Yeah echoing what everyone else said you messed up. They don't invite strange new men over to their apartment for story hour.
It's Over I tried out dating again… this one hurt me pretty bad.
Just leave all this shit behind. If it was already getting bad when my age group was trying all this stuff, it's complete and total hell now. I know men who met on dating apps, had 5 years worth of marriage, spent all their money and went into deep depression and then ended up right back at ALONE likely FOREVER. And they weren't even Incel tier men. So why the fuck ANYONE who has experienced this life more or less from the start would continue to try is beyond me. Just continue doing good things like helping your parents build that shed and find a way to live out the rest of your years relatively happy.
Fakecel tbh. You're a mentalcel. Girls don't like nice guys, be mean and masculine and don't be soft and you'll get laid. Stop being a pussy. I mean in a perfect word I'd wanna be soft and kind too, but we don't live in a perfect world. We live in a society. We're men and we gotta be tough.TW: pseudo bragging, high octane suicide fuel
So I was gone for a while if anybody has noticed.
Initially it was because I was wageslaving hard with my two jobs while helping my father build his (enormous) shed on my parents property during the weekends. They know I have no relationship so they take it for granted that I spend the weekends helping them out.
So I was just to exhausted to participate in this forum in a creative manner.
Funnily, the work progressed good and gave me a feeling of accomplishment. Some part of my reptile brain used this to convince me to try dating again by giving me false hope.
I re-installed tinder and some other dating aps and started swiping. I added my best photo (the one where the light is such that it hides my ace scars somewhat).
I also wrote a bio were I, obviously satirically, pretended to be some millionaire who tames sharks as a hobby and teachers them to give yoga lessons to old people. (I know its super cringe but that’s your brain on hopeium, also it will be relevant later on).
This went good with the work since I could do it on the side.
I had several non-bot matches with which I had good rapport (talking about hobby’s and my teaching job) before they just stopped responding (nothing new here).
So then there was one girl that kept talking to me became she found my bio funny and wanted to meet one of those yoga-sharks. She knew it was just a joke but we kept running with it. She was cute, a 6/10 if she lost some weight, but I was not thinking about that then because I was just happy about the situation.
Two weeks ago we met for a date in a local restaurant (I initiated carefully) and it went verry good. We talked and joked around for hours (she kept insisting on seeing a yoga shark, but I avoided). Also, we discussed our mutual interest for urban exploring.
At the evening, she had the idea of us going to an old industrial site at the city edge (I live in a harbor city with many silos and processing buildings). However, before that she insisted we go to her place so she could change.
She actually invited me (am man she had personally met just 5 hours ago) into her otherwise empty apartment and gave me something to drink while she was changing in her room. I’m just mentioning that to prove that I don’t give off creepy murder vibes.
So after that we went exploring (it was already dark) and at no point did it seem that she was afraid of me.
We separated and agreed to meet again the next week.
We chatted every day until then and she kept asking about this yoga shark. So I had an idea:
The company I’m working for knows another company that creates custom made plush animals/things for advertising purposes. You could choose some plush animal (a shark, for example) and then embroider some text or logo on it.
I ordered a “certified yoga shark” but it would arrive after our next date.
The next date (last weekend) also went pretty good and she was excited when I vaguely implied her that one of my sharks is on its way to the city (I know, super cringe). We again agreed to meet the following weekend (last weekend).
However, over the following days she grew distant and answered slower and with fewer words.
I tried not to be pushy but the evening before our scheduled date I had to know if she was still down to it.
She did not answer but I went to the restaurant (agreed upon time and place) regardless hoping she would show up.
Well, she did not and did not write anything. I wrote her one last message asking her if she is alright. However, still radio silence.
Part of my wants to go to her place and confront her but it’s a no-win situation.
The shark arrived just now and is sitting on my desk while I’m writing this. Its really cute but I will throw it away for obvious reasons.
This hurt my especially bad, it really feels like a permanent punch in the gut. Eve my coworker asked me if I was ok. I said I was just tired.
I’m not even angry at her (tho I should be) I’m just vaguely angry at myself for giving in to false hope.
If I did not have this forum to vent I would probably kill myself.
Z
She was interested in him in the first place. If he was tougher he could've probably fucked her at least once. He's probably too non NT to do so unfortunately.
Damn. Brutal.
Look at the bright side, if you can almost succeed, you can eventually succeed.
In my experience (not in dating) this second success tend to be come up wayyy later than expected for whatever fucking reason though
Look at the bright side, if you can almost succeed, you can eventually succeed.
In my experience (not in dating) this second success tend to be come up wayyy later than expected for whatever fucking reason though
I wanna know as well
A
If she wanted to hang out with you multiple times she obviously didn’t think you were that ugly?
Your were actually lucky that such thing went that further.TW: pseudo bragging, high octane suicide fuel
So I was gone for a while if anybody has noticed.
Initially it was because I was wageslaving hard with my two jobs while helping my father build his (enormous) shed on my parents property during the weekends. They know I have no relationship so they take it for granted that I spend the weekends helping them out.
So I was just to exhausted to participate in this forum in a creative manner.
Funnily, the work progressed good and gave me a feeling of accomplishment. Some part of my reptile brain used this to convince me to try dating again by giving me false hope.
I re-installed tinder and some other dating aps and started swiping. I added my best photo (the one where the light is such that it hides my ace scars somewhat).
I also wrote a bio were I, obviously satirically, pretended to be some millionaire who tames sharks as a hobby and teachers them to give yoga lessons to old people. (I know its super cringe but that’s your brain on hopeium, also it will be relevant later on).
This went good with the work since I could do it on the side.
I had several non-bot matches with which I had good rapport (talking about hobby’s and my teaching job) before they just stopped responding (nothing new here).
So then there was one girl that kept talking to me became she found my bio funny and wanted to meet one of those yoga-sharks. She knew it was just a joke but we kept running with it. She was cute, a 6/10 if she lost some weight, but I was not thinking about that then because I was just happy about the situation.
Two weeks ago we met for a date in a local restaurant (I initiated carefully) and it went verry good. We talked and joked around for hours (she kept insisting on seeing a yoga shark, but I avoided). Also, we discussed our mutual interest for urban exploring.
At the evening, she had the idea of us going to an old industrial site at the city edge (I live in a harbor city with many silos and processing buildings). However, before that she insisted we go to her place so she could change.
She actually invited me (am man she had personally met just 5 hours ago) into her otherwise empty apartment and gave me something to drink while she was changing in her room. I’m just mentioning that to prove that I don’t give off creepy murder vibes.
So after that we went exploring (it was already dark) and at no point did it seem that she was afraid of me.
We separated and agreed to meet again the next week.
We chatted every day until then and she kept asking about this yoga shark. So I had an idea:
The company I’m working for knows another company that creates custom made plush animals/things for advertising purposes. You could choose some plush animal (a shark, for example) and then embroider some text or logo on it.
I ordered a “certified yoga shark” but it would arrive after our next date.
The next date (last weekend) also went pretty good and she was excited when I vaguely implied her that one of my sharks is on its way to the city (I know, super cringe). We again agreed to meet the following weekend (last weekend).
However, over the following days she grew distant and answered slower and with fewer words.
I tried not to be pushy but the evening before our scheduled date I had to know if she was still down to it.
She did not answer but I went to the restaurant (agreed upon time and place) regardless hoping she would show up.
Well, she did not and did not write anything. I wrote her one last message asking her if she is alright. However, still radio silence.
Part of my wants to go to her place and confront her but it’s a no-win situation.
The shark arrived just now and is sitting on my desk while I’m writing this. Its really cute but I will throw it away for obvious reasons.
This hurt my especially bad, it really feels like a permanent punch in the gut. Eve my coworker asked me if I was ok. I said I was just tired.
I’m not even angry at her (tho I should be) I’m just vaguely angry at myself for giving in to false hope.
If I did not have this forum to vent I would probably kill myself.
Incels shouldnt use dating apps. Foids have higher standards there due to the amount of options.
You should try with a co-worker or ex-classmates though.
Dating app foids usually ignore kek.
K
This made me quite sad. You put in the effort to meet this girl, tried to form a rapport with her which, judging by the fact that you chatted every day, seemed to have succeeded. Then over time she just ends up ignoring you. Women are absolutely fucking cold. If I ignored someone like that, I’d feel absolutely guilty that I didn’t at least tell them respectfully as possible that I wanted to move on and not talk to them anymore. This bitch just slowly blanked you.
This seems to happen all the time to men for some reason and I can’t understand it.
This seems to happen all the time to men for some reason and I can’t understand it.
happened to me twice - essentilly, the only 2 times in my life I tried asking women out. Both agreed by the way, but probably out of pity or common politeness. I'll probably just stop trying
This is the norm herevolcels.is
I understand the sentiment, bro but I’m not gong silently into the night. Something will happen at the end of this road. I will not die a 80 year old virgin.
There is definitely a mental factor at play but I’m not exactly shimming in OLD matches...
I agree with the rest tho.
Thank you, but I’m not getting any prettier with age. The Norwood reaper is already reaching for me.
Nigga you WHERE AT THE HARPIES NEST !!!!!!!
This is Not some Anime Shit where the foid Is shy and IS Happy to have you there, you my nigga missed a critical escalation Point ( trying to fuck her ) the fact that you got into her Apartment is Impressive , but You Not Putting 1 + 1 togethER and be aggresive at that Moment , you fucked Up.
@Iamnothere000
This is Not some Anime Shit where the foid Is shy and IS Happy to have you there, you my nigga missed a critical escalation Point ( trying to fuck her ) the fact that you got into her Apartment is Impressive , but You Not Putting 1 + 1 togethER and be aggresive at that Moment , you fucked Up.
@Iamnothere000
I seriously wanna know how you be aggresive in that situation. Since you cant really just kiss her or ask for sex outright
Mogs the shit out of me, but if you aren't fucking on the first date it's always over. Foids have 0 attention span, and if they haven't fucked you, they won't remember you at all.
Those guys telling me to be more aggressive imagine me doing something like that:
Seriously, why is everyone turning into a fucking soccer fan telling me what I should have done in that situation?
“HURHUR, she lost interest because you did not fistfuck her asshole within the first 0.2354 seconds of meeting her, bro.”
Ok. I understand this very well. Hence I'm not virgin.I understand the sentiment, bro but I’m not gong silently into the night. Something will happen at the end of this road. I will not die a 80 year old virgin.
Yes this is what they like, but Stacy and Becky today, only from Chad.Those guys telling me to be more aggressive imagine me doing something like that:
Btw what is this a clip from?
That’s the point. Only Chad can be sexually aggressive…
“365 Days” (2020). its basically “Fifty shades of gray” on steroids…
I see.
B
Please don't waste your energy on these worthless holes, brocel. Continue your creative writing. You have talent.
H
So 3/10 (before weight gain) was interested, but then ghosted you. Completely normal. Happens all the time everywhere. Foids have no shame, nor any respect. You know what plush toys are good for? Planting a bomb in minecraft.
this is the most likely possibility. niggas always forget that foids have infinite options at their disposal
Meanwhile no woman has ever looked at me. Meanwhile they look at you
Of course it's in this universe
Of course it's in this universe
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