is successful with cold approaches. He doesnt say " hi my name is etc" he comments on something interesting.
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All good. Would you agree that 10/10 body + 3/10 face >>>>>>>>>>>>> 10/10 face + 3/10 body?
No unless the body is 5+ inches below the average height of your country. If you have a 3/10 face it's over if surgery can't fix it.
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Dude... read the previous posts man. We are talking about FOIDS. OF FUCKING COURSE NO ONE WOULD CHOOSE TO BE A MANLET YOU FUCKING IDIOT. You ARE however, a fucking liar if you say you'd pick a butterface with a 10/10 body over a fucking hambeast/literal stick figure with a supermodel face.
U mad bro? Relax we are all in the same boat here..some cope in other ways.
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Asking an incel if he's madU mad bro? Relax we are all in the same boat here..some cope in other ways.
U sad then bro?Asking an incel if he's mad
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For me personally yes, it's better to fuck a butterface than a really cute whale
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Made 1 approach but it was so terrible.
I started to a girl and she was actually walking towards her bf LMFAO
I won't even count it.
Also, I started approaching all kinds of strangers including men asking for directions to practice my intonation.
LMFAO men are such cucks
some cuck pulled out his phone and launched google maps to help me
I started to a girl and she was actually walking towards her bf LMFAO
I won't even count it.
Also, I started approaching all kinds of strangers including men asking for directions to practice my intonation.
LMFAO men are such cucks
some cuck pulled out his phone and launched google maps to help me
That's nice of him.LMFAO men are such cucks
some cuck pulled out his phone and launched google maps to help me
OP you still haven't told us where do you stand on the looks scale and what type of gyals you approach...
OP is doing it right, provided he's not sub4, especially sub3. The volcel pretty boys be mad at him for doing what they should be doing.
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Technically, I did 3 approaches today, but since none of them resulted in an actual conversation - they all ran away, one of them autistically holding her phone, I won't count them at all as real approaches.
One of them was very bold, though. I approached what appears to be a 6-7 at an intersection but it went nowhere.
After another week of devastation, I feel like complete shit.
My legs hurts. My eyes hurt due to the lack of sleep - searhing for prospects forces me to work late sometimes because I do it after work and come home very late but can't sleep despite the fatigue.
I can tell without a shadow of a doubt that this shit is tough as hell on my mental health which is not sound to begin with.
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Unfortunately, I have noticed the following.
1. Women where I live are very hard to approach. They are very closed and nasty. Maybe kinda like Canadian women, I don't know. But they don't seem "welcoming" at all.
2. Sometimes I would be about to approach but the woman/girl would give me a look that would basically halt my approach beforehand. Like they reject me with their eyes before I have even opened my mouth.
3. THIS IS THE BIG THING THAT PUA FAGGOTS DO NOT TELL YOU
Women that you approach do not see you as BRAVE, CONFIDENT OR WHATEVER>
they see you as creepy and desperate even if you are actually brave and confident.
You have to remember that women rationalize the approach in their favor. Meaning, they don't beat themselves up for rejecting you even if you were attractive enough for them.
They simply call you a creep to make themselves look better and move on with their smartphones.
4. I actually relaunched tinder out of desperation the other night, saw the same women that I have been seeing for 2 years and uninstalled it.
I don't know what to say.
It took me damn near 30 years to realize the truth about women and the world, but at least now I know everything i need to know.
Uninstall signing off
I haven't give up.
I won't give up.
I will keep pushing.
I hope I make it to 1000 real approaches one day.
MY plan for next week is to approach primarily women sitting outside.
Ironically, while I was going home with my tail between my legs, I passed through park and there like 10 couples on the benches kissing.
gotta love this life
Fuck it all
At least I have myself, still
One of them was very bold, though. I approached what appears to be a 6-7 at an intersection but it went nowhere.
After another week of devastation, I feel like complete shit.
My legs hurts. My eyes hurt due to the lack of sleep - searhing for prospects forces me to work late sometimes because I do it after work and come home very late but can't sleep despite the fatigue.
I can tell without a shadow of a doubt that this shit is tough as hell on my mental health which is not sound to begin with.
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Unfortunately, I have noticed the following.
1. Women where I live are very hard to approach. They are very closed and nasty. Maybe kinda like Canadian women, I don't know. But they don't seem "welcoming" at all.
2. Sometimes I would be about to approach but the woman/girl would give me a look that would basically halt my approach beforehand. Like they reject me with their eyes before I have even opened my mouth.
3. THIS IS THE BIG THING THAT PUA FAGGOTS DO NOT TELL YOU
Women that you approach do not see you as BRAVE, CONFIDENT OR WHATEVER>
they see you as creepy and desperate even if you are actually brave and confident.
You have to remember that women rationalize the approach in their favor. Meaning, they don't beat themselves up for rejecting you even if you were attractive enough for them.
They simply call you a creep to make themselves look better and move on with their smartphones.
4. I actually relaunched tinder out of desperation the other night, saw the same women that I have been seeing for 2 years and uninstalled it.
I don't know what to say.
It took me damn near 30 years to realize the truth about women and the world, but at least now I know everything i need to know.
Uninstall signing off
I haven't give up.
I won't give up.
I will keep pushing.
I hope I make it to 1000 real approaches one day.
MY plan for next week is to approach primarily women sitting outside.
Ironically, while I was going home with my tail between my legs, I passed through park and there like 10 couples on the benches kissing.
gotta love this life
Fuck it all
At least I have myself, still
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You have a lot to learn my son.
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You're fuckin crazy, dude. One of the only benefits to taking the blackpill is, you are meant to be wise enough to not trouble yourself with garbage like this.
I will settle for fucking 1000 escorts instead. But they must all be 6/10 or above.
Dude, please stop. This isn't working, these girls can tell it is forced, planning to go out just to approach women will NEVER work because it is forced and they can see it isn't natural.
Please just go out without the intention, then if you see someone you like compliment her and start a convo
Please just go out without the intention, then if you see someone you like compliment her and start a convo
OP you're doing something wrong,
after 20 approaches you should have a hit if you did things right unless super unlucky
since you're low inhib and willing to try anything I'll give you an advice that sounds simple stupid but might give you a boost:
SUIT UP
wear a suit, shirt + tie - and try again
go get a fresh modern haircut as well, never hurts
after 20 approaches you should have a hit if you did things right unless super unlucky
since you're low inhib and willing to try anything I'll give you an advice that sounds simple stupid but might give you a boost:
SUIT UP
wear a suit, shirt + tie - and try again
go get a fresh modern haircut as well, never hurts
God bless you, warrior.
Mind if I ask, how do you look like? Height, frame, weight, skin, race, facial flaws, positive traits, body type?
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Lol even if you do get a girlfriend, she'll probably feel really disgusted to pursue any sexual relations with you.
I think it would be easier for you if you had a setting for your approaches. That way you will not come totally out of the blue and you will feel more relaxed yourself.
Ideas:
-classes
-public transportation
-library
-some BS group activity
Ideas:
-classes
-public transportation
-library
-some BS group activity
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