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Lux Et Veritas
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If we were in the position of a chad with access to all kinds of women, we wouldn't give a shit about who saw any public displays of affection and would probably flaunt it subtly or directly. At best, we'd just care with the remote guilt and concern of people in first-world countries to starving children in third-world countries about single people. In some cases we'd naively be jealous of the singles (incels and lonely normies), cause a relationship with a woman in western society presents problems in spades, along with the unpredictable benefits of physical and verbal affection that we covet.
Lets be clear. We've been deprived of positive social interactions and affection from the opposite sex, which is such a hard wired part of our being, because of how attentive our ancestors had to be to take advantage of any reputational and reproductive opportunities on both an instinctual and conscious level; to both find mates, and opportunities for social mobility (i.e hunter-gatherer soldier to chieftain) and preserve them long enough for successful offspring delivery and raising. It's why the present state of modern society can reduce men to rabid dogs (simps), because they're deprived of things so instrumental to their well being despite having their outermost necessities: food, water, clothing and shelter met. In fact, it's in overdrive now, because those outermost necessities are now almost irrelevant to the average first-worlder, and because any remotely similar condition was very rare in ancient times, our brains are programmed to perceive it as a serious problem if we're not actively courting and copulating.
It's to the extent that our rationality and even our personality is being subverted because the brain is overstimulating us with it's built-in detection systems - that are actively measuring, in real time, our position in the social-hierarchy overall, including potential mates and our standing with them. This can result in, what is essentially, sustained psychological torture as the brain alerts us to fix our standing by any means necessary, inducing soft madness as our minds are spurned into seeking out avenues to mating and higher reputation, often to be met with a brick wall.
This is a problem, as forceful tactics are no longer viable. Without good preconditions (like being a Chad) fulfilling this integral part of our being requires strategic, sustained effort and high failure tolerance in matriarchal societies, with little to no sense of permanence with the degeneration of morality and trivialization of marriage from collapsing religious structures.
This being the case, and in affect realizing it's hard, harder then it has ever been, we should resist going insane. Blaming others is fun, wanting and even directly punishing them is too, but we should care not to lose ourselves in our justified hate. There was a time where we didn't give a shit about girls, that the flirting and kissing of couples was just gross.
We should sharpen our minds and refuse to be dominated and enslaved by these primal systems that were irrelevant to who we were at one point, ideally, we can see celibacy as an opportunity put ourselves above them.
Lets be clear. We've been deprived of positive social interactions and affection from the opposite sex, which is such a hard wired part of our being, because of how attentive our ancestors had to be to take advantage of any reputational and reproductive opportunities on both an instinctual and conscious level; to both find mates, and opportunities for social mobility (i.e hunter-gatherer soldier to chieftain) and preserve them long enough for successful offspring delivery and raising. It's why the present state of modern society can reduce men to rabid dogs (simps), because they're deprived of things so instrumental to their well being despite having their outermost necessities: food, water, clothing and shelter met. In fact, it's in overdrive now, because those outermost necessities are now almost irrelevant to the average first-worlder, and because any remotely similar condition was very rare in ancient times, our brains are programmed to perceive it as a serious problem if we're not actively courting and copulating.
It's to the extent that our rationality and even our personality is being subverted because the brain is overstimulating us with it's built-in detection systems - that are actively measuring, in real time, our position in the social-hierarchy overall, including potential mates and our standing with them. This can result in, what is essentially, sustained psychological torture as the brain alerts us to fix our standing by any means necessary, inducing soft madness as our minds are spurned into seeking out avenues to mating and higher reputation, often to be met with a brick wall.
This is a problem, as forceful tactics are no longer viable. Without good preconditions (like being a Chad) fulfilling this integral part of our being requires strategic, sustained effort and high failure tolerance in matriarchal societies, with little to no sense of permanence with the degeneration of morality and trivialization of marriage from collapsing religious structures.
This being the case, and in affect realizing it's hard, harder then it has ever been, we should resist going insane. Blaming others is fun, wanting and even directly punishing them is too, but we should care not to lose ourselves in our justified hate. There was a time where we didn't give a shit about girls, that the flirting and kissing of couples was just gross.
We should sharpen our minds and refuse to be dominated and enslaved by these primal systems that were irrelevant to who we were at one point, ideally, we can see celibacy as an opportunity put ourselves above them.
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