I lost the ability of speaking fluently

[Sitchnatio]

When I was a kid I remember other kids making fun because I used very formal words and I was like a little professor.
Now I tried to fix my language and I became too self aware of what I say, every word is weighted and I can't focus on the real sentence so sometimes I try to speak just to look less autistic/mute.
My sentences are broken or sometimes I stutter over a word or I try to speak with deep voice, or I try to formulate sentences so I need to think about every word.
Also my language is more common and I use simple terms and I have trouble explaining what I need to say or I'm just slow when I need to reply to small talk.
I talk like a foreigner who's trying to talk after few months.

I don't know what can be srs

 

[ShiiOfTheSPLC]

 

[FamilyGuy1999]

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[Deleted member 33464]

This is why personalitymaxxing is a cope. You can't be anyone other than yourself. In the Johari window there are four types of knowledge: what you know that you know, what you know that you don't know, what you don't know that you don't know, and what you don't know that you know. What is important is the "knowledge that doesn't know itself" as Lacan says, the presumptions and impulses which we act upon. A huge chunk of communication is nonverbal: body language, facial expressions, posturing, tone, diction, and even the distance you are from the person you're communicating with. If you only change the known knowns without changing the unknown knowns, you are just a poser. If you try to change the way you communicate as a whole, you are going to be by definition self conscious. It's over op.

 

[Lebensmüder]

When I was a kid I remember other kids making fun because I used very formal words and I was like a little professor.
Now I tried to fix my language and I became too self aware of what I say, every word is weighted and I can't focus on the real sentence so sometimes I try to speak just to look less autistic/mute.
My sentences are broken or sometimes I stutter over a word or I try to speak with deep voice, or I try to formulate sentences so I need to think about every word.
Also my language is more common and I use simple terms and I have trouble explaining what I need to say or I'm just slow when I need to reply to small talk.
I talk like a foreigner who's trying to talk after few months.

I don't know what can be srs

Same here tbh. Am not a good speaker anymore, often mumble.

Was a child once a very good speaker, only had one problem: I had a lisp, due to that I was taken into a pediatric treatment and had to lose it. Then the speech became clearer. After the vocal change in puberty my speech became worse again. I also tend to repeat words.

And "little professor" was also a way my parents/teachers called my behavior - a symptom of autism btw. I still use a very retarded kind of language that is a mixture of gutter language (often say shitty/fucking and other swear words) and anachronistic eloquence (something I got out of books) - the two polar opposites of my socialisation: Books (especially medical/biological books), older people and then the asocials in school. The result is often very amusing for others, but not for me. In school my language definetely worsened grammatically and from the choice of words.

When I talk about stuff I don't know about I often stutter or cannot say anything, when I talk about something I know something about I am too fast/too loud.

 

[NearlyOver]

OP, I hear ya. I also have trouble talking (just interacting) in public after many years of social isolation. Of course, THEY will tell us it's OUR fault for not working on ourselves, exercising our verbal skills ... yada-yada. Can't possibly be that our social development has been molded by our experiences with our communities.

 

[Lebensmüder]

OP, I hear ya. I also have trouble talking (just interacting) in public after many years of social isolation. Of course, THEY will tell us it's OUR fault for not working on ourselves, exercising our verbal skills ... yada-yada. Can't possibly be that our social development has been molded by our experiences with our communities.

 

[kikecel]

Mogs be by ever having this ability

 

[Sitchnatio]

Same here tbh. Am not a good speaker anymore, often mumble.

Was a child once a very good speaker, only had one problem: I had a lisp, due to that I was taken into a pediatric treatment and had to lose it. Then the speech became clearer. After the vocal change in puberty my speech became worse again. I also tend to repeat words.

And "little professor" was also a way my parents/teachers called my behavior - a symptom of autism btw. I still use a very retarded kind of language that is a mixture of gutter language (often say shitty/fucking and other swear words) and anachronistic eloquence (something I got out of books) - the two polar opposites of my socialisation: Books (especially medical/biological books), older people and then the asocials in school. The result is often very amusing for others, but not for me. In school my language definetely worsened grammatically and from the choice of words.

When I talk about stuff I don't know about I often stutter or cannot say anything, when I talk about something I know something about I am too fast/too loud.

How do you explain it? Autism?

 

[Lebensmüder]

How do you explain it? Autism?

Yes. That, overexposure to the Internet, a lack of reading in the last few years and the same explanation as him:

OP, I hear ya. I also have trouble talking (just interacting) in public after many years of social isolation. Of course, THEY will tell us it's OUR fault for not working on ourselves, exercising our verbal skills ... yada-yada. Can't possibly be that our social development has been molded by our experiences with our communities.

 

[Izayacel]

genetics

 

[rope2cope]

mogs me, I have speech problems because I don't speak to many people at all. good thing about SEA hookers is they have little english so spekaing in pidgin english works out well even if I struggle with that.

 

[Sitchnatio]

mogs me, I have speech problems because I don't speak to many people at all. good thing about SEA hookers is they have little english so spekaing in pidgin english works out well even if I struggle with that.

I struggle talking to hookers because im too high inhibition

 

[rope2cope]

I struggle talking to hookers because im too high inhibition

same with the 2 uk hookers i went with, even if they were foreign to the UK but stupid low iq rice hookers are easier although i still certainly struggled with social autism the first few nights

 

[Deleted member 30682]

I have speech problems

 

[Deleted member 28708]

Mogs me, when I talk, I say stupid shit that leads to humiliate myself.

 

[WawelDragon1683]

same thing. i stutter and can't speak for very long. im quite retarded