I should blame my parents for putting me through this

[anonymous106]

It was our parents who brought us into this world with shitty people, it was my parents who taught me to respect indifference and treat everyone decently..

But when I entered kindergarten I saw that the world doesn't work that way, children were cruel, stupid and rude; I was just a naive kid in the midst of all that degeneration of People.

I'm a calm, polite guy and my mildness is such that it's made me an easy target for mean jokes my whole life, It took me a long time to accept that things are not going to change, so before I die I want to let the world know how I feel about this. This hate that's blooming inside of us It's nothing more than a consequence of sharing space with these animals.

 

[MiSKiRaT]

The kids were cruel, stupid, disrespectful and I felt like my parents weren't preparing me to deal with these kinds of people.

can relate i remember getting choked by one piece of shit that was 10 years old when i was 6 i grew up to despise children and teenagers because that was the worst fucking period of my life

 

[Fallenleaves]

can relate i remember getting choked by one piece of shit that was 10 years old when i was 6 i grew up to despise children and teenagers because that was the worst fucking period of my life

First time seeing you speak normally

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

It was our parents who brought us into this world with shitty people, it was my parents who taught me to respect indifference and treat everyone decently..

Re: Stop Bullying now

AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332

#147982434Tuesday, October 14, 2014 11:04 PM CDT "I can tell your new here. I used to be just like you. Get out now, and you wont be trolled to death. It's too l8 for me m8. I'm a OTer now. I'm one with the OT." Each user has their own individual opinion, It's entirely unnecessary to aggressively criticize the other person's opinion simply because it doesn't conform to the opinion of the majority. As for the topic creator, however, although it's understandable that you consider bullying repulsive behavior, creating threads such as this will only result in unnecessary arguments and aggressive responses from user's who simply have an entirely different perception of the situation and behave rather narrow-minded when it comes to trying to exhibit empathy for another person on specific subjects.

Re: Bullying is not cool,its serious

AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332

#150249495Saturday, November 22, 2014 10:35 PM CST Alright. While it's certainly accurate that "Bullying" is a rather persistent problem that certainly does requires awareness and management to appropriately handle the problem, creating a thread on an internet forum such as this certainly won't provide a solution to the problem and it's likely going to cause aggressive and unnecessary arguing. If you want to reduce the quantity of "Bullying" occurring then I would suggest that you communicate with people outside of a screen and utilize a website oriented towards problems such as this as it's a significant more effective strategy.

Re: [ Content Deleted ]

AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332

#153258496Sunday, January 04, 2015 1:10 PM CST "Bullying" is entirely capable of affecting an individual for many years afterwards as the individual themselves will recall the events eventually. The degree of psychological damage depends on the kind of bullying and how the individual perceives the situation; Recurrent bullying will eventually alter the psychological state of the targeted individual, regardless of the extremity due to the simple fact that the person is consistently enduring psychologically harmful reminders of how the individual(s) bullying them perceive the person, the degree of psychological effect increases once you consider the individual's actual perception of the bully and the social circumstances toppled with the duration of time the individual is bullied. Many individuals who suffer a sufficient quantity of bullying during childhood often develop psychologically instability as the "Painful" memories eventually begin to dominate their perception of other humans with effects ranging from vendettas against socially-adapt and "Accepted" humans in general and development of narcissistic personality traits(Nearly always the eventual result of an inferiority-complex), to a significant degree of self-perceived inferiority that can result in the inability to psychologically connect with adjacent individuals due to fear of disapproval stemming from irrational thoughts and trigger the development of usually lifelong disorders such as "Depression".

Re: i found a solution to bullying in the public school system.

AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332

#153978381Thursday, January 15, 2015 10:50 AM CST "no, only if its self defense. and allowing the ability would discourage bullies from bullying." There's various ways that this can be abused/taken out of proportion. Although I can understand why you would believe that this could interfere with the issue of bullying, It significantly increases the likelihood that if a battle begins, that one of students involved could be severely injured or killed. This can easily lead to retaliation from acquaintances of the individuals involved and intensify the severity of the situation.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

No.

Re: i always find a way to feel dissapointed in myself.

AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332

#154412912Wednesday, January 21, 2015 10:03 PM CST "WHY DO YOU LET YOURSELF BE AN EASY TARGET FOR PEOPLE" Although the following statements may appear as patronizing or otherwise negative, I'm not trying to insult you, I'm merely trying to help you rationalize the situation. In society, 'acceptance' is a necessary aspect beginning from the very critical durations of cognitive development, failure to feel accepted by other individuals has some degree of influence on your psychological state, though this varies on an individual basis. These other individuals, who are targeting you, are likely targeting you simply because you aren't accepted in their clique and thus harassing you is a mechanism for the individuals involved to gain support from other members of their Social-Circle without being ridiculed as many people tend to avoid sources they're uncertain and thus uncomfortable with. I'm assuming, then, that you're feeling insecure due to the consistent insults you've received and perceive yourself as inferior, which would be completely incorrect. Though this may certainly be difficult to comprehend at the current duration of time, each individual has characteristics that vary from another person, the people bullying you are likely attempting to make their "Friends" perceive them as 'good' as a method of increasing self-confidence that they may be lacking. I'd highly suggest that you communicate with someone you trust about the situation and attempt to adapt how you perceive the issues involving yourself, although you may be receiving insults, you certainly aren't inferior and shouldn't consistently be aggressively criticized.

 

[MiSKiRaT]

First time seeing you speak normally

the only time i talk normally is when my throat doesnt weigh a fucking ton from the amount of rage i had to endure