I think I'm a volcel tbh

[Deleted member 7448]

Sure, the balding, the acne, the fat and the myriad of other problems certainly keep me celibate.

But I am a volcel. I hate leaving the house or even my bed, I hate talking to people. The few people that ever tried to talk to me in my life I ended up ghosting or ignoring from the get go. Never had any friends and never wanted any, even old acquaintances that I knew from school or other such things I ended up either ghosting or burning bridges if they did contact me. Even during uni or school, when invited to events where everybody in the class goes like prom or other such things I dodged those and never went.

I am a volcel because I hate interacting with people and I avoid everyone I meet. Sure, I think about it sometimes how I'm a huge loser and that I'll regret being such a loner later in life, how I'll lead a totally alone existence when my parents die, how they will feel sorry for me seeing me all alone. But I just don't like being around people.

 

[HighTGymcel]

Being a mentalcel and balding is truecel potential tbh

 

[Deleted member 6753]

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[Joelossus]

I can relate, being an avoidant person is the worst thing that can possibly happen to you, if your're ugly ngl.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I ghosted all my old irl """"""friends"""""" as well, but the only real way to figure out whether or not you're volcel is to ask yourself whether or not this is what you really want. My family thinks that I simply don't care about forming relationships with other people, and I'm content to allow them to believe that, but the truth is that I just really struggle to relate to people well enough to make friends, and my looks(as well as social retardation to a lesser extent) make it impossible for me to get a girlfriend.

For instance, I used to tell myself that I didn't like people, but I don't think there was ever a point where I actually fooled myself well enough into believing it. The reality is that I'm terrified of others, how they might think less of me, how they view me in comparison to their other friends, and of them rejecting me. In my case the feeling of being close to others hurts more than loneliness, which is why I used to try and convince myself that this life is what I wanted, but ultimately none of it really feels like much of a choice.

 

[thelonewanderer]

You're rejecting others before they can reject you. I do the same, but I don't think that makes you volcel.

 

[HueHueBr]

The only way to know is if you resolve to leave the comfort zone, improve appearance, lose weight and try. If you can not after a few years of effort, then yes you can be considered incel.

 

[Hate_my_life]

You're rejecting others before they can reject you. I do the same, but I don't think that makes you volcel.

"Insanity is trying the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - AE

 

[Deleted member 8206]

I ghosted all my old irl """"""friends"""""" as well, but the only real way to figure out whether or not you're volcel is to ask yourself whether or not this is what you really want. My family thinks that I simply don't care about forming relationships with other people, and I'm content to allow them to believe that, but the truth is that I just really struggle to relate to people well enough to make friends, and my looks(as well as social retardation to a lesser extent) make it impossible for me to get a girlfriend.

For instance, I used to tell myself that I didn't like people, but I don't think there was ever a point where I actually fooled myself well enough into believing it. The reality is that I'm terrified of others, how they might think less of me, how they view me in comparison to their other friends, and of them rejecting me. In my case the feeling of being close to others hurts more than loneliness, which is why I used to try and convince myself that this life is what I wanted, but ultimately none of it really feels like much of a choice.

Dammit thats brutal tbh, i know the feeling of seeing yourself as inferior compared to other people your friend knows. I think possible way to overcome this is finding someone with 0 friends too, though there is still many other problems that you mentioned.

 

[BrettyBoy]

Approaching is worth a try.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I ghosted all my old irl """"""friends"""""" as well, but the only real way to figure out whether or not you're volcel is to ask yourself whether or not this is what you really want. My family thinks that I simply don't care about forming relationships with other people, and I'm content to allow them to believe that, but the truth is that I just really struggle to relate to people well enough to make friends, and my looks(as well as social retardation to a lesser extent) make it impossible for me to get a girlfriend.

For instance, I used to tell myself that I didn't like people, but I don't think there was ever a point where I actually fooled myself well enough into believing it. The reality is that I'm terrified of others, how they might think less of me, how they view me in comparison to their other friends, and of them rejecting me. In my case the feeling of being close to others hurts more than loneliness, which is why I used to try and convince myself that this life is what I wanted, but ultimately none of it really feels like much of a choice.

I suppose that was true for me as well, but at a certain point I've been living like this for so long that I forgot about all these aspects of this problem. I've lied to myself for so long I've accepted the lies as truth. Now I'm just living the routine, going through the motions. At this point I can't change, can't really teach an old dog new tricks.

 

[Smallondick]

Being a mentalcel and balding is truecel potential tbh

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I also purposely avoid people. Dont really know why

 

[HighTGymcel]

I also purposely avoid people. Dont really know why

A U T I S M

 

[Deleted member 16455]

A U T I S M

high inhib+ social anxiety+ agoraphobia maybe

 

[virgin4life]

I am exactly like you. I think it kinda makes us mentalcels though and mentalcels are truecels.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Dammit thats brutal tbh, i know the feeling of seeing yourself as inferior compared to other people your friend knows. I think possible way to overcome this is finding someone with 0 friends too, though there is still many other problems that you mentioned.

I'm both mentally and emotionally fucked tbh, I even know how to make friends. Irl I'm a poor communicator, and even on the off chance I someone who I can talk to, I just end up ruining it or sabotaging myself in some way. But that doesn't bother me so much anymore, I just want a girlfriend.

I suppose that was true for me as well, but at a certain point I've been living like this for so long that I forgot about all these aspects of this problem. I've lied to myself for so long I've accepted the lies as truth. Now I'm just living the routine, going through the motions. At this point I can't change, can't really teach an old dog new tricks.

I don't think I can change either, although I am trying to become more functional at least(I more or less have to be).

 

[Deleted member 17724]

I am exactly like you. I think it kinda makes us mentalcels though and mentalcels are truecels.

 

[Mainländer]

You hate interaction with people because you know that as an ugly male, these interactions will be bad, or insipid at best.

If you were a gigachad you wouldn't be like that.

 

[virgin4life]

You hate interaction with people because you know that as an ugly male, these interactions will be bad, or insipid at best.

If you were a gigachad you wouldn't be like that.

Might be true...

 

[starystulejarz]

That's just your brain messing around with ya giving you false hope, it's doing to me too sometimes.

 

[Deleted member 17997]

I am a volcel

 

[Saung-Hui Cho]

You're rejecting others before they can reject you.

false hope

 

[Hikikomori]

I despise people too. Then again ... i despise all of creation, for the suffering that it causes.

 

[FlamingCel]

You hate interaction with people because you know that as an ugly male, these interactions will be bad, or insipid at best.

If you were a gigachad you wouldn't be like that.

 

[Michael15651]

I just fail to see the point anymore.

 

[Jog Mansen]

from what you describe yourself as looking like you are not a volcel as it would be pointless in trying tbh, Volcels i consider those to be capable of at the very least fucking a foid, the only way i see you fucking someone is either through the state forcing a woman to become your property or if you commit rape, foids are too hypergamous and their standards too high to ever choose to fuck you

 

[Anoncel123]

I'm to high inhib to approach people, but I realise that many of the students of my college are cucks, sjw and whiteknights (I never would like to relate with these people tbh). Foids in the other hand excludes me, like I was a ghost to them (These happens to me since middle school). After realising all of these I conclude that it's pointless to approach someone.

 

[NeetSupremacist]

I also ghost everyone including my old friends and and my family, whenever someone from my family invites me for dinner or something I never go and I ghost them. I don't like to interact with people, I'd rather stay in my room and LDAR. I never go outside my house and I don't work or go to school so I never interact with people, I've been living like this for more than 2 years. I've never approached women because I'm to high inhib for that, but at least I know my own worth because I tested myself with my real pictures on tinder and I got 0 matches in my local area which indicated my worth when it comes to appearance. I'm so fucking lazy that I'm not even interested anymore in trying to bond with a female, yes I'm sexually frustrated but at the same time I'm to lazy and to high inhib to actually try to get a GF.

 

[Insomniac]

Approaching is worth a try.

It’s over if foids don’t approach you first

 

[BrettyBoy]

It’s over if foids don’t approach you first

Depends.

 

[LordDylan]

Same bro, it's hard to be social when everyone has treated you like crap for most of your life.