Serious I think I'm going to feel inclined to kill myself if I don't get my oneitis. Is that crazy?

[WhyMe?]

I'm only 22 but it feels like my life and sanity depends on her. That's how deep it's gone. I've been pining over her for a year and a half, while she had a boyfriend too. My mood depends basically on how I perceive she is perceiving me at that given moment. How fucking crazy is that ?

 

[Mickeyonacid]

J F L

 

[Septembercel]

It's over.
All foids are the same in the end, same thing happened to me a few years back.
She rejected me.

 

[FlyoverState]

Remember to fix some of your ERrors first.

 

[WhyMe?]

Remember to fix some of your ERrors first.

I don't have any desire to kill other people. JFL if you do. Going ER is actually bluepilled because it's with the assumption that life wronged you in some way aka others did. When true blackpilled consciouseness is realizing you are the fault. Your subhumanity doesn't cut the standards.

 

[Septembercel]

I don't have any desire to kill other people. JFL if you do. Going ER is actually bluepilled because it's with the assumption that life wronged you in some way aka others did. When true blackpilled consciouseness is realizing you are the fault. Your subhumanity doesn't cut the standards.

How can it be ones fault to be subhuman though? I did not choose to be born.

 

[StormlitAqua]

The best advice I can give is to think of her getting railed by her BF and how inferior you are compared to him.

Stop. Think. He's likely taller and/or better looking than you. He touches her face, shoulders, breasts, and crotch and all you get to touch is yourself. She's used up now. Even if she was with you, she'd long for the days of having him back because you are inferior. You cannot possibly compete with any of the BFs she's had before, and she can no longer pairbond anyway. She's not worthy of anyone now, but society will still give her whatever she wants (thx feminism), and that's far more than you can offer.

This didn't work for my most recent one because she was a virgin (unsure if she'd even had a BF before, never asked), but it has worked in the past with other girls for me.

Now if this doesn't work, or at best works for a day, you now realize that oneitis is a disease. It's like having a broken finger... you can just take painkillers all day to stop the pain, or you can go to the hospital and get it fixed. The solution I present above are the painkillers. They might work, but for how long? You need to get the surgery, and the surgery in this case is really just finding a new, virgin thot or complete isolation (if possible) from the girl.

 

[WhyMe?]

How can it be ones fault to be subhuman though? I did not choose to be born.

Right. With that logic, its not others fault either. The ONLY people you could logically kill is your parents cause they created you, and this is only if they're both subhumans. If they're both decent then they didn't have you out of poor judgement. You just got fucked up somehow

 

[Septembercel]

Right. With that logic, its not others fault either. The ONLY people you could logically kill is your parents cause they created you, and this is only if they're both subhumans. If they're both decent then they didn't have you out of poor judgement. You just got fucked up somehow

I understand. However I just said you cant really blame yourself for being subhuman, unless you can do something about it.

 

[ColdPillow]

It's just fucking over man. There's no godamn solid advice any one of us can give you because women are complicated assholes that overcomplicate everything. Men will never run out of problems with women. The problems women bring is the only infinite thing in the universe.

Give up, you will never get your oneitis. You might as well end yourself now. We all might as well go ER tbh.

 

[WhyMe?]

The best advice I can give is to think of her getting railed by her BF and how inferior you are compared to him.

Stop. Think. He's likely taller and/or better looking than you. He touches her face, shoulders, breasts, and crotch and all you get to touch is yourself. She's used up now. Even if she was with you, she'd long for the days of having him back because you are inferior. You cannot possibly compete with any of the BFs she's had before, and she can no longer pairbond anyway. She's not worthy of anyone now, but society will still give her whatever she wants (thx feminism), and that's far more than you can offer.

This didn't work for my most recent one because she was a virgin (unsure if she'd even had a BF before, never asked), but it has worked in the past with other girls for me.

Now if this doesn't work, or at best works for a day, you now realize that oneitis is a disease. It's like having a broken finger... you can just take painkillers all day to stop the pain, or you can go to the hospital and get it fixed. The solution I present above are the painkillers. They might work, but for how long? You need to get the surgery, and the surgery in this case is really just finding a new, virgin thot or complete isolation (if possible) from the girl.

Really good advice

I think the problem is her bf is roughly on par with me in looks. Both 4.5-5. So that's giving me false hope. I could be underrating him though and overrating myself, idk

 

[blackoutwhitein3]

Same.

 

[Frottbott]

What you're missing is that her boyfriend is an abusive asshole, low IQ, and treats her like a dumpster/toilet, while you want to treat her nicely.

Basically, girls are looking for the guy who stabbed his teddibear as a kid, instead of wanting to hug it. The guy who wanted to torture the kitty, instead of being nice to it.

But for real dude, cool it with this oneitis talk. It does sound insane and hurts our reputation. I love my soulmate dude, and she fucks 45 year old severely obese dumbfuck bank clerks and shit. She looks like a female version of me to a T, she believes in the premise of 'Twin Flames,' which means you have a twin/soul mate meant for you, I am her identical match, and she still rejects me every time.

 

[lntestine]

give it up and try again maybe with an uglier girl

 

[11gaijin]

yes

 

[mlcurrycel]

Sabine

 

[Mickeyonacid]

Really good advice

I think the problem is her bf is roughly on par with me in looks. Both 4.5-5. So that's giving me false hope. I could be underrating him though and overrating myself, idk

Here's a thought: Your oneitis doesn't love you.
She has a boyfriend. They probably fuck.
If she loved you, she would leave her boyfriend for you.
Sure, there might be small hints here and there that she likes you the way you like her, but the idea that women drop small hints is absolute cope. If your oneitis loved you the way you loved her, she would do everything in her power to insert herself in your everyday life. But she doesn't, does she? Even if she does pay a lot of attention to you, which she doesn't, she's likely shit testing her boyfriend.

You do not enter your crush's mind when she's getting pounded by her boyfriend. You do not enter her mind when they cuddle afterwards. Deal with it. MOVE ON.

 

[StormlitAqua]

Really good advice

I think the problem is her bf is roughly on par with me in looks. Both 4.5-5. So that's giving me false hope. I could be underrating him though and overrating myself, idk

I'd need photo evidence to believe that. Unless otherwise told, I have to assume that he mogs you. The blackpill is right too many times to believe otherwise without proof. Don't take this as me soliciting photos from you (unless you really want to potentially dox yourself JFL @ picposters on an incel forum), just take this as me using experience to justify the truth.

 

[Deleted member 10234]

I'm only 22 but it feels like my life and sanity depends on her. That's how deep it's gone. I've been pining over her for a year and a half, while she had a boyfriend too. My mood depends basically on how I perceive she is perceiving me at that given moment. How fucking crazy is that ?

Ghost her man. Torture isn't worth it.

Here's a thought: Your oneitis doesn't love you.
She has a boyfriend. They probably fuck.
If she loved you, she would leave her boyfriend for you.
Sure, there might be small hints here and there that she likes you the way you like her, but the idea that women drop small hints is absolute cope. If your oneitis loved you the way you loved her, she would do everything in her power to insert herself in your everyday life. But she doesn't, does she? Even if she does pay a lot of attention to you, which she doesn't, she's likely shit testing her boyfriend.

You do not enter your crush's mind when she's getting pounded by her boyfriend. You do not enter her mind when they cuddle afterwards. Deal with it. MOVE ON.

Women do drop hints. They do it because its required for their survival. She needs him as an orbiter. In caveman times women who had multiple orbiters were more likely to survive.

 

[acnescarcel]

[its over fuel]