I was rejected by a foid today

[ihatelife2]

Ok I was rejected by a foid online today, here are some of the messages

Me: Hello! I think you are really pretty, no offense, I didn't want to mention it but I guess I am mentioning it and also if you find that strange I totally understand if you want to stop messaging me

What I mean is I have a crush on you and feelings for you, sorry to say that, I have felt this way since January 2026 and I guess I thought that we could start as friends and maybe one day you would like me also, I didn't want to be weird and mention it but it's hard to keep a secret

I did try to let you go in February 2026 but I saw you in my dream and when that happens, it stays with you the whole day and I didn't look for other girls during this time, I'm not really planning to, if you won't be interested (not saying you have to be interested right this moment) I hope I could meet someone like you but it wouldn't be you and I don't know them so I wouldn't be emotionally attached to them

This is probably weird but I wouldn't hurt anyone

Her: Wow I didn't expect that
But I'm totally fine with that

Me: Do you feel like you want to see where it goes and stuff or do you just want to remain friends our whole lives? I won't be mad. Sorry to ask you, I was planning to wait until meeting you irl in a public place

Her: I only want to be friends lol but I like talking to you. I don't know what to say

Me: We can be friends



This is why I am having a breakdown, I really will never ascend, never, I wasn't asking her to be my gf right that moment but she didn't even want to at least be open to the idea. Btw we aren't friends she never contacts me unless I message her and usually leaves on read

What do you boyos think of my attempt?

 

[Baasskap]

It's long. I don't think attractive guys put more than a few words in there texts. Not that I know much about talking to women.

 

[ihatelife2]

It's long. I don't think attractive guys put more than a few words in there texts. Not that I know much about talking to women.

I'm glad I asked her instead of dragging it out even longer and yeah I did write too much

 

[SewerGoat]

Should of stopped at - Hey you are pretty. Wanted to tell you that i like you for a long time - would've been enough.

 

[ihatelife2]

Should of stopped at - Hey you are pretty. Wanted to tell you that i like a long time ago - would've been enough.

Yeah you're right but she wasn't interested anyways she would only have been interested if I had a new face

 

[SewerGoat]

Yeah you're right but she wasn't interested anyways she would only have been interested if I had a new face

Do you know this girl only from online or from Rl?

 

[VanGobbel]

I did try to let you go in February 2026 but I saw you in my dream and when that happens, it stays with you the whole day and I didn't look for other girls during this time, I'm not really planning to, if you won't be interested (not saying you have to be interested right this moment) I hope I could meet someone like you but it wouldn't be you and I don't know them so I wouldn't be emotionally attached to them

 

[MoroccanFarmer]

Write shorter messages and dont be a gentelmen too much. If u dont look like a chad u need to alteast try to not appear ND as fuck and write more casually.

 

[Baasskap]

I'm glad I asked her instead of dragging it out even longer and yeah I did write too much

Yeah it's better to be upfront. You never know there may be a unicorn out there.

 

[ihatelife2]

Do you know this girl only from online or from Rl?

Online only

 

[Ellsworth]

Very beta and lots of mistakes. But at the same time would have been the perfect words if you were Chad.

 

[SewerGoat]

Online only

She saw how you look like online or was it just text?

 

[Xul]

Maybe dont do that

 

[ihatelife2]

Write shorter messages and dont be a gentelmen too much. If u dont look like a chad u need to alteast try to not appear ND as fuck and write more casually.

That's good advice, if I get reborn as chad in another life I will use it

Yeah it's better to be upfront. You never know there may be a unicorn out there.

I got my hopes up there may be a foid out there who cares more about personality than looks but I was just desperate, she never even talked unless I messaged first and even then it was like talking to a brick wall

Very beta and lots of mistakes. But at the same time would have been the perfect words if you were Chad.

Haha thanks yeah exactly it would be awesome if I was chad

She saw how you look like online or was it just text?

I sent my pic

 

[ihatelife2]

Write shorter messages and dont be a gentelmen too much. If u dont look like a chad u need to alteast try to not appear ND as fuck and write more casually.

Is it really obvious I'm ND? If so how can I hide it

 

[Baasskap]

Is it really obvious I'm ND? If so how can I hide it

You can't really hide it at least not for long coming from an autist. You can act like a normie but the always sniff you out.

 

[ihatelife2]

You can't really hide it at least not for long coming from an autist. You can act like a normie but the always sniff you out.

Yeah I guess it's painfully obvious in my case too my foid bullies always called me a retard among other things

 

[Baasskap]

Yeah I guess it's painfully obvious in my case too my foid bullies always called me a retard among other things

Yeah I've talked to girls and too many times they will ask the question are you autistic or stupid or something. I must come off autistic.

 

[ihatelife2]

Yeah I've talked to girls and too many times they will ask the question are you autistic or stupid or something. I must come off autistic.

Oh shit same, even online they ask in the first conversation are you autistic

 

[Baasskap]

Oh shit same, even online they ask in the first conversation are you autistic

Yeah, mentalceldom combined with being ugly is a one two punch to your SMV. Women smell autism and run for the hills.

 

[t3mcel]

What do you boyos think of my attempt?

honestly i have no idea what to think. i have no clue how to talk to women, mainly because ive never had any positive reinforcement. usually when i talk to them long enough i usually end up blocked tbh

 

[ihatelife2]

honestly i have no idea what to think. i have no clue how to talk to women, mainly because ive never had any positive reinforcement. usually when i talk to them long enough i usually end up blocked tbh

That is brutal

 

[VanGobbel]

Very beta and lots of mistakes. But at the same time would have been the perfect words if you were Chad.

Chad would never be this insecure in writing even

 

[ihatelife2]

Chad would never be this insecure in writing even

The sad thing is no matter what I wrote she would have said no. My first mistake was not being chad

 

[VanGobbel]

The sad thing is no matter what I wrote she would have said no. My first mistake was not being chad

Hey at least you tried dude, better than 85% of this forum who declare themselves muh eternal mental trucels without ever having approached anyone ever.

 

[ihatelife2]

Hey at least you tried dude, better than 85% of this forum who declare themselves muh eternal mental trucels without ever having approached anyone ever.

Thank you yeah I have tried a lot though mostly foids reject even starting a conversation at all so there would have been no point asking her out but I did try starting a conversation many times, on apps I always bought the paid version but would run out of people in my area within days and not one foid has ever wanted to have a conversation with me apart from a few times where they asked me to send money and I was blocked when I said no

 

[TooSomething]

way too long ..it is over

 

[LusER]

What the fuck. Just say that you are pretty and I like you. This whole para sounds very cucked and soy.

 

[Utnapishtim]

Why torture yourself like this? cringed so hard, this sound so desperate

 

[ihatelife2]

Why torture yourself like this? cringed so hard, this sound so desperate

I AM desperate trust me. That's what happens when you're almost 40 and have never had a gf. I pray that you and other brocels manage to ascend before getting this bad

 

[ihatelife2]

way too long ..it is over

It is very much over

 

[SEWER_MANCER]

Never say sorry and also don't even think about asking out foids if u are a sub 5 male. You just gave them an egoboost and now that presumably 5 looking woman will think that she is some kind of stacy,

 

[SEWER_MANCER]

I AM desperate trust me. That's what happens when you're almost 40 and have never had a gf. I pray that you and other brocels manage to ascend before getting this bad

If you are that desperate just go TO EAST TIMOR BROOOO

 

[SEWER_MANCER]

If you are that desperate just go TO EAST TIMOR BROOOO

And if you somehow dont slay there than u can just say its totally over, and give up on dating I alr gave up on dating and approaching woman

 

[ihatelife2]

What the fuck. Just say that you are pretty and I like you. This whole para sounds very cucked and soy.

Idk how to talk to foids I am retarded

If you are that desperate just go TO EAST TIMOR BROOOO

Is that in Africa

 

[SEWER_MANCER]

Idk how to talk to foids I am retarded

Is that in Africa

No even worse East timoreans are genuinely subhumans they are a tier above prostitutes and a tier below corpses...

 

[ihatelife2]

No even worse East timoreans are genuinely subhumans they are a tier above prostitutes and a tier below corpses...

Interesting

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Write shorter messages and dont be a gentelmen too much. If u dont look like a chad u need to alteast try to not appear ND as fuck and write more casually.

 

[TooSomething]

It is very much over

Beside this, you sounded like an absolute simp there, ngl.

Please don't take this as an insult, but as criticism.

Foids are all fucking sluts and whores, nowadays more than ever because there is no god, no authority to correct them.
They get a pass for everything, so their nature is amplified.

Honestly, in the current society, if the foids does not approach you, don't even bother.

They will approach whom they genuinely find attractive. I am talking about raw, physical attraction.

If you are not that guy, do not even bother. Instead, money maxx, but know that only the extremely rich can get foids to approach them, and then it is about their money and not them.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Honestly, in the current society, if the foids does not approach you, don't even bother.

They will approach whom they genuinely find attractive. I am talking about raw, physical attraction.

If you are not that guy, do not even bother. Instead, money maxx, but know that only the extremely rich can get foids to approach them, and then it is about their money and not them.

This is the best advice that could be given. If women do not even bother to show any interest in you, then to pursue them is a futile endeavor; you would only be wasting your time and amplify your feelings of hopelessness and disappointment. Even if you manage to enter a relationship through the strategy of chasing them, it would inevitably end negatively for you, and the relationship would be miserable.

 

[TooSomething]

This is the best advice that could be given. If women do not even bother to show any interest in you, then to pursue them is a futile endeavor; you would only be wasting your time and amplify your feelings of hopelessness and disappointment. Even if you manage to enter a relationship through the strategy of chasing them, it would inevitably end negatively for you, and the relationship would be miserable.

Yeah, I have failed to elaborate why he should not bother as a sub8.

In the best case scenario he would be a betabuxxer.
A little lower would be the cucked betabuxxer in an "open relationship".

The absolute worst cases would be allegations of sexual harassment, stalking and the like just for approaching a foid, be it offline or online.
And don't forget all the simps / white knight who'd come to M'ladie's rescue and beat him to death even.

It always reminds me if that infamous video where a drunk guy got slapped by a drunk foid and he pushed her, afaik, and then got pummeled and beaten to death by a bunch of white knights.

This is what we sub8s are dealing with. Always remember that because it could save your life one day.
Don't let your hormones control your reasoning, man.

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

Brutal

But the first message seems to be too long

 

[Aventador]

Should of stopped at - Hey you are pretty. Wanted to tell you that i like you for a long time - would've been enough.

Agreed.

But lets be real to all the other comments here- it doesn't matter how long the message was. If he was attractive to her, she would've responded in the same way - mirroring his behavior.

Saying that the message is the reason for rejection is a cope at best, and not understanding blackpill at worst.

 

[Aventador]

Ok I was rejected by a foid online today, here are some of the messages

Me: Hello! I think you are really pretty, no offense, I didn't want to mention it but I guess I am mentioning it and also if you find that strange I totally understand if you want to stop messaging me

What I mean is I have a crush on you and feelings for you, sorry to say that, I have felt this way since January 2026 and I guess I thought that we could start as friends and maybe one day you would like me also, I didn't want to be weird and mention it but it's hard to keep a secret

I did try to let you go in February 2026 but I saw you in my dream and when that happens, it stays with you the whole day and I didn't look for other girls during this time, I'm not really planning to, if you won't be interested (not saying you have to be interested right this moment) I hope I could meet someone like you but it wouldn't be you and I don't know them so I wouldn't be emotionally attached to them

This is probably weird but I wouldn't hurt anyone

Her: Wow I didn't expect that
But I'm totally fine with that

Me: Do you feel like you want to see where it goes and stuff or do you just want to remain friends our whole lives? I won't be mad. Sorry to ask you, I was planning to wait until meeting you irl in a public place

Her: I only want to be friends lol but I like talking to you. I don't know what to say

Me: We can be friends



This is why I am having a breakdown, I really will never ascend, never, I wasn't asking her to be my gf right that moment but she didn't even want to at least be open to the idea. Btw we aren't friends she never contacts me unless I message her and usually leaves on read

What do you boyos think of my attempt?

Im glad you had the balls to try.
Seriously, I know rejection is painful. And yet you still took a risk - I respect that.

On a positive note, now that you know she isn't interested romantically- your mind can let her go, instead of fixating on her.

Im proud of you bro.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Yeah, I have failed to elaborate why he should not bother as a sub8.

In the best case scenario he would be a betabuxxer.
A little lower would be the cucked betabuxxer in an "open relationship".

The absolute worst cases would be allegations of sexual harassment, stalking and the like just for approaching a foid, be it offline or online.
And don't forget all the simps / white knight who'd come to M'ladie's rescue and beat him to death even.

It always reminds me if that infamous video where a drunk guy got slapped by a drunk foid and he pushed her, afaik, and then got pummeled and beaten to death by a bunch of white knights.

This is what we sub8s are dealing with. Always remember that because it could save your life one day.
Don't let your hormones control your reasoning, man.

 

[ihatemyselfihateyou]

Why would you stay friends with her seems like a waste of time you can be the guy she bitchs to about chad fuck that

 

[ihatelife2]

Beside this, you sounded like an absolute simp there, ngl.

Please don't take this as an insult, but as criticism.

Foids are all fucking sluts and whores, nowadays more than ever because there is no god, no authority to correct them.
They get a pass for everything, so their nature is amplified.

Honestly, in the current society, if the foids does not approach you, don't even bother.

They will approach whom they genuinely find attractive. I am talking about raw, physical attraction.

If you are not that guy, do not even bother. Instead, money maxx, but know that only the extremely rich can get foids to approach them, and then it is about their money and not them.

I don't take it as an insult at all brocel I really appreciate you boyos actually trying to help me and tell me what's up. I wasn't aware how bad I sounded until you guys told me and I needed to hear this

Im glad you had the balls to try.
Seriously, I know rejection is painful. And yet you still took a risk - I respect that.

On a positive note, now that you know she isn't interested romantically- your mind can let her go, instead of fixating on her.

Im proud of you bro.

Thank you very much brocel. I'm glad I didn't orbit her because my initial plan was to befriend her for a year before asking her!!! And the result would have been the same!

 

[ihatelife2]

Why would you stay friends with her seems like a waste of time you can be the guy she bitchs to about chad fuck that

I'm not going to engage with her it was just the polite thing to say but she never messages first and usually leaves on read and I have no intention to message her again

 

[Aventador]

Thank you very much brocel. I'm glad I didn't orbit her because my initial plan was to befriend her for a year before asking her!!! And the result would have been the same!

Good stuff! That's some serious character development.

I will say its better to have a large social circle if you can, due to the fact it is easier to approach someone you already know and have a sense if she likes you or not.

But the plan of orbiting her for a year in hopes she likes you, was going to lead to eventual disppointment. Im happy you didn't do that.
She took it well honestly, perhaps you can extend your social circle- never hurts if you can. If you're lucky, perhaps you will meet one of her friends who might be intrested.

 

[subhuman0]

It's long. I don't think attractive guys put more than a few words in there texts. Not that I know much about talking to women.

"Hey wanna fuck?" (optional question mark)