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I regret EVER approaching women.

Ryo_Hazuki

Ryo_Hazuki

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When I was 18-22 years old, I spent A LOT of time trying to get women. Cold approaches. Going to normie parties to try and meet women. Going clubbing. Hours and hours on dating websites, etc. I regret ALL of it. Those are supposed to be the best years of your life and I spent a lot of that time getting rejected over and over again.

Don't get me wrong, I still have a lot of good memories from that time period. Had a lot of fun with friends when I wasn't approaching women. But the amount of time I spent approaching women and getting rejected really puts a shit stain on it all.
 
i dont understand how you can be this truecel, especially since u should have the confidence of a 7 incher, whats your height? pm me a face pic?
 
iTs f U  c  k  O  v  E r l a D s
 
lostcel said:
i dont understand how you can be this truecel, especially since u should have the confidence of a 7 incher, whats your height? pm me a face pic?

Maybe that's because confidence doesn't mean jackshit?
 
VLÖ said:
lostcel said:
i dont understand how you can be this truecel, especially since u should have the confidence of a 7 incher, whats your height? pm me a face pic?
Maybe that's because confidence doesn't mean jackshit?

Dick size doesn't mean shit unless you're small. Most women will be fine with it if you can get in bed with her in the first place(i.e; good face/physical appeal, NT, etc.)
 
mikepence said:
Dick size doesn't mean shit unless you're small. Most women will be fine with it if you can get in bed with her in the first place(i.e; good face/physical appeal, NT, etc.)

Having a big dick is a must if you are incel, if not what else do you have to offer?
 
Total Imbecile said:
mikepence said:
Dick size doesn't mean shit unless you're small. Most women will be fine with it if you can get in bed with her in the first place(i.e; good face/physical appeal, NT, etc.)
Having a big dick is a must if you are incel, if not what else do you have to offer?

Your dick is the last thing she sees. It won't help you much unless it's really big(top 5% or something) and you're known for having a huge schlong by your social circle or something
 
The optimal time for dating and partying with friends (If you had them) is during your highschool days, 14-18. THOSE were what is supposed to be the "best years of your life". Starting to at 18 is late.
 
"Best time" for normies. Not for incels.

When were you blackpilled? Were you regretful in doing so even after you felt that it was never going to happen?
 
lostcel said:
i dont understand how you can be this truecel, especially since u should have the confidence of a 7 incher, whats your height? pm me a face pic?

Confidence lol? Confidence is a factor exclusively for normies, Chadlites, and Chads. An ugly male with confidence is considered an annoyance or at best comic relief.
 
Total Imbecile said:
mikepence said:
Dick size doesn't mean shit unless you're small. Most women will be fine with it if you can get in bed with her in the first place(i.e; good face/physical appeal, NT, etc.)
Having a big dick is a must if you are incel, if not what else do you have to offer?
if u have a huge dick and still can't manage to fuck chicks i dont know what the hell you are doing with ur life srs
 
Just be confident bro. Just be yourself.
 
lostcel said:
if u have a huge dick and still can't manage to fuck chicks i dont know what the hell you are doing with ur life srs

I never said I have a huge dick, Im probably a dickcel tbh. Im too afraid to even measure it.
 
lostcel said:
if u have a huge dick and still can't manage to fuck chicks i dont know what the hell you are doing with ur life srs

Life isn't a porn movie lmao. You can't just walk up to a girl while being ugly and say "I gotta huge cock, u wanna fuck?", that's just retarded man. 
A girl would much rather fuck a 8 inch dildo than an ugly guy.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
lostcel said:
whats your height?
I'm 6'1.
have you ever considered surgerys, so u can somewhat look like ur morphs? seems like ur face is LITERALLY the only problem and thankfully theres surgery
 
lostcel said:
have you ever considered surgerys, so u can somewhat look like ur morphs? seems like ur face is LITERALLY the only problem and thankfully theres surgery

Hes already had a bunch of procedures if I recall.
 
That's why I never approach.. SO I could regret less later in life
 
The only thing I'll try are dating apps but anything else is a waste of time


Total Imbecile said:
I never said I have a huge dick, Im probably a dickcel tbh. Im too afraid to even measure it.

Just measure it. I thought I was below average all the time and it was so much lifefuel when I saw the number.But then it makes you even more frustrated because the only above average feature you have is useless.
 
AscendedNormie said:
Just be confident bro. Just be yourself.

Don’t forget to get haircut and shower!
 
VincentVanCope said:
Don’t forget to get haircut and shower!

20 haircuts and showers a day
 
Me too. I wish I’d just gone full introvert when I was 18 instead of wasting time and money trying to attract femoids and socialising with assholes I didn’t even like and have since cut off all contact with. Fuck it I should have just gone ER when I was a college student and shot up the feminist society or something.
 
are you still a virgin ryo? or do u have past experience
 
lostcel said:
are you still a virgin ryo? or do u have past experience

KHV
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
When I was 18-22 years old, I spent A LOT of time trying to get women. Cold approaches. Going to normie parties to try and meet women. Going clubbing. Hours and hours on dating websites, etc. I regret ALL of it. Those are supposed to be the best years of your life and I spent a lot of that time getting rejected over and over again.
Don't get me wrong, I still have a lot of good memories from that time period. Had a lot of fun with friends when I wasn't approaching women. But the amount of time I spent approaching women and getting rejected really puts a shit stain on it all.
at 18 I was already dead
 
This is why it bothers me when people claim we don't try.

We're here every time we tried resulted in a shitty rejection.
 
lostcel said:
if u have a huge dick and still can't manage to fuck chicks i dont know what the hell you are doing with ur life srs

lol, how does having a big dick help you get laid? You can't exactly go around walking with your dick hanging out.

Big dick only helps once you have attracted the girl and gotten her in bed.

Jesus these low IQ brainlets sometimes ...
 
All copes. If women don't approach you then you are not attractive. All normies you see with gfs, the girl initiated with them.
 
Pm me pics of your face.
 
Were you awkward back then?
 
Same...My confidence is dead and long gone.
 
mikepence said:
Your dick is the last thing she sees. It won't help you much unless it's really big(top 5% or something) and you're known for having a huge schlong by your social circle or something

this is 100% true

I missed a couple opportunities to get laid because my old social circle knew I had a big dick.  Outside of that it literally didn't ever matter.

Now that social circle is gone and here I am in LDAR mode
 
St.Tropez said:
Didn't you went on some tinder dates?

A couple using tinder morph game.
 
I think you would regret the guilt of 'What if' more
 
nausea said:
and what happened on the dates?

I posted about them here before:

Ryo_Hazuki said:
So here's what happened.  I showed up to the diner, saw where she was sitting and went to go introduce myself.  As soon as I got close enough for her to get a good look at me , her eyes widened.  She looked confused and disappointed.

I tried talking to her throughout the date but she spent the whole fucking date with her face stuffed in her iphone.  I tried getting her to talk but she only responded with "oh" "ok" "yeah" "no" etc.  I literally did like 99 percent of the talking.  Half the time I had to repeat whatever question I asked her because she was so distracted by whatever she was doing on her phone (or at least pretending to be).  The moment she finished eating she got up, said "I gotta run, see you later" and walked away pretty quickly.  

Can't say I'm surprised.

Naturally, some people here will tell me how I should have been more "assertive" or how I should have "escalated", but the fact of the matter is, this was a rejection.  I couldn't "escalate" because there was nothing to escalate from.

The other date pretty much went the same way.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
I posted about them here before:


The other date pretty much went the same way.

I missed that post

wanna know what happened my last "date" AGES ago? the same if not worse
 

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