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Adolf Kitler
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I wasted my 20s and I believe men are not able to love
I grew up in a narcissistic misogynistic family where a woman is nothing. First sex? With my drunken crush, who I didn't say no to. needless to say, I was ashamed to say I was a virgin, so I enjoyed all kinds of sex (yes..) ...first time. another trauma. I married a guy who looked and acted like a prince. seriously, i was one of those people who praised their husbands from morning till night. red flags? I overlooked those. i believed that being cooped up at home with no friends and no money was the best thing that could happen to me because i could wear vintage clothes and not go to work and be cute 50s housewife. my husband would take care of it. one day my husband came home from work and said he was tired of it and was going to live with his mom. why? because i got sick before and couldn't have sex. I was a maid and I was still proud of it. He cut me off from my friends, my work, everything. I'm 30 now and I feel like I've only just woken up. Please! Don't waste your time with them. My prince knelt in front of me and told me he would rather die than let anything happen to me. He told me with tears in his eyes how he would never let us break up and a thousand other bs you know from fairy tales...yep..
I'm starting over, with debt, no work experience, and the idea that men really aren't capable of love..they only love what you do for them. once you stop, they leave.
at the moment it's better for me to fulfill my dreams of love through fictional characters and other unreachable men, because I don't see any other option..
Accurate title: I wasted my 20s and I believe Chads are not able to love