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I really do want a girlfriend, but at the same time I don’t even know if I wanna deal with the hassle of a modern woman, damn why do I feel this way?

Clavicus Vile

Clavicus Vile

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Why do I feel stuck between wanting a girlfriend and being lonely, but also preferring to be alone. I feel like a girlfriend is just another person I have to entertain and adhere to her standards to keep her interested, and would only keeps me away from what I like to do, not to mention all the things I’d have to listen to that I really don’t care about.

And I’m not even Chad so she wouldn’t even love me in the same way she would with those guys, I’d get berated over a few dishes in the sink or misplaced socks if we dated long enough. But Chad could cheat multiple times and she’d still be submissive and sweet. And I’d constantly have to walk on eggshells not knowing if this’ll be the day I found out I’ve been being cheated on for the past 5 months. I’m starting to wonder man, would I just be good getting with an escort and calling it a rap.
 
You want a decent girlfriend, not a typical modern woman. Nothing wrong with that
 
Im thinking the same way since i was 15, i just cant live like a normal human being. I would never reach her expectations. HAving to deal with another living person its a struggle when youre a failed person. Thats why i would prefer an artificial robot girlfriend any time of the day. I dont need validation, i need a partner.
 
not like you have much of a choice anyway :forcedsmile:
 
Because you want a regular woman not a hypergamous whore who’ll just use you
 
That's normal. Not to mention that she'll 100% cheat on you eventually.
 
I feel this way too, I go back and forth from wanting a gf to not wanting one cuz I remember how modern foids are
 
even if you become a passport bro you have to deal with
"ME WANT MONEY GIVE ME MONEY AMERRRIUCAN DORRA GIVE ME"
 
Very true. If a woman were interested in me (jfl), I would have to keep up a 24/7 eminence front to keep her interested. Is it really worth it to live like that? I would never get to be myself, because "myself" is disgusting to women.
I have insomnia, so sharing a bed with someone would just keep her up all night. And of course no sexual experience, so as soon as we reached that point, she'd be disappointed that I didn't fuck her like the Chads she used to leave the club with.
And that's another thing! I'd always have nagging questions about her past in mind, but I'd never ask them, because I'd be afraid of her answers. Even if she said she didn't whore around, I wouldn't believe her because of my years of paranoia and trust issues. Said issues would also cause me to constantly doubt her fidelity.

So yeah, I feel you, brocel. Haven't gotten an escort yet, but I've been sorely tempted. Just to see what normies seem to take for granted.
 
I've grappled with this before. Like I imagine an idealized girlfriend and of course I would want to be with her, but such women don't exist in real. If you are Chad, the only thing you will get is hassle-free sex, if you are not Chad you can only get a poor imitation of this with a lot of string attached, but besides sex and reproduction they offer nothing
 
Why do I feel stuck between wanting a girlfriend and being lonely, but also preferring to be alone. I feel like a girlfriend is just another person I have to entertain and adhere to her standards to keep her interested, and would only keeps me away from what I like to do, not to mention all the things I’d have to listen to that I really don’t care about.

And I’m not even Chad so she wouldn’t even love me in the same way she would with those guys, I’d get berated over a few dishes in the sink or misplaced socks if we dated long enough. But Chad could cheat multiple times and she’d still be submissive and sweet. And I’d constantly have to walk on eggshells not knowing if this’ll be the day I found out I’ve been being cheated on for the past 5 months. I’m starting to wonder man, would I just be good getting with an escort and calling it a rap.
Because the ability to keep a relationship is just an skill that you have to learn and that improves by being in the relationship.
Except for Chad, as you mentioned, as he can do what he want. He can be an sociopath who punch his girl- she wont leave him, he can cheat on her- she wont leave him.
 
Doesn't really matter unless you wanna have kids or something
 
Why do I feel stuck between wanting a girlfriend and being lonely, but also preferring to be alone. I feel like a girlfriend is just another person I have to entertain and adhere to her standards to keep her interested, and would only keeps me away from what I like to do, not to mention all the things I’d have to listen to that I really don’t care about.

And I’m not even Chad so she wouldn’t even love me in the same way she would with those guys, I’d get berated over a few dishes in the sink or misplaced socks if we dated long enough. But Chad could cheat multiple times and she’d still be submissive and sweet. And I’d constantly have to walk on eggshells not knowing if this’ll be the day I found out I’ve been being cheated on for the past 5 months. I’m starting to wonder man, would I just be good getting with an escort and calling it a rap.
been thinking the same What if the retarded foid ends up cheating on us or ends up just using us
 
kinda same here. I kinda want a girl, but at the same time im not attractive enough, and foids would probably cause me a headache when Im already extremely mentally tired from life. I cope by the fact that im too poor to marry anyways, so why bother? I live in a country where getting married requires you to basically own a house, car, etc and thanks to capitalism these are all quickly becoming impossible to obtain. (its not India)
 

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