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I never understood why incels want a trad wife

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shes gonna stay at home, take advantage of your money by being a leech, contribute nothing to the relationship, demand that you act hyper-masculine 24/7 by never crying and always doing hard labor, and maybe even fuck chad while you're busy wage-slaving. why would this foid be better than a liberal foid?
 
I never understood that either. With all the shit I've already had in my life, why would I want to spend decades taking care of some leech who's purposefully avoiding work:feelskek:? If I'm supposed to give my all into supporting the household, I'd 100% expect her to do the same as well:feelsugh:.
 
True. All incels should look after slutmaxxed girls, It's pretty attractive the sexual energy tbh
 
shes gonna stay at home, take advantage of your money by being a leech, contribute nothing to the relationship, demand that you act hyper-masculine 24/7 by never crying and always doing hard labor, and maybe even fuck chad while you're busy wage-slaving. why would this foid be better than a liberal foid?
So you liek to pay for sloppy seconds
 
Fuck tradition if she’s not licking my balls every night then she’s committing blasphemy against allah
 
Tradwives aren't a thing anymore, I abandoned that nonsense in 2019
 
Yeah agreed, any woman I get better be loyal and loving, and support herself
 
Dont care just want her to raise my kids and service my weiner
 
Ask yourself what’s the alternative, and you’ll understand why.
 
Tradwife is just a gooner redpill fantasy. Not even possible to get one in today’s world
 
To preserve your genetics of course.

Women preserve the genetics of thugs all the time which has precipitated the breakdown in society.
 
I dont get it either but thats also cause im disabled and dont have a job so my tradwife would have to live with me under a bridge
 
I wouldn't mind it if she doesn't cheat, conceives my children and is subservient to me in general.
I might as well be looking for The Holy Grail or Fountain of Youth though, trad wives don't exist.
 
Its just good. Also you get a virgin wife.
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shes gonna stay at home, take advantage of your money by being a leech, contribute nothing to the relationship, demand that you act hyper-masculine 24/7 by never crying and always doing hard labor, and maybe even fuck chad while you're busy wage-slaving. why would this foid be better than a liberal foid?
I never understood that either. With all the shit I've already had in my life, why would I want to spend decades taking care of some leech who's purposefully avoiding work:feelskek:? If I'm supposed to give my all into supporting the household, I'd 100% expect her to do the same as well:feelsugh:.
yeah it doesn't make much sense.

A trad wife's purpose is to please you and take care of you. She cleans your house, give you sex and affection, takes cares of your kids, makes you food. In return, you work hard and provide for her.

This has been the social contract for 99.99% of human history until feminists decided to disrupt the natural order and ruining everything, for men AND women.

Also, women NEED to feel that you provide for them to be attracted to you. I get not wanting a leech. But if she keeps her side of the bargain, her staying home is not ''leeching''.

What is the alternative? Her working? Then she will outearn you with all the DEI, gender quotas and affirmative action, then she will lose interest and you and find a richer man.

In theory, trad wives are the best.
 
OP has a good point. "trad" women online tend to be just as feminist/misandrist as SJW women. "There aren't any real men anymore" "I need a man who makes 6 figures to take care of me" "Men need to man up and stop having hobbies like X". The way trad women and SJW women talk about men is more or less the same, it's just framed a little different. They both push the narrative that women are oppressed and men are oppressors. I remember when the whole "man vs bear" debate was at it's peak, a lot of "trad women" were supporting SJWs saying women are safer alone with a bear than a man. Not to mention in just about any dispute involving a man and a woman, both trad women and SJW women will support the woman no matter who's right or wrong.

Idealistically I'd prefer to date a woman who isn't hyper-political as a result of being terminally online. A woman who's a centrist/moderate or apolitical. Hard to find these days. But of course I'm self-aware enough to realize that no woman would want me regardless of political affiliation. :feelsjuice:
 
OP has a good point. "trad" women online tend to be just as feminist/misandrist as SJW women. "There aren't any real men anymore" "I need a man who makes 6 figures to take care of me" "Men need to man up and stop having hobbies like X". The way trad women and SJW women talk about men is more or less the same, it's just framed a little different. They both push the narrative that women are oppressed and men are oppressors. I remember when the whole "man vs bear" debate was at it's peak, a lot of "trad women" were supporting SJWs saying women are safer alone with a bear than a man. Not to mention in just about any dispute involving a man and a woman, both trad women and SJW women will support the woman no matter who's right or wrong.
Yeah but they aren't really "trad" they are just wearing the aesthetic to pander to a different niche, a lot of those "trad" women were sjws when they were younger and then turned "trad" when the sjw gravy train ran out, like that Melonie Mac bitch. They jump from one political ideology to the next for whatever suits them best at the time the same way they jump from cock to cock.
Ideally traditional women should just be quiet and support their husbands from behind the scenes and that's it, of course women like this don't truly exist(and if they do they are chad only and you would never find them online) so the whole trad wife thing is a massive cope but if they were real they would be based.
AWALT is law as always.
 
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I want to be a househusband tbh
 
What is the alternative?
A foid that finacially, physically, and intellectually contributes equal amount to the relationship as I do out of pure love. Trad wives just seem like misandrist gold diggers to me that don't truly love or care about the relationship. more reliant on you =! she loves you
 
A foid that finacially, physically, and intellectually contributes equal amount to the relationship as I do out of pure love.
Maybe if you are Chad, the foid won't get bored if you if she is as rich and intelligent as you.

But if you are non-Chad, tradwives are better for you, at least on paper. The idea is that you work hard to provide in order to compensate for not being attractive.
 
Maybe if you are Chad, the foid won't get bored if you if she is as rich and intelligent as you.

But if you are non-Chad, tradwives are better for you, at least on paper. The idea is that you work hard to provide in order to compensate for not being attractive.
If I'm non-chad, she would cheat on me or divorce no matter what I do. Incels always lose
 
I mean lets be real about it: all women are the same. Feminists and "trad" women have the same standards. They both want the man to make more money than her, they both want him to pay for everything.

Feminists are very "egalitarian" but when it comes to dating and their "personal preferences" suddenly they all turn into 50's damsels in distress that need to be provided for. These women don't differ at all from trad women.
 
if I grow a garden of apple trees, i would make her go gather those apples, if i own a cow she would milk it etc. Sex when I want. Traditional like that. I own everything, you is allowed to benefit but have to contribute in a positive way. Not in a way of doing nothing, openly disrespecting me, divorce raping my ass and leaving me with nothing but a patched underwear in a suitcase.
 
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A foid that finacially, physically, and intellectually contributes equal amount to the relationship as I do out of pure love.
The thing is for a foid to contribute like that you have to be a chad. They won't do that for normies and sub5s, while on the other hand a betabuxx relationships where the foid never leaves the house has been the staple of marriages for like 95% of the recorded history
 
shes gonna stay at home, take advantage of your money by being a leech, contribute nothing to the relationship, demand that you act hyper-masculine 24/7 by never crying and always doing hard labor, and maybe even fuck chad while you're busy wage-slaving. why would this foid be better than a liberal foid?
I never understood that either. With all the shit I've already had in my life, why would I want to spend decades taking care of some leech who's purposefully avoiding work:feelskek:? If I'm supposed to give my all into supporting the household, I'd 100% expect her to do the same as well:feelsugh:.
Tradwives aren't a thing anymore, I abandoned that nonsense in 2019
Ask yourself what’s the alternative, and you’ll understand why.
I used to want one back when I was redpilled, but then I became blackpilled and I slowly realized how pointless it all is & how it makes no sense. It's more or less what we have now just re-packaged to appeal to redpill copers; it also just reinfoces the "oofy doofy" betabuxx theory instead of solving the case of Inceldom & rectifying foid nature

However, I will say that whilst heavily flawed at least the "trad" system is better than what we have now.

Reason is this:



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I would also attribute our copes being soyified due to the general correlation of foids encroaching on male spaces, which ofc occurs in the workforce.

Lowered TFR caused in part by foids working

Housing markets & other economic factors are negatively impacted by dual-income households:


Furthermore, it is evident that inherent biological differences exist between males & females. As such, if they are going to be working, they need to be fit into some system where they can use their nature to actually be productive in it.

@Regenerator @KILLEVERYLASTCURRY
 
I used to want one back when I was redpilled, but then I became blackpilled and I slowly realized how pointless it all is & how it makes no sense. It's more or less what we have now just re-packaged to appeal to redpill copers; it also just reinfoces the "oofy doofy" betabuxx theory instead of solving the case of Inceldom & rectifying foid nature

However, I will say that whilst heavily flawed at least the "trad" system is better than what we have now.

Reason is this:



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I would also attribute our copes being soyified due to the general correlation of foids encroaching on male spaces, which ofc occurs in the workforce.

Lowered TFR caused in part by foids working

Housing markets & other economic factors are negatively impacted by dual-income households:


Furthermore, it is evident that inherent biological differences exist between males & females. As such, if they are going to be working, they need to be fit into some system where they can use their nature to actually be productive in it.

@Regenerator @KILLEVERYLASTCURRY
Having a trad wife while not perfect is still better than being in a "Equal relationship"
 
A trad wife's purpose is to please you and take care of you. She cleans your house, give you sex and affection, takes cares of your kids, makes you food. In return, you work hard and provide for her.
Yeah, but that's the thing, all the women in those situations do is either stuff every person living alone already does (cleaning, cooking etc.,) or stuff you will want to do anyway (have sex, spend time with the children, etc.). It's only the man who brings any added value to the household, and does so to basically take care of a random NEET living with him.

This has been the social contract for 99.99% of human history until feminists decided to disrupt the natural order and ruining everything, for men AND women.
I'm actually not sure about that. Thoughts on this?


Also, women NEED to feel that you provide for them to be attracted to you.
Fair enough.

What is the alternative? Her working? Then she will outearn you with all the DEI, gender quotas and affirmative action, then she will lose interest and you and find a richer man.
That could be solved by dealing with the DEI and the rest in a proper way (bans, clever limitations etc.:feelsthink:)
 
OP has a good point. "trad" women online tend to be just as feminist/misandrist as SJW women. "There aren't any real men anymore" "I need a man who makes 6 figures to take care of me" "Men need to man up and stop having hobbies like X". The way trad women and SJW women talk about men is more or less the same, it's just framed a little different. They both push the narrative that women are oppressed and men are oppressors. I remember when the whole "man vs bear" debate was at it's peak, a lot of "trad women" were supporting SJWs saying women are safer alone with a bear than a man. Not to mention in just about any dispute involving a man and a woman, both trad women and SJW women will support the woman no matter who's right or wrong.

Idealistically I'd prefer to date a woman who isn't hyper-political as a result of being terminally online. A woman who's a centrist/moderate or apolitical. Hard to find these days. But of course I'm self-aware enough to realize that no woman would want me regardless of political affiliation. :feelsjuice:
This sums up my taste perfectly. I think when most incels say they want a trad wife. They mean a woman who’s uncorrupted by modern cultural norms and society. They associate this with “tradwives” because it’s the closest demographic to what incels are looking for in a woman.

Then again, JFL assuming any woman would even want to be with us in the first place.
 
As a man with Krillin levels of SMV, Android 18 is the ideal sex android
 
If you want a trad-wife you are retarded. Even a genuinely trad foid is a wife that you cannot be vulnerable around because she will view you as weak. And god forbid you go through any financial struggle at all because she will leave your ass immediately. Trad relationships are a transaction not love
 

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Because true trad wives are great. The problem is that most are fake and just playing a roll and will end up treating you poorly and fuck you over.
 

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