Welcome to Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate Forum

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

Serious I legit can't initiate conversations with people anymore, especially foids

  • Thread starter Deleted member 8353
  • Start date
Deleted member 8353

Deleted member 8353

Former Hikikomori, Aimless Pleasure Seeker
-
Joined
May 29, 2018
Posts
9,335
Sometimes I'll get the desire to initiate a conversation with a foid, but the moment I see one I'd like to approach, it feels impossible, like my body won't listen to me. It's like I don't have a clue what to say, as if everybody else got the manual for how to talk to people irl but me. I wonder if she'll be disgusted by me, I feel like it's pointless since she'll think I'm ugly and I don't want to get rejected again.

It's not that I first consider the idea but then decide against it, no, it seriously feels like my body won't respond to me. When talking to people irl I'm already pretty reserved, but with attractive foids I can barely manage more than a sentence, and can never initiate conversations. I imagine myself walking up to her, greeting her, smiling at her, but I don't do it, I never do it. To put it in perspective, I know I can suppress my instinctive fear enough to hold lit matches to my skin, but I can't initiate conversations. I've tried nofap and alcohol, neither helped, nofap actually made me even more tense than I already was before.

I've been thinking about getting a job, and just the dread of inquiring about whether or not a place is hiring has been on my mind for awhile.

I wouldn't be surprised if I have the highest inhib on the forum.
 
same tbh

I always hear "just talk to girls" what are you supposed to say?
 
The only way to talk to foids is with your bones.:lul::lul::lul::lul:
 
I don’t really know how to talk to foids. I think too much about it now
 
You have to get better looking or you will experience this tell the day you die.
 
I can. I'm very low inhib ngl.
 
Same bro I'm extremely high inhib and socially retarded
 
You do not choose women. They choose you. When you finally understand this, you will stop thinking about tackling girls. An approach only works if it gives enough signals that it has chosen you, and the signals are wide open, so that even the most stupid of men is able to perceive.

The only ones who can approach girls without pre-approval are gigachads. Any non-gigachads need pre-approval.

Another thing, you need not make any effort for the foids to notice your presence. They have already noticed and have already decided whether they will approve you or not. Therefore, it is useless to expend energy to call attention to them.
 
Same man. I have never spoken to an attractive foid, outside of school, or any other forced enviroment.
 
I'm far too disgusted with foids.
 
Wait, you guys haven't actually tried to talk with girls and yet claim inceldom? Is this a volcel thread?
109087
 
Wait, you guys haven't actually tried to talk with girls and yet claim inceldom? Is this a volcel thread?
View attachment 109087
I also said "anymore", meaning I actually have tried to talk to them before I was this mentally fucked. Although I admittedly can't seem to do it now, not that it even matters since they'd reject me anyway(I've had zero success online as well).

Thing is, for me to be a volcel, it actually has to be voluntary. If a situation doesn't feel voluntary, nor does it seem so upon reflection, then it probably isn't. If a man told you that he is a khhv at nearly 25 years old, but it was entirely due to his own volition and choice, would you believe him? At least wizardchan would say "yes" anyway.
 

Similar threads

M
Replies
47
Views
1K
Rapistcel
Rapistcel
SuperKanga.Belgrade
Replies
30
Views
748
DutchCel01
DutchCel01
exposesociety
Replies
28
Views
1K
Sungnodius
Sungnodius
fullofchagrin
Replies
26
Views
1K
Arkansasmentalcel
Arkansasmentalcel

Users who are viewing this thread

shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape5
shape6
Back
Top