SuicideFuel "I want a man who has goals in life"

[Lobo]

Please tell me: How does that statement make you feel? In detail preferably.

For me personally, it makes me feel like they're standing on my neck. I don't want a new boss. What if my goal in life is to just be myself fully and be happy about it no matter what people think of me, where I am and what I'm doing, without a single worry about the future?

What if I'm financially sufficient and I just let the world take me where it wants to? Maybe I'll go visit a specific city in a specific country just to eat a restaurant. Maybe the next day I wanna lay in bed all day and watch Netflix. And the next drive around the city. Maybe the idea of a certain goal that'll help humanity or other people, whatever, seems foolish and naive to me.

What if I don't give a flying fuck about making new friends and going to parties or cringe social reunions?

What if I prefer to be alone and quiet just observing my surroundings for no reason other than the very act of observation?

What if I don't want to make compromises in some way or another because your father doesn't like men who aren't buff and play videogames and I'm skinny and like videogames so now I gotta make up for it somehow or just let him detest me and I gotta put my guard up and feel down every time I have to be around him so he doesn't think I don't care what his wishes are? And yes, I don't care about his approval but it doesn't matter because I'm still expected to.

Chad or not, some of us are not built for the demands of a relationship, which aren't actually fair or commendable nor reasonable to begin with, but we gotta abide by them because OTHER people want us to. Always controlled. We are so controlled we think THROUGH the pathways others' carved for us and make "our own" decisions through them. Nigh-impossible to be free in today's world.

 

[Clown]

By goal, they mean „wanting to become financially successful“, they don’t mean a man that wants to become the best world of Warcraft player

 

[wereq]

Please tell me: How does that statement make you feel? In detail preferably.

Virtue signaling. They just want a hot guy.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

"No one owes you any support honey".

 

[LeFrenchCel]

"I want you to be successful so I can pump money from you, marry you, stay for a bit, then divorce to take all of the money you still have so I can finally leave with my tyrone bf"

 

[Lobo]

By goal, they mean „wanting to become financially successful“, they don’t mean a man that wants to become the best world of Warcraft player

That's just the medium though. They want expensive trips, food, romantic dates, makeup, designer clothes, and cool spots to take pictures in so they can flaunt it to their friends on Instagram.

Every single whore from a well-off family I went to middle school and high school with literally goes to a few different cities in Europe and takes the exact same kind of pictures. Not one of them breaks the mold. I literally can't help myself but laugh at these "Europe vibes" reels as if there was actually anything special about it. "Oh look I went to Europe I'm wearing a long coat eating bread and cheese and drinking wine my life is so enviable I'm so original!"

 

[Orzmund]

I really don't care. I am a NEET, I am retired. I am a god and a beast.

 

[Paul Bernardo]

Chad doesn't need any of that... he'll still fuck the same girl who wants someone with goals

 

[xXnobodyXx]

The spider is born and when adult already knows how to be a spider, man is the only animal who have not strong wired nature in them, we are very different, dating is not for everybody, happiness is not for everybody, success is not for everybody, the best we can do is do our best, besides needing food, shelter and be warm we don't necessarily share any traces with other humans, free yourself from the good or bad definitions others have cast upon you, be your own scale and live by your own definitions, a dog who lives his whole life trying to live like a fish is doomed to be miserable

 

[xXnobodyXx]

Chad doesn't need any of that... he'll still fuck the same girl who wants someone with goals

What the nature of woman craves is to have a good beta cuck to provide for them while they can still cheat with tyone, the perfect scenario for a woman, what makes them almost horny for just imagining it, is to make a beta rich man raise tyrone's son.

 

[I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss]

man is the only animal who have not strong wired nature in them, we are very different

I'd wager we are not much different from animals, many of us succumb to the natural need of sex if it can not by satiated by wedlock (by paying an escort, having a gf). Only a handful of people stand firm.

free yourself from the good or bad definitions others have cast upon you,

I am religious, without religion I wouldn't be able to distinguish between bad and good in the first place. As disgusting as it is, chances are I would have turned into a faggot for a lack of morals.
You may not agree with me on this statement as it's likely as a Westerner yourself you abhor religion, but religion is my freedom.
Freeing myself from it would mean losing the ability to distinguish between bad & good ... utlimately, degenerating.

a dog who lives his whole life trying to live like a fish is doomed to be miserable

This I agree with.

 

[xXnobodyXx]

I'd wager we are not much different from animals, many of us succumb to the natural need of sex if it can not by satiated by wedlock (by paying an escort, having a gf). Only a handful of people stand firm.


I am religious, without religion I wouldn't be able to distinguish between bad and good in the first place. As disgusting as it is, chances are I would have turned into a faggot for a lack of morals.
You may not agree with me on this statement as it's likely as a Westerner yourself you abhor religion, but religion is my freedom.
Freeing myself from it would mean losing the ability to distinguish between bad & good ... utlimately, degenerating.


This I agree with.

I know humans have a nature for the sake of my argument I said they don't, my views are kind complex on it, for me not every human is human, human in the sense of a thinking and self conscious being, a rational being(will not explain further my views on it.
Religion is not my thing, still, I believe in a higher power, anything is better than simply being a nihilist and being as hedonic as you can be, this culture is a plague and the people are passing their whole lives without a single moment of reflection, a true amoral society

 

[Izayacel]

Who dafuq Cares what Woman want lol

 

[I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss]

I know humans have a nature for the sake of my argument I said they don't, my views are kind complex on it, for me not every human is human, human in the sense of a thinking and self conscious being, a rational being(will not explain further my views on it.
Religion is not my thing, still, I believe in a higher power, anything is better than simply being a nihilist and being as hedonic as you can be, this culture is a plague and the people are passing their whole lives without a single moment of reflection, a true amoral society

Kinda unfortunate you don't want to expand on your thinking.
I often question myself on whether I am human or cattle, this happens often when I indulge into self pleasure.

Please tell me: How does that statement make you feel? In detail preferably.

For me personally, it makes me feel like they're standing on my neck. I don't want a new boss. What if my goal in life is to just be myself fully and be happy about it no matter what people think of me, where I am and what I'm doing, without a single worry about the future?

What if I'm financially sufficient and I just let the world take me where it wants to? Maybe I'll go visit a specific city in a specific country just to eat a restaurant. Maybe the next day I wanna lay in bed all day and watch Netflix. And the next drive around the city. Maybe the idea of a certain goal that'll help humanity or other people, whatever, seems foolish and naive to me.

What if I don't give a flying fuck about making new friends and going to parties or cringe social reunions?

What if I prefer to be alone and quiet just observing my surroundings for no reason other than the very act of observation?

What if I don't want to make compromises in some way or another because your father doesn't like men who aren't buff and play videogames and I'm skinny and like videogames so now I gotta make up for it somehow or just let him detest me and I gotta put my guard up and feel down every time I have to be around him so he doesn't think I don't care what his wishes are? And yes, I don't care about his approval but it doesn't matter because I'm still expected to.

Chad or not, some of us are not built for the demands of a relationship, which aren't actually fair or commendable nor reasonable to begin with, but we gotta abide by them because OTHER people want us to. Always controlled. We are so controlled we think THROUGH the pathways others' carved for us and make "our own" decisions through them. Nigh-impossible to be free in today's world.

What's the motive behind these questions ? are you arranged marriage maxxing ?
That's a tricky question as you'd never answer honestly to evade bans.

Here's my take
Females who like the energetic life wouldn't settle with an unattractive guy who isn't willing to donate his paycheck, unless you are a Chad then she'd be willing to sacrifice her own wellbeing for yours, as her brain perceives that her offspring would gain a net genetical advantage over others' offspring.

If you aren't conventionally attractive, more will be expected from you. Enough is simply not enough.
If you are conventionally attractive, you can get by doing the bare minimum.

Imo, if you are trully offered an arranged marriage, you should follow through. So that your mind stops lusting over that experience.

 

[turbosperg]

How does that statement make you feel?

"I want a man who has goals in life"

Goals in life = will purchase house, car and stuff for the foid to steal through divorce-rape.

 

[IncelKing]

I really don't care. I am a NEET, I am retired. I am a god and a beast.

How did you get to the position where you can NEET? Did you make huge amount of savings from careER?

 

[Orzmund]

How did you get to the position where you can NEET? Did you make huge amount of savings from careER?

I saved some money and NEETed for a year, but now I must work and work I shall!

 

[Saint Cho]

translating foidspeak into english:

I want a rich guy.

 

[IncelKing]

I saved some money and NEETed for a year, but now I must work and work I shall!

With my current savings I can also NEET for a year but I’d rather work a few more years and save up enough money so that when I do NEET, I can NEET for a few years at a stretch

 

[Orzmund]

With my current savings I can also NEET for a year but I’d rather work a few more years and save up enough money so that when I do NEET, I can NEET for a few years at a stretch

Nice

 

[Michael15651]

Please tell me: How does that statement make you feel? In detail preferably.

For me personally, it makes me feel like they're standing on my neck. I don't want a new boss. What if my goal in life is to just be myself fully and be happy about it no matter what people think of me, where I am and what I'm doing, without a single worry about the future?

What if I'm financially sufficient and I just let the world take me where it wants to? Maybe I'll go visit a specific city in a specific country just to eat a restaurant. Maybe the next day I wanna lay in bed all day and watch Netflix. And the next drive around the city. Maybe the idea of a certain goal that'll help humanity or other people, whatever, seems foolish and naive to me.

What if I don't give a flying fuck about making new friends and going to parties or cringe social reunions?

What if I prefer to be alone and quiet just observing my surroundings for no reason other than the very act of observation?

What if I don't want to make compromises in some way or another because your father doesn't like men who aren't buff and play videogames and I'm skinny and like videogames so now I gotta make up for it somehow or just let him detest me and I gotta put my guard up and feel down every time I have to be around him so he doesn't think I don't care what his wishes are? And yes, I don't care about his approval but it doesn't matter because I'm still expected to.

Chad or not, some of us are not built for the demands of a relationship, which aren't actually fair or commendable nor reasonable to begin with, but we gotta abide by them because OTHER people want us to. Always controlled. We are so controlled we think THROUGH the pathways others' carved for us and make "our own" decisions through them. Nigh-impossible to be free in today's world.

This is exactly why I could never enter a relationship to begin with. There is too many expectations and demands in a world that’s full of competition.

You will never keep up. There will always be someone better than you and she will quickly realize that.