Say you are on a date with a girl. This girl considers herself to be a strong, independant, liberated feminist.
You are sitting with her on a bench by the sea. You get closer to her and you decide to ask her if she wants to make out with you. She politely declines by saying that you don't match because your opinions are different.
She doesn't cut you off though so you negotiate with her. You tell her that you feel rejected and that she can just take it easy. She eventually agrees and she leans over for kissing.
You meet with her again and she has regretted it. She tells you that you were pressuring her too much and she can't function properly under pressure. She is trying to put all blame on you.
Now, if she wants to be a strong and liberated feminist then she should learn to take responsibility. She can just say that she was stupid or admit she made a mistake.
According to feminism, women are better than men. If the roles were reversed and it was a girl trying to seduce a guy then the guy would cut her off from the start. In this situation though, were the girl is supposed to be a strong and independant woman, she let her incel date talk her into making out. She didn't tell him to fuck off and end it the moment he tried to negotiate about it.
Since she didn't have the necessary backbone to push him away, then she is clearly not the strong and liberated woman she consideres herself to be and she is just a scared little girl. Either admit you made a mistake, no big deal, or admit that you lack the necessary strength of character to push a guy away.
By telling the dude off and trying to force the blame on him you exhibit defensive behavior and you are indirectly admitting that you are indeed a frightened girl that lacks backbone and can't take responsibitly for her actions. Am I wrong here?
You are sitting with her on a bench by the sea. You get closer to her and you decide to ask her if she wants to make out with you. She politely declines by saying that you don't match because your opinions are different.
She doesn't cut you off though so you negotiate with her. You tell her that you feel rejected and that she can just take it easy. She eventually agrees and she leans over for kissing.
You meet with her again and she has regretted it. She tells you that you were pressuring her too much and she can't function properly under pressure. She is trying to put all blame on you.
Now, if she wants to be a strong and liberated feminist then she should learn to take responsibility. She can just say that she was stupid or admit she made a mistake.
According to feminism, women are better than men. If the roles were reversed and it was a girl trying to seduce a guy then the guy would cut her off from the start. In this situation though, were the girl is supposed to be a strong and independant woman, she let her incel date talk her into making out. She didn't tell him to fuck off and end it the moment he tried to negotiate about it.
Since she didn't have the necessary backbone to push him away, then she is clearly not the strong and liberated woman she consideres herself to be and she is just a scared little girl. Either admit you made a mistake, no big deal, or admit that you lack the necessary strength of character to push a guy away.
By telling the dude off and trying to force the blame on him you exhibit defensive behavior and you are indirectly admitting that you are indeed a frightened girl that lacks backbone and can't take responsibitly for her actions. Am I wrong here?
