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I only don't know how to go about it. 3 years ago a female study buddy falsely accused and reported me for stalking. As a result I had to go with her together to the dean, and I had to explain the situation to her. They also called my parents about it, which I didn't want in the first place and should have been discussed with me first.
During the talk with the dean, she explained why I was there, and when she pronounced the word stalking to me she made this very dirty face (unconsciously). Then I had to explain how I didn't stalk the girl, but just walked her to her car. We then agreed it was miscommunication, and for them that was the end of that.
But for me it was not the end. Every time I opened my student system, the list of student notes would appear, and on top was the one about the stalking. Every time I logged in you could see the text "...stalking a fellow student" on the screen. As a result I felt bad about logging into my student system, and I would make sure I was alone and no other students were around.
Apart from that, she also told other students about the stalking. I got cold faces from people and nobody looked at me or treated me normally anymore, except for one girl. Suddenly people whom I had known for years changed there attitude against me. Due to stress and isolation I developed psychosis and ended up in a mental hospital for months, where they forced 7 sessions of electroshock therapy on me (the next year I got 7 more, even though I protested). Nobody from the university visited me or send me a card. Now I have been on forced penfluridol for almost a year and have to visit a psychiatrist weekly.
Even after 3 years I still feel the results of what happened, so I am thinking of going to a confidence person at my university and filing a complaint for psychological harassment from a faculty member. I am only afraid to go. I feel like as a guy I won't get taken serious, because they always assume girls are in the right if they accuse someone. Also the university has completely shattered my confidence, even after making so much effort in my study achievements for many years. The way the university treated me was incredibly rude. Just because a girl makes an accusation they want to protect her, and they don't consider the emotions of the guy. For me this caused lasting psychological trauma. Meanwhile the university profiles themself as being inclusive and caring about diversity. Everytime I see this I feel like they are hypocrites. They act like judge, jury and executioner. They can just call me in and interrogate me without any proof for anything, just because a girls says something. In this case I also invested a lot of effort helping this girl, and all I get back from my university is being stigmatized.
After 3 years I feel a lot of anger about it, but I don't know what to do. Any normie would sue the university if their ego perceived a slight like this. The best thing I can do is to vent my story here, on an incel form, which unironically is the only safe place where I can share this without being assumed I am in the wrong or being kicked down.
During the talk with the dean, she explained why I was there, and when she pronounced the word stalking to me she made this very dirty face (unconsciously). Then I had to explain how I didn't stalk the girl, but just walked her to her car. We then agreed it was miscommunication, and for them that was the end of that.
But for me it was not the end. Every time I opened my student system, the list of student notes would appear, and on top was the one about the stalking. Every time I logged in you could see the text "...stalking a fellow student" on the screen. As a result I felt bad about logging into my student system, and I would make sure I was alone and no other students were around.
Apart from that, she also told other students about the stalking. I got cold faces from people and nobody looked at me or treated me normally anymore, except for one girl. Suddenly people whom I had known for years changed there attitude against me. Due to stress and isolation I developed psychosis and ended up in a mental hospital for months, where they forced 7 sessions of electroshock therapy on me (the next year I got 7 more, even though I protested). Nobody from the university visited me or send me a card. Now I have been on forced penfluridol for almost a year and have to visit a psychiatrist weekly.
Even after 3 years I still feel the results of what happened, so I am thinking of going to a confidence person at my university and filing a complaint for psychological harassment from a faculty member. I am only afraid to go. I feel like as a guy I won't get taken serious, because they always assume girls are in the right if they accuse someone. Also the university has completely shattered my confidence, even after making so much effort in my study achievements for many years. The way the university treated me was incredibly rude. Just because a girl makes an accusation they want to protect her, and they don't consider the emotions of the guy. For me this caused lasting psychological trauma. Meanwhile the university profiles themself as being inclusive and caring about diversity. Everytime I see this I feel like they are hypocrites. They act like judge, jury and executioner. They can just call me in and interrogate me without any proof for anything, just because a girls says something. In this case I also invested a lot of effort helping this girl, and all I get back from my university is being stigmatized.
After 3 years I feel a lot of anger about it, but I don't know what to do. Any normie would sue the university if their ego perceived a slight like this. The best thing I can do is to vent my story here, on an incel form, which unironically is the only safe place where I can share this without being assumed I am in the wrong or being kicked down.
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