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Venting I miss having friends

DCI Gene Hunt

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I used to have 2 friends. One was a best friend, and the other was a bit flakey but still a friend nonetheless.

It was bliss. We used to go on holiday together, go out for lunch or dinner, go to the cinema, or just hang out in each other's houses talking. We supported each other. I never used the word "incel" but I told them about my dating struggles. My best friend was a normie who had previously had gfs but was basically MGTOW by the time I met him, although I don't think he ever described himself as MGTOW per se. He was mostly sympathetic to my plight, but could go only give normie "just buy £200 trainers and approach a woman" style advice.

My best friend then started seeing his daughter again and had no time for me. We'd arrange to meet and he would always cancel short notice. This happened umpteen times in a row so I got the hint.

The other friend became a recluse and wouldn't leave the house but we'd still meet at his home until I moved away (got priced out of Londonistan). He has since stopped replying to my DMs.

I just miss having friends, haven't had any for a few years now. I struggle to make friends due to autism.

Anyone else had good friends and now find themselves lonely and unable to make any more friends? Or maybe some of you never had a friend to begin with?
 
Made a lot of friends in school. All stopped talking to me after we graduated. I don't think I can make any new ones, since adults already have their own social circles.
 
Made a lot of friends in school. All stopped talking to me after we graduated. I don't think I can make any new ones, since adults already have their own social circles.
Brutal. Everyone needs a friend.
 
I used to have 2 friends. One was a best friend, and the other was a bit flakey but still a friend nonetheless.

It was bliss. We used to go on holiday together, go out for lunch or dinner, go to the cinema, or just hang out in each other's houses talking. We supported each other. I never used the word "incel" but I told them about my dating struggles. My best friend was a normie who had previously had gfs but was basically MGTOW by the time I met him, although I don't think he ever described himself as MGTOW per se. He was mostly sympathetic to my plight, but could go only give normie "just buy £200 trainers and approach a woman" style advice.

My best friend then started seeing his daughter again and had no time for me. We'd arrange to meet and he would always cancel short notice. This happened umpteen times in a row so I got the hint.

The other friend became a recluse and wouldn't leave the house but we'd still meet at his home until I moved away (got priced out of Londonistan). He has since stopped replying to my DMs.

I just miss having friends, haven't had any for a few years now. I struggle to make friends due to autism.

Anyone else had good friends and now find themselves lonely and unable to make any more friends? Or maybe some of you never had a friend to begin with?
i don t miss it at all i cut ties with a childhood friend no regrets dont give af , even your best friends are snakes that you can t trust.
 
i don t miss it at all i cut ties with a childhood friend no regrets dont give af , even your best friends are snakes that you can t trust.
But surely you miss the good times?
 
But surely you miss the good times?
a little bit but i m happier now than in the "good ol times" and i m fucking 30 , don t miss it at all actually.
 
Every friendship I attempt always ends up being incredibly one sided.

I care less and less about it as I get older, but sometimes I just dwell on the fact I have no friends and it upsets me.
 
Made a lot of friends in school. All stopped talking to me after we graduated. I don't think I can make any new ones, since adults already have their own social circles.
fuck i got the same situation. i feel almost retarded because of this
 
Make friends here
 
Haven't had any friends since elementary school.
 
Me too. I haven't had any friends since high school.
 
All of them were fake anyways, fuck them.
 

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